The reason is that women often bring very little to a relationship. Her looks are often a major part of what she brings. If she doesn't have that, what does she bring to the relationship that the guy wouldn't already have on his own?
Hate me if you want, (I'm sure many delusional hypocrites on this site will), but give examples of what women usually bring to a relationship that the man doesn't already have on his own? And are any of those things that he doesn't also bring to the relationship?
If she brings love and affection, great! SO DOES HE. She can have kids? Not without HIM too. What does she uniquely bring to a relationship?
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I'd expect them to lose the weight.
Sorry but it's really not that hard, if you are willing to jeopardize your partner's attraction towards you over some cupcakes, you are kinda in the wrong.
I would always put reasonable effort into making myself look attractive for my partner and they should do the same.
I'm not into that lazy fupa couple life.
I'm sure that's the case sometimes, but definitely not all the time. Not all men prefer the skinny type even though most do. Not all men are that shallow either. I do think there are some that are, though. It's a shame that guys like that exist.
If anyone is willing to leave someone over that, then that tells you everything you need to know about the type of person they are and they are not someone you wanna be with anyway.
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I love thick women. If the guy is shallow yes he would but also women do it as well. When a women gains weight let’s herself go firdt let me say I love my ex no matter I’f she’s gain weight which she didn’t. The only reasone I would have brought it up would be my concern is there anything I’m doing wrong il ask is the relationship getting to boring my concern would be health isssue sometimes this happen in it could something tk do with us.
I don’t think it’s specifically weight related, but it’s a part of a larger problem in the relationship. If the woman isn’t taking care of herself then more than likely the guy isn’t having his needs met. I’ve seen so many amazing couples that after marriage or kids, the man becomes a miserable worker drone and his wife is a angry stay at home wife who loses respect for her husband. That’s a recipe for cheating.
Cheaters cheat regardless of how you look. Look at tiger woods wife.
He still cheated.
There are many men and women who have remained faithful even when their partner has let themselves go. It's not automatic.
I think someone is just being mean to you by putting doubt in your head.
Plus that's a gross generalization that's just not true.
And both of you deserve the benefit of the doubt.
Don't fall for that kiddo.It depends if you fatten up in curves oo fatten into pear 🍐 . Keep your waist NO MATTER WHAT ‼️ No floppy arms or back fat 🙀
If he really loves you then he will help you to get back fit.
You know the best part is honesty and love don't see the weight or looks. If you really love someone honestly and have feelings for them ya might be there can be fights and opinion diffrences, but they won't leave each other.
It might be true for some but when two people are in love if she gains weight some seem to overlook it.
Anything is possible when men and sex are involved 😂
Don’t worry there is a guy somewhere who will love anyway you look, and that is what you truly want.
Usually if a girl is engaged or married the man gets fatter WITH her because they are paying for meals on a weekly basis at the longest...
If a guy leaves a girl for someone thinner then THAT WASN'T HIS girlfriend IN THE FIRST PLACE..If he loves her, he won't leave her for such stupid thing.
Not really true (it’s really rear ) only reason I can think of is if tge gi was having a health problems with going a lot of of weight (going from skinny all way to obsess)
Prove your worth. Forget about a few pounds here and there and gain some confidence!
That's not true plus your gorgeous with and amazing figure. Trust me your exactly what's guys like
True! Gain as little as 2 pounds, and we ALL have a contractual obligation to leave you. Seriously - we just quit fucking you and instead cheat on you with a skinny anorexic girl.
Some guys will but you look ok i saw you on a previous account it was pinkinlove if im not mistaken
No. Though looking less attractive may make him more likely to look elsewhere.
Most women are needed or only bring sexual attraction to the realtionship.
Better question is, why you got fat?Honestly, that rarely happens.
I don't think so now I could be wrong
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