She was keen on me, now she’s not talking after I hurt her? (I made a mistake)?

[Anonymous]

I (22) knew this girl (19) from a mutual friend, we’d only spoken a couple times. Over a week ago, I DM’d her IG, we started talking, she gave me her number. She called me/we talked every day after that. She’d tell me deep things like how she’d been touched by her cousin as a kid. She got attached quick, said she’d had dreams of me, and when she was in Bible studies class wanted to ditch it to phone me instead. She said “I was wondering what I should put first, God or (Me)?”. We went for our 1st date several days ago, and she even brought up something with having kids. There was a lot of affection and we made out. I was being real pushy to go further but she said she didn’t wanna get hurt by giving up sex so easily. I got annoyed and it was time to drop her off so I drove her home. On the way back I was saying things like “idk if I wanna be w someone who doesn’t know what she wants” and she was still trying to fight for it to work. When we were on her street, she asked if we could talk about it on the phone later as it felt like a misunderstanding. I shrugged, and she said sorry and tried to hug me, but I just turned away. She said “well I gtg, I guess we were only talking for a week anyway” then slammed the car door and ran away with tears in her eyes. I sent her a text minutes after saying I didn’t think either of us were ready for a relationship, she just said “Yeah.”. The next day I tried texting but she’d blocked my number. She still kept me on her private and public IG accounts tho. The same day, I sent 2 paragraphs on IG just saying that I’d made a mistake and that I really liked her and wanted to give it another try. She just seened them. But then kept stalking all my stories on both her accounts. I blocked her IG’s after. Why would she block my number but not IG? Does she sound likely to talk to me again if I give it some time? We’ve also both broken up w our exes a month ago and I feel based on things said we both remind each other of our exes.

[SueShe]

You are just like kids, honestly. You block me, then I block you. I know of toddlers that are more mature than that.

You obviously could not understand that not every girl is a hoe and wants to spread her legs on the first date. I think you should learn to think more with your secondary brain in your skull rather than with your primary one hanging between your legs. It is so pathetic that everything must always be limited to sex.

Your best option is to forget about this girl and not try to coerce her to fornicate with you. You seem to be into sex only and the person behind the genitals is not really important to you.

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

You really did mess up, but maybe she’s wanting to keep in touch but wants a little space.

[TommyMountainFigure]

@WhatTheHeckkkk I really hope not. Being given an ultimatum to sleep with him or get lost is unforgivable in my book!

[TommyMountainFigure]

You think you can handle the truth? If not, you had better not read on.

You never made a mistake you were downright nasty. If you have a sister and a guy she liked said what you said to her, you'd want to rip his face off.. right?
I could go on but I think the point was made!

[Asker]

I could only put in the main details. Main reason I was annoyed was because she kept comparing me and every little thing to her ex. She also reminded me a bit of my ex so when she was making sh! t sound serious so quick it made me pull away. I haven’t told her all this yet so I’m guessing she’s thinking similar to you.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I guess she must.. You left out the bit which makes you more human. Sorry fella for jumping to the wrong conclusion.

[Asker]

No stress! I know you can only guess. but do you think she’ll be open to talking again if I was to explain like I just did to you?

[TommyMountainFigure]

Not sure how badly hurting she is, but you'll have way more chance than how you did with the first go. It didn't put you in a very good light.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Oopsie doodle! On the flip side where one car door closes another one will open & as for you being that she blocked you block her back & delete her off of everything & move on.

[Iron_Man]

Make it up to her