He stopped asking me to hang out?

[Anonymous]

We hang out once a week. This week he didn’t ask me once to hang out. I know he’s not busy because when I ask how his day was he says “fine. didn’t do anything interesting.” The conversations are still the way they always are, and as usual I always text him first these days and he replies eventually. He used to text first but then stopped after a while but we were still hanging out. Low key feeling like he was just using me.

[LaNc3L0TT]

Nop, don't reach out again because reason of your going out was only "sexual". I keep contact with, sorry to say but girls for which I "use/hangout" only for sexual things when they are interesting after that when I burnout I stop contact and get bored. Is that retarded from me, yes it is. Anyway, if you keep reaching and you only hangout with that "sexual reason", in his eyes you will look depressing and willing to get used. Just move on from that situation.

[Asker]

Yeah I stopped replying to him. Thanks!

[Uptowngirl88]

He's not interested in you. What don't you get?

[Asker]

Yeah I cut him off thanks tho

[Uptowngirl88]

Trust your intuition. Your feelings are valid. He's a user. Do you like the guy you're dating? Why are you having thoughts of the ex?

[Asker]

No. I didn’t like him. He had a bunch of red flags so it’s best I don’t associate with him any longer.

[In_Trance]

So what are you asking here?

[Asker]

Well maybe I should ask HIM if he wants to hang out but since every time we hang out it gets sexual i’m kind of afraid that it’s all that he wants. So basically i’m asking if it would be smart to ask him out this time lol

[In_Trance]

have fun with that