How do I cure my retroactive jealousy?

[Anonymous]

A certain degree of retroactive jealousy is normal, but I think I'm too obsessed with the thought that before she met me my girlfriend used to grind on friends or danced with strangers.

[Chris8670]

Try to live in the present moment with her and focus on enjoying her.

[Alyssa_11]

You have to accept it or be single. Everyone’s got a past.

[Asker]

And is it acceptable if it was not within a relationship?

[Alyssa_11]

She didn’t know you back then so you can’t take it personal. Also what’s important is she’s grown from it.