Who do you prefer doing the pursuing when dating: you or the other person?

[Still-alive]

So either way someone has to pursue the other when dating... so who in your opinion should do more of it?

By pursuing i mean this: they are usually the ones to set up dates, they usually bring up wanting a relationship first, they are the ones mostly moving things forward to being exclusive. that kind of stuff

I prefer the other person do most of the pursuing

I actually prefer to do the puruing actually

I like a bit of both but tend to like being pursued more than pursuing

I like a bit of both but tend to like pursuing more than being pursued

I like being pursued and pursuing equally

[melanieeeB]

I like being pursued.
I don't mind shooting my shot and have done that plenty of times in the past but out of my own experience 98% of the men I asked always just said yes, even if they weren't really interested and so not once did it work out in the long run, just a first casual meeting.
But if I'm the one getting asked out...
I know he is asking me out cause he is truly interested and I'm not just going to say yes, only if I'm truly interested back, so the chances of this working out is higher

[BlueScorpio]

Oh my in in so shy about about this lol I say anyone can go for it if they are interested.

[Guy13]

The guy... I'm not setting a trend where she thinks she can dominate me in this modern feminist movement in this day. Women prefer man being a man anyway.

[Akam93]

I definitely agree. :) I'm not no modern feminist either.

[Guy13]

@Akam93 So you are a yesteryear feminist of the 60s? Don't get me wrong... I like a woman who is not afraid to lead when obvious needed. That's got a wild streak in her.

Ideally, find the woman that i can say, "here's the household assets, manage them"-which includes rental income. I have enough of Accounting procedures at Work with other people's monies...

[Akam93]

I'm not feminist at all. I do have problem managing money but I've been doing better through out life.

[Guy13]

@Akam93 You sound like a right-hearted individual. Typically, they are open and easy to train. I'm traditional so one who wants to work part-time, volunteer, absorb herself in her hobby, enjoy her home no questions asked time, and etc suits me well.

[Akam93]

So would I be the right woman for you then? :)

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I prefer the other person do most of the pursuing.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Thanks for MHO :)

[CrazyGirl2]

I prefer it much more when a guy pursues me, but I’m not averse to nor afraid of me pursuing the guy. It’s just WAY TOO easy if I do the pursuing, the guys just say OKAY!

[menina]

I prefer the other person doing the pursuing.

[beebella]

Anytime I've tried to pursue someone, I've only ended up making a fool of myself. So, it's probably better if I don't do the pursuing. 😂

[Dinosaursandanime65]

I dont do dating. It’s just as cringe as getting gang banged by 4 separate teams in Apex Legends ranked

[llorando]

I prefer the other person do most of the pursuing.