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KillerrMike nailed it. Nice guys finish last. The saying is true and you will not be the one to change that. Its a simple formula: Girls like assholes because they're honest, don't bullsh*t and are confident in who they are and aren't scared of women.
Thats why all the jocks, musicians, hard asses, d***heads, assholes and Bad Boys get the girls (for the reasons I named above). Same goes for guys. Are you gonna settle for Susie Homemaker or the hott chick that has sex appeal and can turn you on no matter what she's doin.
And don't bullsh*t me sayin it doesn't matter because it does. Girls think the same way. They may look innocent but they're just as crooked as us. At the end of the day girls want a guy who's confident in who he is and can be a strong and smart decision maker. They want honest guys and they want someone who is not afraid to talk to their pretty asses. This is why the above mentioned bad asses get all the girls.
So getta hold of the qualities I just mentioned above. Good thing for you is that they're free. And trust me ... they work. And if you don't believe me, go out to a female hott spot and be straight up with the ladies. You'll notice the difference.
Because we Humans are still just animals. It`s cute to think that we are something better but we are not. The need to survive depends completely on breeding. You first have to hook up with someone before they will take you seriously. Think about after you have sex with somone for the first time how good you feel. So many hopes and whatever. You can not start off as a buddy, people don`t sleep with their close friends because they think of them as family and for your genes to become dominant you have to diversify. Google "chemical masks". It will make sense after that.
I think the reason guys mention this is because, even though they say they don't like it, it is their weakness. Maybe they find these girls appealing, appearance wise, and are on a mission to find a girl that likes to get dressed up, but there might be a chance could have a personality. Then, they keep finding themselves in the same situation: complaining about how they were wrong. I think mikess is right on the balance thing; a middle ground is what they are really looking for. They don't really want a girl that is anti ever dressing up, but are looking for a girl that can throw on a cute outfit and be confident in looking good. Naturally pretty girls, and not ones that might be quite frightful looking after they take off all the makeup.
I have this same issue.. especially in the freshman class in my school...(14) and my only answer for you is that boys will be boys and they tend to follow the crowd unless they are really something special. They feel safe dating girls like those their friends are dating... so they stick with that.. they are afraid of judgement just like anyone else
That doesn't mean they don't want a girl that isn't hot. Basically they want a girl that looks like them but has more of a personality. Be less of a friend and more of the hot chick and you can have more choice of guys.
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Girls do the exact same thing. They all keep talking about how they want a sweet and sensitive guy, and how they get turned off by the show offs, bad asses, the jocks, tough guys etc.
If that were true, I would'nt get any girls at all. What you think you want, and what you are actually attracted to are two different things. And don't try to tell me that only the "dumb" girls fall for guys like me. That's such a lame excuse.
Sure, I'll tell you I want a "good girl", but I'm not going to stop chasing the freaks.
Because they're not being totally honest. They want a girl who spends less time focusing on superficiality, not no time. They want a girl with some personality, not one obsessed with it. They want a girl in that middle ground. If you say that you are the opposite of what you described... maybe you should add a little superficiality to your life. Not a lot. Just girl up a little more.
You probably look and act more like they're pals than what they're used to looking for in a mate. So you probably just end up in the friend zone a lot.
because those are the onse that are competeing against you, they don't want you to get noticed. If you want to get noticed you have to somewhat do what they do or go where they go and be coompetative. They are out and about trying to get noticed in mass, where are you at and where are you going?
girls are the exact same, saying their tired of their boyfriend treating them like crap, then they go find another jerk to date
Just get there attention, make jokes be silly. As soon as they notice you they'll be all over you
because theyre all talk
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