I never get jealous of his past. It doesn't even feel like he's jealous of mine, either. He's so judgmental and cruel that it doesn't feel like jealousy. I try reassuring him a lot. Telling him he's the best. I'm so loving, AND FAITHFUL! And nope, nothing. In his head, he's always right, I'm always wrong.
I didn't volunteer this information. He asked. And whenever he asks, I oblige and answer. It doesn't just stop there. He gets angry. He judges me. He gets cruel. He's not like other men who learn a hard truth, and get a bit sad, but that's it. No, he's cruel and judgmental, and thinks that whatever it is I did wrong before I was with him, gives him a right to name call me or do whatever the hell he wants. And it's not a one time deal: he asks the same questions over and over, goes through the same details and situations over and over!
I know the obvious answer would be to walk away, but I love him a lot. I know that some men have successfully overcome it. Why can't he?
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