Should I date someone I have no physical attraction to?

[Anonymous]

I feel so confused. The guy I don’t want is putting in effort and the guy I have good sex with is not. What should I do?

[Fireguy17]

Looks change over time, how someone treats others usuallydoesnt.
Who would you rather be with, somebody that treats you and others like crap, is more into themselves than you, or someone that treats you well, is attentive, makes you laugh and is there for you good or bad, and feels lucky to be with you?

[Asker]

The good guy doesn’t make me laugh tho. The one I feel attracted to makes me laugh and we have fun

[Fireguy17]

tough call on this one!
don't be in a rush to decide.

[abc3643]

No, of course not. Meanwhile, please stop spamming. You asked this question not 20 minutes earlier.
Guy I don’t like asked me out and I have a boyfriend? ↗

[Schizoaffective]

what's the point in dating someone you don't lust for
it's like forcing yourself

[MCheetah]

No. If you hate him and feel no attraction to him, don't waste his time and let him find someone who'll actually like him.

[Asker]

I don’t hate him just don’t want him. I don’t know him either.

[Staximus]

You think physical attraction is going to matter when you're old? You better start looking for more more important qualities than that, you're not in high school anymore.

[Waldoe]

go on 3 dates... then decide let him know up front that you have doubts, but will go on 3 dates, just to see if there is a chance

[wonderingoldman]

The question is do you want someone who'll stick around as long as the sex is good, or do you want someone who'll stick around because they think you're good?

[Hellraiser1984]

Which one makes you feel good about yourself and treats you nicely.

[AndrésC64]

Give the guy who's putting in the effort a chance. Who knows, he may end up rocking your world.

[msc545]

Find a third guy that you want AND that you have good sex with.

[Cowboy6666]

I would suggest to see guy with good chemistry, personality etc.

[Naimgood]

Haha how meant guys are you sleeping with

[Wise4myage]

That's a waste of time in my opinion.

[UdontNeedtoknow]

Fallow your heart and instincts.