Why do many approach me assuming they are the one?

[cth2188]

I don’t know these people , but they just say maybe I’m the one exclusively on Facebook. I’m in a few private groups there. I tell them I’m not after dating or interested in anyone right now for a relationship. They more so start asking questions why I have been single so long..

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+1 y

Since putting my self back out there this is what I’m getting.. it’s not for a relationship it’s to get candid and have a social life because I don’t don’t online dating

[Carolus]

Because it’s the way it is, you just wasting your time thinking people can act 💯 logically, but we humans, we can’t, deal with it. Whether you got a ring pon your finger, you still get hit on. Being hit on as a woman is a thing that you have to deal with every day, so you have to do it repeatedly, you will have to keep putting off different admirers each day or week, it’s life.

[cth2188]

No one should be assuming I’m the one if I don’t know them nor never met them

[cth2188]

Seems kinda strange

[Carolus]

Love is a creation of the mind, whether you wanna call it infatuation or whatever, people fall in love with people they really don’t know or met, love at first sight exists. Not exactly how you believe it to be or how it should be, That’s how it is.

[cth2188]

I’m not after love or seeking it for all I know those people are catfish

[cth2188]

Still not healthy

[Carolus]

Then don’t get mad since they gotta keep coming and you be telling ‘em that repeatedly.

[cth2188]

Why wouldn’t I be mad? If someone comes in my inbox assuming I’m the one seems kind of desperate and or red flags

[cth2188]

You don’t assume someone is the one by looks you sound weird and no there is nothing wrong with someone being attracted to a person

[cth2188]

I say I have every reason to be mad and frustrated to a degree partially why I don’t date exclusively online dating

[cth2188]

People are strange nowadays I’m just in groups that’s it I don’t online date

[Siren777]

People could be asking questions because they're nosy. Sometimes they don't have any intention of it being that deep. You've stated that you're not interested, so I would say they overstep your boundaries. It's easier to just cut loose and move on.

[cth2188]

This isn’t being nosy this is desperation

[cth2188]

I’m not even looking the one

[cth2188]

Not looking for the one