There's was a time for it in my life, so at that point it was fine. Now I'm in an open relationship, so I can "date" whoever I want anyway, if I choose to and they're open to it. Just because I "can" doesn't mean I "do".
Waste of time and what's mean will come to you is not applicable in casual dating. It's just casual. You're doing it for spending some time with fun. I think it's good for people who don't have a girlfriend and don't want to be single
It would feel more relaxed. You go in with no expectations and just see how it goes. Sometimes you end up lucky and sometimes you don’t. It’s all about meeting people and seeing if “vibe” with you.
My intention for dating is to find my future wife, so casual dating is a waste of time for me. It only postpones what I aim for.
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As a short man, casual dating is pretty much out the window, but I think it would have been good for me because I wouldn't be searching for something long term.
Good and bad. I've racked up a lot of notches on my belt which was fun but finding a ltr while i can find them its almost impossible to find any that meet my very basic standards so i never intend to get married because i dont have to.
I think casual dating is fine if you can both not get emotional about it, I casually date, we are after all build to fulfill our needs. But when feelings come into it, it gets complicated, you then have to tell them to f@*k off.., lol.
I can't tell they're trashy, believe it or not. They act really sweet at the beginning and when I tell them 'no' to something I don't want to do they lash out. And that's when the harassment becomes. It's really odd, it's like they obsess over me and want to own me. I am not even trying to sound weird this is facts with every single guy I have dated.
casual dating is great! Swipe some chick off and app, text her while watching tv for a few days, go on a date and pick up some takeout, then take her home and smash
Lol how is that rape? Thats people meeting up. and casually having sex. You can't connect that to rape just cause you don't like that people do that. I would hate to be 30 and still virgin & nieve.
@Fuentes you would hate to be a 30 year old virgin? Ok. That's you. Definitely not me. I get enormous happiness and energy from thinking I have never let anyone touch me sexually.
I never said dont have casual i just said their is nothing unhealthy about being a virgin lol but i would not wanna be one cause i feel virgins in their older adult years are still nieve to dating because of it.
@Fuentes i said "I can literally vomit if I imagine me having casual sex. You told me that I should try casual sex. How would amy sane person advise me casual sex after I made it clear how dishusting it is to me. Don't be a creep, please. It's not cool.
Thats not being a creep thats me telling you that you should do it. Because being a 30 years old and a virgin is pretty old. See what i mean nieve lol you think im saying to have sex with me when i said you should go out and lose it lol get ahold of yourself
@Fuentes you are the one not understanding a thing. I said you ADVISED me. Yet you interpreted as if I said you OFFERED me. Now you are telling me to go OUT and lose it. Is that not casual sex? Your immature self tells me to lose my virginity to a stranger.
Go out and lose it 🤦🏻♀️.
Did you not see how many times I said how disgusting casual sex is?
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It´s bad for me because I have hard time doing so. I had bad luck with online dating and there are no places to meet single people in my area.
Well if I like someone a lot It just wouldn’t feel right knowing I’ll be with someone else. If you mean casual as friends who cares
I like to meet people from all walks of life, I don't actually date, that is for romance, I'm happy with what I have, I date for sex though
There's was a time for it in my life, so at that point it was fine. Now I'm in an open relationship, so I can "date" whoever I want anyway, if I choose to and they're open to it. Just because I "can" doesn't mean I "do".
Waste of time and what's mean will come to you is not applicable in casual dating. It's just casual. You're doing it for spending some time with fun. I think it's good for people who don't have a girlfriend and don't want to be single
I think it is a total waste of time and it is a delusional approach to finding a partner. Go big or go home baby! 💪
I don’t date for the sake of it so for me it’s a waste of my time.
It would feel more relaxed. You go in with no expectations and just see how it goes. Sometimes you end up lucky and sometimes you don’t. It’s all about meeting people and seeing if “vibe” with you.
My intention for dating is to find my future wife, so casual dating is a waste of time for me. It only postpones what I aim for.
As a short man, casual dating is pretty much out the window, but I think it would have been good for me because I wouldn't be searching for something long term.
What's your height?
5'5.
