Anyone else feel the same?
Am I the only one who doesn’t want a relationship ever again?
Anyone else feel the same?
Well, what kind of men are you dating? Also, if there's a pattern, it's usually a you problem. Are you not creating enough excitement in the relationship, not putting out enough (that's a big one for men), etc?
I know it sucks as I just went through a breakup a while back and I don't know what your personal experiences are, but I always end up higher on the dating ladder with each breakup (I'm now going out with 1 new girl on average a week - that's all through approaching in person by the way). The girl I'm talking to was the former Miss teen Florida (she's in her early 20s now). So, in the long run, I won't regret it because I always reflect and improve whatever my mistakes are.
I don't know how attractive you are, but women (even if they're just average looking) are born with value, whereas men have to create it most of the time (barring men in the top 5%), so I don't show too much sympathy for women in this specific category.
My last relationship was pretty awful looking back at it now but even so whenever I see what my parents have I want that and I want kids a legacy, a wife and all that so I still stay open to being in a relationship I'm not just lot more cautious about who I choose to be with I guess and I stay true to me standards. Where as in the past that wasn't necessarily the case.
There are lots of bad people in the world and even worse partners but there are good people out there to and great potential partners to and I'm not going to deprive myself of that. If that door opens and everything looks good I'll walk through it.
Navigating the turbulent waters of modern love and commitment can feel like swimming against a rip current sometimes, can't it? With social media flaunting highlight reels of perfect lives and seemingly endless options, it's easy to feel disillusioned. The fear of someone not being 100% faithful is real, but let me offer a glimmer of hope. Not everyone is out to break hearts. It's true, social media has changed the game, but at its core, love is still about connection, trust, and vulnerability. Taking a break and focusing on yourself is not only healthy but necessary at times. Who knows? Over time, you might just bump into someone who hates lovebombing and ghosting as much as you do. Remember, love often finds us when we least expect it, and not all stories are the same. Keep your heart open, even if it's just a crack. 😉
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Me neither. It's not about faithfulness for me. I just don't think I can start all over again. I'm not someone who can jump from one person to another easily and subtle changes affect my mental peace a lot. So it's not easy for me to give the same effort that I once gave.
That’s exactly how I felt
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Social media and dating apps have ruined dating. With too many options at a person's fingertips, many people looking for relationships claim that apps have made dating a slog — swiping culture, recycled small talk and inevitable ghosting.
Nowadays many men and women are seeing/dating multiple people and have rosters so they find it hard to pair bond with one person and remain trustworthy and faithful.
Thanks for the upvote @strawberrybaby3
I would say no but at the same time I don´t think the modern day is hopeless. It just takes time. The problem is in my view that social media mainly destroys people´s patience in any way. People have it way harder to focus on just one person when there´s pornografic material and chances to cheat everywhere.
I don´t think the situation is hopeless but I get where you come from and I understand your position.
You didn't try every man in the world to judge that all are unfaithful scums. Yes if you r after the hunk or the rich guy why would they be faithful? They have nothing to lose if they r unfaithful. What the wife will dump him? he will get a new one.
Count me in since i have a big issue when it comes to trusting someone and i believe that real love is only found in fairy tales or they are extremly rare...
If the girl in your profile photo is you than don't you think that your pants is too tight? 🤔 why do you girls wear such things?
While you're not the only one, it does seem like a defeatist attitude. NEVER GIVE UP
You could easily find a guy who would be faithful to you, but he won't be Chad Thundercock. It is really disgusting that you would rather die alone than be with an average man. This is how feminism and social media are destroying civilization.
Who it’s disgusting to you? I’m so very sorry that me not wanting to be with anyone has affected you so bad
It doesn't directly affect me personally it's more a matter of principle and the fact that you are selfishly contributing to the decline of civilization, just like how I hate child molesters even though I was never molested.
LMAO alright.
You are definitely not the only person who feels that way. But I would just encourage you to give yourself time to heal and try to keep an open mind about love.
Too many people are needlessly shutting doors out of fear of being hurt.
It is harder but I have faith that we will find that special honest and faithful person. lol it may take a long as time to find them. Work on yourself and try to improve yourself and attract people that will make you a better person
I'm pretty sure most people aren't meeting each other on social media, they meet in real life. If you keep picking shitty guys, you need to learn how to pick a good one.
Clearly didn’t understand what I said. Never said people don’t meet in real life and actually a lot of relationships do begin by both people meeting on social media such as Instagram, bumble, tinder etc. I’m saying that while you’re with somebody , social media has made it so easy to have access to other people and a lot of people end up cheating that way.
I know so many people who meet on Instagram lol. And sometimes people are very good at manipulating. It isn’t always just that easy to get to know somebody before emotionally investing into them; because some will get you hooked , then once you’re attached, that’s when the true colours come out.
That would be statistically improbable regardless of what you were asking.
But at risk of overstating the obvious... no, you're not the only one. I quit that nonsense 10 years ago.
I am certain there are a lot of people who have given up, but I am not one. I see each person as an individual and would not assume one is disloyal because another has been.
You might meet a person that could make you think different!! A few bad experiences shouldn't keep from giving yourself the chance to meet someone again
I do not feel the same. I understand your perspective though but I 100% want to have a wife and family
What what makes you feel this way is it you last relationship
Yes that’s why
I feel you on that
Probably not, but who cares? I don't? Good luck being lonely I guess.
I guess that depends on what you consider 100% faithful
I don’t want a serious relationship by choice. I enjoy being with different lady friends.
In most respects I have to agree with you.
This is because you are chasing Chad's.
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