I'm not a virgin, but I want my wife/girlfriend to be virgin, is that wrong? ( I don't think that it's wrong )?

[Anonymous]

Driver should be experienced, but the car should be new...

[CrazyGirl2]

Is it “wrong“ not necessarily… But it is hypocritical! Holding your future spouse to a standard that you yourself are not prepared to live up to? That’s just weak and shows a level of insecurity on your behalf that is actually rather sad. I’ve heard the ridiculous nonsense of guys on YouTube preaching “why pay new car prices for a used car“ yeah the thing is… Women are not cars we’re human beings, also you’re not buying your wife! Marriage is a mutual agreement between two people, and when one of those people treats his future marriage like a car purchase, even just in the analogy, then his psychological issues run even deeper than just the insecurity being afraid that he will never be as good a lover than her ex-boyfriend. And if you are THAT worried about it then the chances are, you never will be!

[Asker]

Men have to build themselves to get a place in dating market
Meanwhile,
Women are here fucking multiple men and doing almost nothing to get into the dating market

Women put 10,000 demands for a man

Man puts demands like
" She should cook "
U call them Misogyny, Patriarchy

" She should be beautiful "
U call that body shaming and unrealistic expectations

" Virgin "
U call that Misogyny

Current generation Most men don't even have any guts to put one damn demand in front of a woman

Plus i don't give a f. About her ex bfs

[CrazyGirl2]

I have NEVER said anything like those things, kindly do not ascribe words to me that I never said.
Especially when I most certainly did not say anything about misogyny, I said it was hypocritical! In fact why do you write “U call it” or U call that” I have never said anything of the sort! I’m not the coward who can’t even post his opinion without hiding my identity! So believe me, if I think something, you’ll know it, because it will have MY username next to it!

[Asker]

Keeping username private is not cowardness...

Even if I keep my username public
Nobody is going to know anything about me in real life and no one can touch me

And when I say " U " I don't mean u only
I mean, the whole modern world

[Bruski385]

10/10 take, well said!

[CrazyGirl2]

Then when talking to ME, don’t say “U say”. Because I didn’t! Also, since I don’t think that way, and a good percentage of my closest friends don’t think that way, you are also incorrect in ascribing these motives to ALL people! Come on… it’s basic logic, when dealing with human beings, human behavior, or human ideas, there is NO such thing as “ALL” or “NONE”. Especially since it only takes one person out of 8.4 billion to prove you wrong. And I would posit, that a lot more than just one feel similarly to myself!
Regarding the use of anonymous… look, if (as you write) “No one’s going to know anything about me in real life, and no one can touch me.” YES! I absolutely agree. Therefore the only possible reason for using “anonymous” is… Well come on, it’s not exactly courageous is it? What other reason (other than cowardice, or fear of repercussions) could possibly cause you to write some thing as inflammatory and asinine and as easily disprovable as that, if it’s NOT because you are afraid of the repercussions from people on GAG that you like and respect who happened to be female?

[Bruski385]

9/10 decent take. Forgetting to call him what he is, a misogynistic pig.

[Asker]

And u sissy cuckold, take ur ratings and put it in ur ass

And this is my final reply to u bruski,
I don't want to waste my time on u
My one day is bigger than ur whole existence

[CrazyGirl2]

@Bruski385 Thanks, and obviously he is, but calling him that gets me nowhere, heck he expected that, that s why he published it anonymously. He probably has a completely different attitude when his name is public. So calling him names just gets me shut down immediately, but engaging with him calmly and using logic and reason, then I’m able to dismantle his argument piece by piece… until I’m blocked anyway! Again, thanks 🙏🏼 ☺️

[Bruski385]

Fair enough. You are much more mature than I, kudos to you!

[Bruski385]

I hope your whole existence is worth not having a happy life. But probably not, you’ll just be chasing women until you get exhausting and your already tiny penis becomes literally unfuckable, I hope your happy while taking Viagra doesn’t even help anymore. But you know, your dumbass probably doesn’t even understand exactly what I’m saying. Have a happy existence and I’ll be here enjoying every single day of my life with my happy wife and soon to be children.