Honestly it’s not so bad
It's bad enough to where women will mind :(
I’m not too bothered about how tall a guy is but I’ll be honest I’m 5”7 so I want him to be at least a bit taller than me
So you would mind if a guy is 2 inches shorter than you?
Casual dating is like learning to ride a bike, before you buy a motorcycle... a very GOOD IDEA
Love that
Good and bad. I've racked up a lot of notches on my belt which was fun but finding a ltr while i can find them its almost impossible to find any that meet my very basic standards so i never intend to get married because i dont have to.
I've never been into casual dating even when I was younger. I prefer a stable and consistent relationship.
I would not know... never casually done anything like that
I don't do that anymore, it's a waste of time and energy for me.
I think if everyone is upfront with their expectations then it can be fun and a way to get out and meet people.
I think casual dating is fine if you can both not get emotional about it, I casually date, we are after all build to fulfill our needs. But when feelings come into it, it gets complicated, you then have to tell them to f@*k off.., lol.
Since you tend to go after trashy guys it's really bad I guess
I can't tell they're trashy, believe it or not. They act really sweet at the beginning and when I tell them 'no' to something I don't want to do they lash out. And that's when the harassment becomes. It's really odd, it's like they obsess over me and want to own me. I am not even trying to sound weird this is facts with every single guy I have dated.
Exactly, you somehow tend to pick the same kind of guys.
Is it because you go after the looks? 🤔
Actually my friend pointed out that my issue is I only like good looking guys. Not sure that’s an issue though. You like what you like right 🤷🏻♀️
True. There's no problem with that. Have you tried getting to know their personality and friend circle and hobbies along with relationship histories?
Yeah of course
You seem to have a bad luck with guys.
By the way what is that thing you say "no" to them?
Sex?
casual dating is great! Swipe some chick off and app, text her while watching tv for a few days, go on a date and pick up some takeout, then take her home and smash
I can literally vomit if I imagine me having casual sex. It is physically gross, morally disgusting and shows immaturity.
Sorry. I misread.
Still no.
I want to be concentrated only on one person
You should try it
@Fuentes try what?
Try going casual lol
@Fuentes casual dating?
Nah like getting smashed lol
@Fuentes sounds like stranger rape. No thanks.
Lol how is that rape? Thats people meeting up. and casually having sex. You can't connect that to rape just cause you don't like that people do that. I would hate to be 30 and still virgin & nieve.
@Fuentes but I was talking about ME not people.
If I am not mistaken you advised ME PERSONALLY no have casual sex.
@Fuentes you would hate to be a 30 year old virgin? Ok.
That's you.
Definitely not me.
I get enormous happiness and energy from thinking I have never let anyone touch me sexually.
to have casual sex**
I never said dont have casual i just said their is nothing unhealthy about being a virgin lol but i would not wanna be one cause i feel virgins in their older adult years are still nieve to dating because of it.
@Fuentes i said "I can literally vomit if I imagine me having casual sex. You told me that I should try casual sex.
How would amy sane person advise me casual sex after I made it clear how dishusting it is to me.
Don't be a creep, please. It's not cool.
Thats not being a creep thats me telling you that you should do it. Because being a 30 years old and a virgin is pretty old. See what i mean nieve lol you think im saying to have sex with me when i said you should go out and lose it lol get ahold of yourself
@Fuentes you are the one not understanding a thing.
I said you ADVISED me.
Yet you interpreted as if I said you OFFERED me.
Now you are telling me to go OUT and lose it.
Is that not casual sex? Your immature self tells me to lose my virginity to a stranger.
Go out and lose it 🤦🏻♀️.
Did you not see how many times I said how disgusting casual sex is?
Lol yeah so who cares if its someone u barely know as long as its consensual. It must be a language barrier or something
@Fuentes it can't be consensual with me.
So no. I don't want to be raped
What does rape have to do it is a suggestion that you should nobody said you had too. Is English not your first language lol?
@Fuentes i said I will NEVER give consent to casual sex. No CONSENT.
I will never have sex with a stranger as it is totally gross to me.
Thats cool its always your choice but you don't need to correlate that with rape because its not forced & thats a serious subject to be brought up
@Fuentes I meant it can't happen to me CONSENSUALLY