Can a 8th be with a 10th grader?

[Anonymous]

So basically im in 8th grade but im 15 and my birthday was late so they held me back and a guy im talking to is in 10th grade and 16 so is that bad if we dated?

[ohshee]

Wait wait so wait a minute so your birthday was late for every single one of my birthdays where late so what does that mean does that mean that I'm not supposed to be here right now I'm supposed to be way back there oh my God no wonder why I'm so messed up LOL

Okay so I'll let me be serious you can get anybody you want just remember this a tenth grader is going to try everything in his power to get in your pants they're not ready for commitment they don't even know what's going on in the world the odds of him wanting to be with you for more than 6 months are very slim okay there's the negative part
The other thing is it's your body you are the boss of you and your body if you decide to have sex if he does not wear condom he cannot have sex that's what you have to get in your head because if you get pregnant he's not going to be there for you I'm sorry this is such a downer answer but it's the truth 100% the truth and I'm just looking out for you I'm trying to protect you sounds stupid but it's the truth just pay attention to everything he says if he lies to you he will tell you the truth in the same sentence but just remember it's your body you are in control of it don't let anybody else take control of it because they will use you and when it's time for them to be there they won't be I'm sorry that I have such a stupid answer with it's the truth

[Asker]

Yeah your right

[ohshee]

But that's the sad part is I Don't Want to Be Right I'd rather see you go through

[ohshee]

Sorry I didn't get to finish that I'd rather see you get to experience Something Beautiful but with people your age the guys usually an ass and only wants one thing and that's what sucks about the whole thing I love your question I just wish it I didn't have to answer it the way I did but I've watched you many things happen

[Asker]

I think i should at least try and if all he does is bad things then

[ohshee]

I think you're one hundred percent right because that way you will get experience in learning how to read the situation that's why I said the things I said about the condom because I figured that you would go for it I would have done the same thing but just remember about the condom don't let anybody talk to you into not wearing a condom it's one thing having your heart broken it's nothing being pregnant and having your heart broken

[James899]

Not at all. Its doesn't matter when both of you are interested!

[taylorallen]

Just depends on how well you guys know each other and what the actual scenario and everything is. Also depends on the people themselves, not so much the age when it's only a year or two apart.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

The age is the most important factor. You’re 15 and he’s 16. I don’t see an issue with that, it’s just a year.

[PrettyPriya]

I don't see a problem with that. You are almost the same age. Make sure you still focus on your studies. There are always time for boys.

[Nagahime]

Since you're both close to the same age, I don't see an issue here.

[Better_off_here]

it is only a year difference and i guess i think that if he wants to date you for the right reason than go for it.

[nawtee_me]

nope not at all... enjoy...