[CrazyGirl2]

@asker Just a little free (unrequested) advice: When you resort to calling people names, it actually looks like you lost the argument. It’s far better to ignore someone who bothers you that much. But if you DO decide to engage with them, just take their argument apart, dismantle it, show them why you believe that you are right #DebateClub (ooh, if one is in a debate with or against ten other teams… is that a #MassDebate?). Anyway, I wanted to ask you something, you said in your first reply to me that you “don’t give a F about her ex boyfriends” If that is true, then why do care so much that she be a virgin? And don’t just parrot those morons in Miami (with their condo “studio” filled with women every night) women are not cars, and there is nothing special about a hymen, it’s just a thin membrane that 80% of gymnasts, and 60% avid horse riders already tore, long before sex! So again, if you are truly not terrified of never living up to her memories of Giovani, the Italian God she dated while touring Europe… then what? And if you mention used cars, I’m definitely comparing you to a Pinto. 😂😘

[Asker]

1. There is nothing to win or lose, I won't get any prize wasting my time with u or that simp
2. I'm not getting into the topic of hymen
3. " I don't care about her ex bfs "
Bcoz past is past
And past decides whether she belongs to the streets or not

And i don't give a fuck about what others say about me

[WonderBell99]

It's not “wrong” per se, but I would call you a hypocrite. A car doesn’t have its own free will, but a woman is a human being who makes her own choices. You yourself are not a virgin, then why do you expect your girlfriend to be one? I just don’t get it.

At the end of the day, it’s your preference. I didn’t know y’all measured someone’s worth by their virginity.

[Asker]

Yes, women can make their own choices but most of their choices are wrong

[bamesjond0069]

Men and women are different. Are women hypocrites since they would expect a man to face a home intruder before them or do you fully expect to face off with a burglar while your boyfriend stays back to call 911? Is that hypocritical too? Id say its not and fully correct to have that desire as a woman but if you want to treat men and women as the same then i guess women would be hypocrites too and therefore men are just as justified to be hypocrites ourselves. View it however you want to view it.

[WonderBell99]

@bamesjond0069 what does fighting off an intruder have to do with having sex? Not you making a stupid comparison 💀

[bamesjond0069]

Guess you're not capable of understanding basic English. I'd recommend take an English class and come back. Do you even know what the word hypocrite means?

[WonderBell99]

@bamesjond0069 I could say the same about you.

And yes, I very much do. The asker himself is not living up to his own standards, but he expects his girlfriend to be a virgin. Why is that?

[bamesjond0069]

As i had already said, men and women are two different things. If they aren't you could just date a woman and all is good right? But even if he wasn't living up to his own standards should a criminal be forced to date a criminal? Sometimes things are a mistake, doesn't mean you have to continue to support people making the same mistake. How stupid would that be. If one fails college then one must go around dating drop outs? It really makes no sense.

[WonderBell99]

@bamesjond0069 … so a woman could’ve had sex with multiple men before she met her husband, but she can expect him to be a virgin, right?

[bamesjond0069]

Absolutely. Not a common ask from women but props to her for her unique requirements in dating.

[Fireguy17]

Yep.
Both the car and the driver can be new and go down the highway just fine.
Your rationale is very flawed.
While it is ok for you to have sex, she can't.
Let's turn that around, why can't she be the one that has had sex, and you are expected to be a Virginia.
As you get older your available choices will be far and few between.

[Asker]

Men have to build themselves to get a place in dating market
Meanwhile,
Women are here fucking multiple men and doing almost nothing to get into the dating market

Women put 10,000 demands for a man

Man puts demands like
" She should cook "
U call them Misogyny, Patriarchy

" She should be beautiful "
U call that body shaming and unrealistic expectations

" Virgin "
U call that Misogyny

Current generation Most men don't even have any guts to put one damn demand in front of a woman

[Fireguy17]

I never had an issue getting a date.
Are you outside of the US?
I have found that making demands will not get you very far in life.
Relationships should function as a partnership.
They tend to be more enjoyable that way.

