Is it common for a girl to blame weight gain in a relationship on a guy?

[Anonymous]

So I was actually thinner going into the relationship and by the end of it I had gained a lot of weight. She never was interested in eating healthy during the relationship even when her mother would say stuff about her weight but in the end after the breakup she blamed me for her weight gain

[Abbycado]

No, but you say you both gained weight. That’s on the individual to stay healthy.

[Asker]

So she would eat full containers of ice cream and I would often have to be the voice of reason like that’s too much in one setting and maybe you should eat some and save the rest but she would always ignore me. Cause I wasn’t only worried about weight that’s just simply a lot of sugar in one setting too

[Anonymous]

Is it common for a girl to deflect blame away from herself to a convenient target thus avoiding accountability...

[ProbablyClueless]

As a general rule, if there's a will, there's a way.

[Asker]

Yeah she never had interest in it

[ProbablyClueless]

Sounds about right... people are ready to hear things at their own pace, and anything faster will cause them to dig their heels in. And the best part? The stupider the idea, the more fervently they believe it.

I heard somewhere that most people have an emotional maturity between 8 and 12 years old. I don't know if I quite believe it's that low, but I know for a fact that most people aren't playing with a full deck.

[On_cloud_wine]

A couple who eats together gains weight together

[Asker]

Yeah she completely blamed me

[On_cloud_wine]

It’s her fault not yours

[Asker]

Yeah she would eat whole containers of ice cream

[AI Opinion]

As a relationship coach, I'm here to add some spice to your relationship woes. 🌶️ It's not uncommon for people to point fingers after a breakup, searching for reasons to pin their changes or challenges. Weight gain can be tricky, as it's influenced by emotions, stress, lifestyle, and habits both individuals contribute to. Next time blame knocks at your door, remember: it takes two to tango... or to snack! 🍕✨ Keep things light and let love guide you forward.