Would you date a virgin girl and wait until marriage?

[Babygirl_S]

Yes

No

[GlassTop]

Not only would I wait, I would respect her more and be satisfied knowing she doesn’t have std’s and is a virgin. I would treat her like gold and would ask her hand in marriage after just 6 months of dating if we clicked. I wish more girls would respect themselves so that we could go back to the chivalrous 50’s.

[Bluebobb]

Ohh get a f*cking grip. Just because a woman or man enjoys sex doesn’t mean they don’t respect themselves. Living in the Stone Age.

[GlassTop]

@Bluebobb why mad? Be happy

[ObscuredBeyond]

@Bluebobb : You don't understand self-respect. Indulging in sex recklessly, because you place the impulse above self-care and regard for others, is very much a lack of self-respect.

[Berethor]

If she virgin then she worth the wait, unless she is asexual and only use it as an excuse.

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[Malgaran]

I wouldn't no, its honestly just stupid as hell. Like its fine if people wanna go about life this way, you do you of course, but I would wanna know the person I'm marrying before I marry them. Sexuality can be such a big part of people and if you haven't explored yourself, each other in advance you have no idea if you really match that way. You can easily and pointlessly set yourself and this marriage up for failure before it even began. Cause if you take marriage seriously then you should definitely really know each other before you marry.

[ObscuredBeyond]

If she is truly a virgin, I'd definitely insist on it. If she's a serial monogamist who's had some bad luck, and is most definitely not a virgin; I'd be more open to suggestion to do *some* activities a bit sooner. But I'd want the most potentially child-producing of activities to be spared until the wedding night or the night immediately before it.

Because as much as I enjoy sex, I would want her and me to have our act together before bringing a child into the world. Just a part of the responsibilities that come with parenthood.

[FTnWo]

Well I am already married but I'm thinking if I wasn't and if I met a girl and we started dating well I guess if I liked her enough I would wait as long as it took and I know that I would definitely know her well by then and if I still wanted to get married to her it would definitely be worth the wait because if the time ever came when the sex wasn't satisfying at least I still have this wife that is my best friend too because I married her for her amazing personality and not because I was pussy whipped so it would have a better chance at lasting I think because sex can always be pleasurable with the use of toys or fetishes or something like that but if her personality is shit well... you'll never be able to put a shine on it.

[Bluebobb]

Personally no because I want someone with a bit experience. No matter what people say good sex is important it can make or break a marriage. Maybe if it was another virgin then I guess that could work you could learn together. However I don’t understand this waiting till marriage. Sex is natural and nothing to be ashamed of. Waiting doesn’t make you better all it does is make you inexperienced.

[Hairylegs222]

I've already been in a relationship to where it was exactly that. She wanted to wait to have vaginal sex until marriage. We did other sexual things though. Handjob, bj, etc. I respected what she wanted and that was fine with me.

[Citizenkirk]

I would never wait until marriage to try sex with a partner. That would be irresponsible not to find out if we are sexually compatible.

[Lionman95]

Yes for sure.
Sex isn't everything and I couldn't enjoy knowing she's not ready for it.
So I'd wait for her.

[rooster44]

I punched the V card a long time ago. It's to late to play the waiting game for me.

[molonski2]

OMG -- No way , I dont hold marriage in that regard.

[AndrésC64]

No, it would be crazy to do so. Maybe your sex drives are completely incompatible. Maybe you like different things. Maybe one of you doesn't like sex at all.