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Did you always prefer dating someone much older or younger than yourself? (Page 2)
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Well, I guess this changes when you get older (I sure HOPE it does), but most of the guys I know who're my age are just very immature and usually not very bright. So I'd have to say older for sure, at least for now.
It doesn't change much lmao
No, it doesn't. Hahaha
Hey! Us older guys can be just as immature as any fourteen year old boy!
I'm shy to admit this in rl or to anyone I know, but I've been attracted to older men since I was like 10. First I had a crush on older guys at school, then I started finding some teachers attractive, now in college I still find older guys attractive. I don't know why.
Did someone molest you as a child?
Why?
Yes, but it was a woman.
I have had adventures mainly with older.
Dating older usually will let u see stars. :)
I can positively vouch and say that the older one in a relationship will know exactly how to push the buttons of the younger one to make the younger one float in heaven.
Before my current husband the youngest guy I was ever with was a year and a half younger than me. My husband is 16 years younger than me. Never in a million years did I ever dream I'd even consider dating a guy that much younger, let alone marry him (and have 2 kids with him).
Youngest i dated was like 4 years younger. I couldnt believe i tried that shit. And he stayed cryin about “do you still want to be with me?”
I got sick of that shit and said no more exceptions to the rule
I think it depends what your plans are right? If you plan to have kids then yes it makes sense to keep it to the same age. But if you're looking for a partner in life it's so hard to tie it down to anything. A woman to bear my kids would just be a womb, I want someone I can love and respect and be with forever, and I've dated anywhere from 19 to 38 at my own age
you're right
I have always wanted to date a girl who was older than me. I don't know why, but I just like the more mature, stoic, and relaxed type of girl who drives you crazy whenever she stares at you all seductively. The one that goes slow and likes it whenever you get driven crazy by her actions, but doesn't allow you to have your fun until she's done claiming you.
Fucking hell..! :0
Oooo
Tried that once - I was 19, she was 33, pre-divorced with a kid. Long story short - she mistook me for her property, so I ended it quickly. Never again with such a difference. Much younger than me - maybe, if he/she is up to setting sex records. But much older than me - never again.
Why not same age
Same age is kind of implied. Goddess Melissa is almost the same age as me, so... :)
But the question was about age difference, so I answered about age difference. ;)
It varies from time to time. When I was in grade school never thought a out age. Once I graduated I dated guys my age range, then switch to older, now I'm back to preferring a guy my age.
With older men from my experience they have children. So they don't want anymore. Even though I don't like kids I still want the option🤣🤣
I feel you on that. Like i hope to marry but if i dont, im still tryna have a kid in the next year or so. After i have my kid, im tryna date dudes who are done with that aspect. Gone and let me get some dudes who had a vasectomy lol
Are you planning to adopt, IVF, or sperm bank? 🤣 my friend had a vasectomy. Before even having one kid said he knew he didn't want them. I'm like wow dude have at least one. But I guess he can always adopt if his mind changed
It's okay if age matters to you. It matters to everyone. I'd date someone much older than me rather than younger, ofc. I can date someone younger than me but he has to be at least 18.
I’d only go 3 years younger. That 5-10 years younger can't happen til im at least 35 haha
It’s always been older for me. I just can’t see myself being with a guy who’s younger than me It wouldn’t feel right, mentally. I always saw myself as being with an older man whether he’d be 3-4 years older than me or 10 years. i just like mature men, physically they’re more appealing but I know there’s women out there who like men that are younger than them but not me.
Older doesn't always equal mature but yea i mainly prefer same age or a little older. Younger is a good bonus
Mature in some aspects.
age doesn't matter as long as there's compatibility in the way of thinking and life style.. I've been with both older and younger and I've dated people at the same age of mine. the conclusion says it all depends on the person. what they want and what life style they enjoy living. a girl can be 10 years older or younger than me and have no intention of settling down. or the inverse. it totally depends on the SO.
