A boy had a big crush on me. He didn't add me on Instagram yet. But he keeps on posting his pics daily. Did he started liking someone else?

[Anonymous]

Doesn't he like me anymore?

[idkwhatsreal]

Stop relying on instagram To answer that question. it’s an app, it can’t decode your relationship with this person. Are you visible on instagram? And if he had a huge crush On You? Why aren’t you together? Did you reject him, and now are salty from the lack of attention you get now? Something seems odd. And why you won’t ask him is a strange approach since he definitely had the answer you are looking for. I don’t know. Good luck

[Asker]

Yes, I rejected him

[Asker]

I can't approach him because I lost his contact. I know only his Instagram but he doesn't know mine. But he have my contact but isn't contacting me because I rejected him

[Asker]

I just want to know if he moved on to some other girl because he recently posted some picture after being inactive on his Instagram for a long time. Did he started to impress some other girl? If yes, I want to drop out my hopes of getting back with him and will never look back at him. I just need this confirmation

[Bruski385]

Hmm, have you reached out to him? He might be scared or nervous to text you.
also, if you aren’t interested as well, taking the first step is a huge deal.

[Asker]

I just want to know if he started seeing someone else. He posted few pics on his Instagram. Is he trying to impress some other girl and did he lost his feelings for me?

[Bruski385]

With your information I can’t possibly answer with certainty He might have lost interest but I don’t know the guy so it’s hard to say. Could be scared, could’ve lost interest. If you like him, there’s no shame in reaching out to him about it.

[Asker]

I don't want to reach him out if he have lost interest or trying to impress some other girl

[Bruski385]

That’s fair, and understandable.
But the way I see it, if you don’t ask or reach out, there’s no potentiality for a relationship, but if you reach out there’s a chance.

[Asker]

I don't want to compete with some other girl's attention of him and I'm okay in leaving him to her

[Bruski385]

Then I think that answers that question.

[Asker]

I just want to know if he posted something without me, it means that he likes some other girl in his list right?

[Bruski385]

No it doesn’t mean that. It could mean a lot of things.

[Asker]

What else it can mean?

[Bruski385]

So much, like I said, I don’t know him so I can’t answer, it could be he hasn’t seen your request, could just be scared he’ll mess it up.

[Asker]

I didn't send him request anyways

[Bruski385]

Wait, did you add him?

[Asker]

I didn't

[Bruski385]

Then it could just be he doesn’t think to add you, he might think it’s creepy to search you up like that, most likely, he just doesn’t think to do it. Do you want a relationship with him?

[Asker]

He doesn't even know my account. So he cannot add me. He just have my contact in his mobile. He can reach me out if he wants to. But why did he post a pic of him when he had a big crush on me earlier? Did he move on to another girl? I'm just asking your guesses because no one exactly know what's going on in his mind but I want to know the truth by guessing

[Bruski385]

I honestly don’t know. I don’t know enough of the situation to say

[Asker]

Okay. Just for guessing, put yourself in position of him, in case if you post something on your Instagram, doesn't that mean you want some girl to notice you and doesn't that mean you don't have a crush on any girl outside of your Instagram anymore?

[Bruski385]

No, not necessarily. Besides, it is possible to like multiple people at once

[Asker]

Then he might not be the one that I wants. I want only a loyal guy who can be loyal with me even during the crush stages

[Asker]

@bruski385 I want to ask you one point. He still kept on his WhatsApp about column that he still misses me so much. Then why is he flirting with other girls and checking on multiple options now?

[Bruski385]

How do you know he is flirting and checking other girls out? Also, he’s single right now, he can do whatever he wants unless he gets in a relationship.

[Bruski385]

And if you haven’t explicitly told him that you want a relationship, he is not expected to be loyal to you.

remember, he does not know what you think. He may not realize you want to date him, so he doesn’t act on it.

If you want a relationship, communication is key, you cannot act like you are dating, and interested without telling him and expect the same interaction back.

So I think the best advice I can give you, is to stop asking me questions and ask him instead.

[Asker]

I only thought of loving him if he loved me and was loyal to me during the moments of one side love of him only. If he have no issues in checking out other girls or moving on with them, I also can check out on other guys and move on with a more loyal guy

[Bruski385]

Okay, your being an idiot.

[Wise4myage]

Why not ask him?

[Asker]

We don't talk.

[Wise4myage]

Then move on.

[Asker]

I just want to know if he moved on to some other girl?

[Wise4myage]

If you won't ask him, and he refuses to talk to you, then assume he's moved on and do the same.

[Asker]

I don't care if he moved on. There were days when he acted crazy for me but I don't believe in his love anymore if he moved to some other girl