[bamesjond0069]

Nope. You sounds like a normal man. Stay that way even if feminists yell at you. Otherwise you will turn into a cuck eventually.

[Asker]

Finally I saw a MAN here...

But to be honest, it's very hard to find virgin women

[Berethor]

Virgin girls are best.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/NatureAdoresAVirgin

[SnakeBoop]

okay, its wrong because of how you seem to think women are the same as an inanimate object.
you sound like someone no woman would want to be with. jesus

[Bruski385]

Have you seen his other replies? He’s either a troll, or misogynist.

[Asker]

Simp spotted bruski385

[Bruski385]

Rightttt simp for not being a misogynist. You seem to be compensating for something with all this “big dick energy” you got going. Get ready to be a sad old fuck when you grow up.

[Asker]

Look fool, we came alone, we die alone
I'm not afraid to live alone, not afraid to die alone

Being happy or sad is a choice

And u get ready to have ur mouth where another man had his penis😂

[Bruski385]

At this point, it looks like the only pussy you gonna get is loose hooker pussy as I can’t imagine any women loving you the way you currently are.

[Bruski385]

Also, ironically, my fiancé was raped the way you are describing. Probably by a guy who thinks very similar to you. And if you might think I’m calling you a Rapist, be assured I’m not, I’m saying that the mindset you have can easily lead to you raping a woman.

[Asker385]

I think it's wrong to shame a girl just for not being a virgin especially since you aren't but it's not something bad to want as long as that isn't the only thing you are looking at when you are getting in a relationship with someone.

[Asker]

Men have to build themselves to get a place in dating market
Meanwhile,
Women are here fucking multiple men and doing almost nothing to get into the dating market

Women put 10,000 demands for a man

Man puts demands like
" She should cook "
U call them Misogyny, Patriarchy

" She should be beautiful "
U call that body shaming and unrealistic expectations

" Virgin "
U call that Misogyny

Current generation Most men don't even have any guts to put one damn demand in front of a woman

[Asker385]

I have never demanded anything from a man except loyalty. I only advised that being a virgin shouldn't be the only thing he looks for in a woman her being a virgin or not shouldn't be a deal breaker. Not every woman in the dating "Market" as you call it just fucks men that's just the women everyone talk about. I never said anything about misogyny my point was to not focus just on her being a virgin and to look at personality and morals as well.

[Asker]

U demand nothing but loyalty?
🤣

Women don't mean what they say
U all say different things and do different things

[Asker385]

all i ask of my husband is he is loyalty and we have an amazing healthy relationship.
last i checked you're still single

[Bruski385]

0/10 bad take

[Asker]

U saying that u have happy relationship, great, I'm happy for u

But
Getting into a relationship is not an achievement, I have much bigger things to do in my life

My love, my lust is on money and success
Money will bring women
Women will never Bring money

When I'm single, I can go around with multiple numbers of women

There are approximately 4 billion women in the world
And i should be trippin over one woman in the name
" RELATIONSHIP "

HELL NO...

[Bruski385]

Soooo, it’s wrong for women to sleep with multiple men but not the reverse? -500/10 terrible take. Misogynistic pig.

[Asker]

Simp pig bruski385
Get ready to be a step dad lol

[Asker385]

and you are talking about the multiple people that women fuck so i guess that makes you one with how many people you fuck. look in the mirror you are doing exactly what you said the women do "fucking multiple people and doing nothing to get into the dating market" you talk about how women react when they have standards thrown on them but you are reacting just like them. are you PMSing?

[Asker385]

my grandma probably makes more money than you. you are probably living in the basement your mom is paying for.

[Bruski385]

Hahaha, I’ll invite you to my wedding then and show you how a real man should treat women.

[Asker]

Bruski, I don't wanna see u kissing ur girls ass and using the name
" real man "

And shawty, ur grandma makes more money than me and I'm living in my parents basement? 🤣

Go and cook for ur husband

[Bruski385]

I’d ask for your address so I can send an invite, but your probably too much of a pussy. Oh damn, would you look at that? You became the very thing that you objectify so much. What a shame.

