Why are people surprised when I say I never wanna be in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

[Berethor]

Because loners are freaks, and girls tend to be obsessed with having a relationship.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Loners_Are_Freaks

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chick_flick

[Asker]

Yet women are more likely to be happy single…

[Berethor]

I think that you should get yourself a cat, if you don't already have one.

https://allthetropes.org/wiki/Crazy_Cat_Lady

[Asker]

Dont have one sadly, but id love one. I dont see how this is supposted to be a bad thing?

[Asker]

are you married? do u have kids?

[Berethor]

No I am not married or have kids but men tend to have more time for that than women.

[Asker]

So ur a loner? well im under 18 i have excuses, why haven't u found a woman? u do realise sperm reduces bc of age too yk?

[Berethor]

You right about the sperm but at least old men can have children, while old women don't. I am looking for a good woman, that is not easy to find nowadays, so that's why.

[Asker]

yeah right, let me guess: an 18 yr old virgin who will submit and do everything u tell her to do

[Asker]

And you’re a freaky loner…🌝🤣

[OlderAndWiser]

That usually indicates that a girl is in serious denial about her desires. Sour grapes syndrome.

[Asker]

Dude what? how? we’re not like men we dont NEED relationships to survive.

[OlderAndWiser]

Men don't NEED relationships to survive, either. But that's irrelevant to what I said.

[Asker]

You do tho, all you need is sex. So elaborate then.

[HawkPerception]

Well said @OlderAndWiser

[OlderAndWiser]

You are speaking from a position of inexperience and, more importantly, you are a minor so I will not continue this conversation.

[Asker]

Just say you’re offended

[OlderAndWiser]

I say what i want to say and i don’t take orders.

[Asker]

but u expect ur woman tov

[OlderAndWiser]

You are under 18 and teens usually think they know everything, but you don't know me at all, so you have no idea how I actually treat my partner.

[Asker]

thats always your excuse, just accept that adult aren't always right.

[OlderAndWiser]

Okay . . . explain how you know anything about me.

[Asker]

That you’re an old incel, like every man on this app.

[AI Opinion]

Helping folks navigate relationships and the wild world of communication is my game, so let's dive into this one! People often equate happiness with coupledom, thinking everyone’s goal is riding off into the sunset with their special someone. When you say you're not into relationships, it's like skipping dessert – unexpected! But if you're rocking your solo vibe and it makes you smile, that's your jam. Just keep those around you in the loop; they'll understand, even if it takes a minute! 🍰💫

[capriVib]

Even when you say you don't even want a relationship, deep down you actually do. It's just that you haven't met someone decent who meets your standards yet. You're still kid; I'm sure you'll admit you want one as you approach 20.

[Asker]

I dont tho lol. No man will ever meet my standards lol. Nope, im not a man i dont need a relationship.

[jshm2]

Because at your age you ought to know better. You are born into multiple relationships with your parents, relatives, etc. So you will always be in some sort of relationship.

They probably thought you were trying to be edgy, or drama.

[Asker]

Obviously i meant romantic relationship bro

[lightbulb27]

it doesn't make sense to them, it is not the natural order.

it just means there is something wrong and neither you nor they know what it is.

whats wrong is usually fear... by way of conditioning.

[Purpleronnie]

I wouldn’t be , your profile says your under 18 .. I would encourage not having a relationship

[BruceWayne32123]

You’re under 18 you don’t need to be in a relationship right now

[Asker]

exactly, thats why ill never be in one

[BruceWayne32123]

That’ll probably change when you are a little older though.

[Asker]

yeah no, men aren't gonna be any better by then.

[BruceWayne32123]

I mean… you’re probably not wrong there

[Asker]

exactly

[BruceWayne32123]

We aren’t all bad. But most are

[Asker]

good ones are already taken

[BruceWayne32123]

I’m sure you’ll find someone when the time is right. In the meantime just enjoy being young!

[Asker]

highly doubt that lol

[BruceWayne32123]

Haha trust me

[Asker]

nah lol men are even worse when they’re older. As soon as i get a wrinkle they’ll go back to 18 yr olds, so whats the point?

[BruceWayne32123]

Haha you are being way too negative!

[Asker]

simply being realistic

[BruceWayne32123]

Well like I said. Enjoy being young while you can.

[Asker]

and do what? everyone tells me that but nobody says what i should do, everything i do now i can do in 10-20 years too.

[BruceWayne32123]

Just enjoy your youth while you have it. It goes quick. Don’t worry about guys right now.

[Asker]

yet another one ignoring my question

[BruceWayne32123]

I wasn’t ignoring it… I answered it. I said you’re young and you don’t need to worry about relationships right now

[Asker]

Im not worried about them, and u never answered the question.

[BruceWayne32123]

I’m not surprised you don’t want to be in a relationship. You’re young. Put your focus elsewhere right now.

[Asker]

I am. Im just confused when you guys say to enjoy your youth like i can't enjoy life any other time

[BruceWayne32123]

You can. But you’re only young for so long

[Asker]

I can what? can u just answer the question?

[BruceWayne32123]

I thought I already did.

[Asker]

u didn't

[LiamS95]

Probably because it's basic human nature to want and need a relationship with a loving partner.

[Asker]

not for many nowadays, wonder why…

[LiamS95]

It's not much different now they just tend to live together in a common law marriage relatio nship rather then actually getting into a married relationship.

[Asker]

Studies prove women are more likely to stay single and happy

[LiamS95]

Yeah the studies done by single women

[Asker]

You seriously can't believe women dont want to be with men because we’ve realised how incapable you are?

[Asker]

Exactly like every other male, won't take any accountability.

www.oprahdaily.com/.../

[beefcakebradybatson]

I wouldn't be;lots of folk are tired of or shy about being in a relationship.

[Anonymous]

Because most people do want to have a relationship.

[queenofcardio]

People usually change their minds

[Asker]

not me lol