Asked out. I’m sick and tired of the games and plus there’s no way I’m gonna make the first move. Even if my feelings for a guy keep building up with time and I’m holding it all in letting it build up. I actually do that
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I think the vast majority of guys would prefer that if a woman is interested in them she would take some initiative. It's flattering to anyone, male or female when someone shows interest in them.
I don't understand why women still don't take the initiative more often. Most still expect men to do it, which just makes women look bad because it reinforces the reputation modern women have earned for wanting to abolish all traditional gender roles except the ones that benefit them.
Depends what you mean by chasing. I believe it's a man's job to go after a woman at the start, but if it's not a push-and-pull then a man should stop. The girl actually has to encourage it by stopping and engaging a man from time to time. However, after about the 3rd date, it should slowly go to 50/50, and remain there most of the time. When it comes to dates, it is perfectly fine for a man to do 95-100% of the work as long as the girl is receptive.
in this scenario what do you think should be done-if a girl asks the guy for the first date then should he initiate the second or she should still chase him for the 2nd date
Honestly, I still like chasing if I know she’s into me. Chasing her is if she doesn’t like you is called stalking lol. I’d be fine with the woman chasing me.
I'd be down to be chased. Just then gotta be prepared to go on all the fun crazy places I wanna go. O. O and see. And put up with the pics of us on those adventures.
I'd rather do the chase. I've had people stalk me because they had giant crushes on me, or just become obsessed with me while I felt the exact opposite.
i did chase in the past but i feel so exhausted because in the past i was so giving and that person was a liar and cheater, so now i prefer someone who will chase me because i have self confidence issues as i was cheated on by that stupid person.
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Asked out. I’m sick and tired of the games and plus there’s no way I’m gonna make the first move. Even if my feelings for a guy keep building up with time and I’m holding it all in letting it build up. I actually do that
I think the vast majority of guys would prefer that if a woman is interested in them she would take some initiative. It's flattering to anyone, male or female when someone shows interest in them.
I don't understand why women still don't take the initiative more often. Most still expect men to do it, which just makes women look bad because it reinforces the reputation modern women have earned for wanting to abolish all traditional gender roles except the ones that benefit them.
Chased, far too many rejections to think anyone's interested in me, so now looking for someone who want's to prove me wrong.
Depends what you mean by chasing.
I believe it's a man's job to go after a woman at the start, but if it's not a push-and-pull then a man should stop. The girl actually has to encourage it by stopping and engaging a man from time to time. However, after about the 3rd date, it should slowly go to 50/50, and remain there most of the time.
When it comes to dates, it is perfectly fine for a man to do 95-100% of the work as long as the girl is receptive.
in this scenario what do you think should be done-if a girl asks the guy for the first date then should he initiate the second or she should still chase him for the 2nd date
Honestly, I still like chasing if I know she’s into me. Chasing her is if she doesn’t like you is called stalking lol. I’d be fine with the woman chasing me.
I'd be down to be chased. Just then gotta be prepared to go on all the fun crazy places I wanna go. O. O and see. And put up with the pics of us on those adventures.
It varies tbh.
i like doing the chasing but only if they know I am chasing and they want it.
then it’s more Hunter and prey so to speak lol
I never win the race so I give up before I even start. You usually see me sitting on the bleachers slackin lol
If i run too fast, he won't catch me. If i run too slow, he will think i am easy.
Maybe i should slip?
SoI have been taked iniciative with guys... And never been lucky... So i prefer been chased and then I can see how interested he is on me.
Asked out. These games will get me bored way too easily and I don't have time for shit nor do I wait around.
I am a man and have never been chased, it would be good to experience what it feels like to be wanted and persued.
I'd rather do the chase. I've had people stalk me because they had giant crushes on me, or just become obsessed with me while I felt the exact opposite.
i did chase in the past but i feel so exhausted because in the past i was so giving and that person was a liar and cheater, so now i prefer someone who will chase me because i have self confidence issues as i was cheated on by that stupid person.
I will do the chasing but I was really shy and closed up with girls and I appreciated the gentle nudge I got sometimes.
none!
if I do the chasing then that would mean I'm thirsty. but if she does the chasing then she must be needy
I did both but being chased is better for the ego if you know what I mean 😂😇
I've done enough chasing over the years and I'm tired of no reciprocation so someone else can do the chasing now.
I've never been chased before, I think I'd quiet like it!
Do the chase... The feeling of reward is greater when you have to work for it.