[Bruski385]

If I’m a fake man for treating women like people, then I’m okay with that.

[Asker]

It again comes to the beginning point

Men are different women are different
Men need place to have sex, women need reasons and emotions to have sex,
She gonna carry all her past emotional baggage

That's why car should be new and driver should be experienced

[Bruski385]

Here’s the thing. A driver=person a car≠ a person, this point you got, is stupid as fuck.

[Bruski385]

That’s a terrible take. A relationship is not comparable to a driver and a car… especially while dating you are not controlling her.
However, it’s fine to wish for a virgin, just don’t let it be your personal standard, especially seeing how you yourself does not meet that standard. You would be creating your own double standard and it’s awful.

[Adam1978]

Not for wanting but it's certainly wrong to demand it.

[Asker]

Men have to build themselves to get a place in dating market
Meanwhile,
Women are here fucking multiple men and doing almost nothing to get into the dating market

Women put 10,000 demands for a man

Man puts demands like
" She should cook "
U call them Misogyny, Patriarchy

" She should be beautiful "
U call that body shaming and unrealistic expectations

" Virgin "
U call that Misogyny

Current generation Most men don't even have any guts to put one damn demand in front of a woman

[Adam1978]

Just because someone is delusional doesn't mean you should be too. If you aren't a virgin it's simply wrong to demand it from your partner. Let those women with 10000 demands die alone. Joining them won't solve anything. Keep your opinion but make sure you don't demand anything you can't match yourself. If a woman doesn't bring anything herself, go for someone else. Aslong as they can get away with nothing, expect to get nothing.

[IMuser]

Cars don't have free will, women have.
As long as the girl does not have any STD/STI, what is the point of her being virgin/non virgin?

If she has to cheat on you, then whether she is a virgin or not you will get cheated.

[bamesjond0069]

Virgin girls dont cheat unless you are a real pos loser.

[IMuser]

@bamesjond0069 that's true for the non virgins too

[bamesjond0069]

Lmfao ok good luck brah 😂

[IMuser]

@bamesjond0069 😂😂

[ChrisMaster69]

Your choice to be hypocritical

the other 20 yr old guy who is not a hypocrite, he gets married 10 plus years before you, has a kids and a family, is really happy.

[slatyb]

It’s ridiculous. How do you imagine that could be possible?

[Ez-Bri-Z]

Wrong? Iunno probably hypocritical at best. Your choice though.

[skyeee_]

you're idiotically stupid for thinking it's not wrong.

[CallmeTheKnight]

Something is wrong with you bro. There's nothing wrong with wanting a virgin, but your analogy is why you need to grow up.

[Andres77]

It's not wrong to want that but it's unrealistic.
And it's not fair to the girl.

[bamesjond0069]

How is it not fair?

[In_Trance]

I don't understand your logic, but I don't have to.
Whatever works for you

[NathanDavis]

it's wrong to be this idiotic

[Anonymous]

Yes, it is wrong to treat women like they are cars. Plus virgins should only date each other.

[Bruski385]

Ehh, it’s a preference thing honestly, there should not be a set standards for virgins.

[Opinion Owner]

When a virgin dated a non-virgin there is usually a power dynamic that unfolds. Whereby the non-virgin either takes advantage of the virgin or cheats on them. Thusly it is better for virgins to date other virgins to avoid such relationships. I get that it isn't 100% either way; but the disparity is great enough that your personal preference isn't enough reason to not follow this rule.

[Bruski385]

My fiancé was a virgin and I was not, I see your point, but I just don’t think that happens all the time.

[Hangry06]

It's just your preference

[driven159]

you can want all you want but you may not get

[bamesjond0069]

Yes but thats not the mans problem. Last i checked men aren't whining about not getting a wife. We just sleep around and dispose of women who don't meet our standards. Boo hoo im crying because i have to sleep with different women all the time. Not something i hear many men complaining about.