Is he asking me out on a date or just a hang out?

[Anonymous]

he said “maybe we can grab a bite to eat or something”. So is he asking me out or should I not get my hopes up?

[Anonymous]

Hang out, or date? It has to start somewhere. What would YOU like to come from your interaction? That's what's most important. If you're not interested in anything more with him, that's where it'll end... unless he plans to relentlessly pursue you and win you over with his charm. Would you like that, or are you only interested in hanging? Maybe he only wants to hang at first to get a feel for your vibe about him. Only you know the answer to that. If you're interested, give him a chance. You'll never find more of you don't try. A missed opportunity is just that... missed.

Good luck.

[Wise4myage]

Go on the date, but don't have high expectations.