I get along great with 60 year olds but i won't be dating one. Lmao tf
its ur freedom of choice 🤷♂️
Honestly I'll probably be attracted to girls as young as 18 until I'm like 50. The only thing that has changed is the oldest age I find attractive. So age isn't much of a concern for me, beyond which girls would date me for MY age.
But what can a fresh out of high schooler really do for you
It’s always been older for me. I just can’t see myself being with a guy who’s younger than me It wouldn’t feel right, mentally. I always saw myself as being with an older man whether he’d be 3-4 years older than me or 10 years. i just like mature men, physically they’re more appealing but I know there’s women out there who like men that are younger than them but not me.
They have to be like 1-3 years younger than me cause those always look the same age as well. But i’ll always prefer same age or 1-3 years older first and foremost
You lazy brat get a joke n and stop living off older man. Seriously I don't understand what man my age 29 - 30 see in you younger woman you Woman are useless for wife material you don't cook or clean and. you still expect daddy to pay your bills.
@Alwayreckles93 ma'am 💀 Im 20 and like men who are at least 23-25 at the moment. Im hispanic and can do all of those things whether I wanted to or not since that skill has been implemented since I was a kid. go take your anger out on a tree or something. touch some grass.
@Alwayreckles93 if you're insecure about younger women just say that. same goes to women who are cougars and like younger men. same story.
depends sometimes older guys can be as immature as younger guys sometimes, depends on what kind of things they been through, if they are jaded by it, or just keep going with just finding the lesson in it.
It's not at all a preference, but I have ended up dating guys 20 - 30 years older than me.
I assumed they'd be much more mature than the guys my age. I was always wrong. 😅
Yep age and maturity dont go hand in hand like we think lol
I've noticed! 😅
no because i go along the path of least resistance if i were 27 instead of 38 i'd wait until i was at least 30 to start havin kids to make sure i was ready and that way i could save and make what i needed to in order to be prepared for motherhood because parentin today is very expensive
Some people save early and have kids in their 20s
I always wanted to date someone older. I never wanna be with a younger one one unless they're a gift from the Lord. Much older? I dont want to care for a grandpa, but I would not mind someone in their late 20s - mid 30, s
What about like 1-2 years younger than you
That's actually fine then, but I'm 19 right now and any younger will land me a sentence :P
😂😂
I did both. Whwn i was 23 i dated an 18 year old. Same year i dated a 29 year old and was so much more fun. But i ended up marrying someone that us 4 months younger than me 👌 it's perfect
Thats good yalll are so close in age
@DizzyDesii well for me I would prefer dating a lady who is 5 or 10 years younger than me. Because I wouod not want to be like some guys out there who date there grandmothers 😆😅 agewise.
Though am one of those guys who say that age foes not matter if she is older than me by 5 too.
Hold on lol you said that who’s had a vasectomy you can settle with him Fuck outta here lol. Why am I chopping my tunes off 😂😂😃😃😃
I dont want more kids after a certain age lol
Lol so a man who finds you better be able to nut real quick haha ha okay for me I need 6 but I hv none yet
😂😂😂
Yeah bro same here 🤣
Seriously 😑 Why? Aren't we beautiful mature 29 year olds good enough for you? We cook and clean take care of you yet you go out chasing after stupid younger woman with STDs that don't work empty your wallet , don't cook or clean. Why?
@Alwayreckles93 SHUT KAREN U R OLD!!!
Yeah bro lol
@Tornado92 hahahah you do understand pretty well bro welcome to the club. 👍
@Alwayreckles93 maybe I have not yet crossed path a with you but I would propose that date so that I can get how you reason and how your personality is.
@Tornado92 hh so you prefer it when you're older.
Much older for sure. I’m quite mature for my age and I feel like most guys really do mature much slower than women do.
I know some immature ass women too tho. Once they hit menopause. Lmao they age backwards and become rude and immature af
Yeah it just goes to show that for some people age is just a number lol. People like that baffle me. 60 and moving like they're 16.