Returning the favour?

[tashyred]

There is this junior from college (20) who agreed to do all my assignments amd projects for the fall with a deal that i spent a dinner date with him in his uncle's farmhouse after the session was over. I kept my word but my friends came to know about it and they are like treating me so differently now.

[Amy10223]

That is because they might have thought you were being a bit lazy to let someone else do your work for you. They are not doing it out of meanness. They are treating you differently because they might have not known you would succumb to something such as that. I hope you were safe with that young man. Going to a stranger's house for that was a bit dangerous.

[Nazorella]

Sound really romantic and cute guess they get jealous about it. So don’t care.

[the_bruh]

They might think you're using your pretty privilege to make your life easy while they have it hard. Like the blacks in 1980s.

[tashyred]

Okay

[Lonewulf57]

It's none of their business. You kept your word on an agreement, and that's all that matters.
I hope you enjoyed it?

[tashyred]

It was a bit more than i expected

[Lonewulf57]

so... you didn't enjoy it? If so, I'm sorry to hear that.

[tashyred]

Its not entirely that.. it was more to do with how i am

[Lonewulf57]

Aha. I see. Sort of.

[exitseven]

What you did was unethical. You cheated to get through a course. I would think differently about you too.

[Srij23]

Yaa they think you leveraged you attractive body for assignment and they are jealous of you. Or feeling inferior about themselves. Either way it's a common problem faced by attractive young and successful women.

[tashyred]

In a way yes

[AnthonyJ01]

You should go with your word. Keeping your word is more important. Your friends sound like they could be jealous of you giving you attention elsewhere.

[tashyred]

Yeah n the fact that its a younger guy

[AnthonyJ01]

When there is someone new in your life it happens.

[tashyred]

He isn't a boyfriend.. just a junior whom i returned a favour

[AnthonyJ01]

I personally keep my private life secret. I learned years ago to never speak of it. The other issue is others and many form their own opinion.

[tashyred]

Agreed

[AnthonyJ01]

I had that issue even with my own son. He formed his own opinions about someone

[AnthonyJ01]

I tried to straighten it out. But younger people. Even up in children form ideas and it is hard to change once they have.

[noohair]

It is an ethical thing to these people. You sold yourself in a way. It is like screwing your way to the top. What did you expect. Respect for not doing work. It is also a form of cheating.

[Wise4myage]

Sounds romantic to me and your friends are jealous.

[tashyred]

Okay.. thanks for the comment

[Cowboy6666]

They are jealous to see you having sex with that guy soon ;)

[BigTimer]

It’s your life not theirs. Don’t worry about it.

[Iron_Man]

Are they happy for you or are they jealous

[Jamie05rhs]

He did all that just for dinner?

[Tstrbrainer]

That's great, your friends are just being silly

[wowzao23]

hmm i dont really iunderstand whAT you mean

[innerman]

its the 21st century