Am I wrong for rejecting a girl that hooks up?

[Anonymous]

I thought she was really pretty and sweet. But I found out that she has hooked up with a few guys.

I find that unattractive like how could I love someone like this? Low quality girl in my opinion, but it’s her choice of course. But it makes me feel a bit disgusted to be with a girl like that.

I’m glad I have good values and never would settle for someone like this.

It’s wrong to reject her for that

No it’s not wrong at all

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Nope, not “wrong.” It’s your preference and your standards.


I wouldn’t want to date a guy who hooks up either, it’s unattractive to me. I would understand why a guy wouldn’t want to date a girl who hooks up either. Ultimately, it’s their life and they can do what they want, but that also comes with people rejecting them for their lifestyle. It happens everyday, with all different types of people.


It’s simply a part of preferences when it comes to dating. Some people reject others because they don’t find their height attractive, or their race, or their clothing style, etc. It’s never “wrong,” but it can be frowned upon by some people.

[shaysh87]

Casual sex is rampant nowadays. Most people have fucked someone they’re not in a relationship with. You are the minority , not the majority

[ChrisMaster69]

So you hooked up with yet another girl, found out she has hooked up with other guys in the past, you dump her and now will look for another girl to hook up with…

you have a personal choice, as well as how many girls you are choosing to hook up with.

Better luck hooking up next time

[JamesDiaz11]

You made the right call.

You can't respect a girl who casually opens her legs for guys she doesn't care for. I don't care how much she think she can compartmentalize it in her head (e. g. sex with you is special; sex with them was meaningless), she's just a cheapened person.

[Dchrls78104]

No, you're not. In fact, you may just have dodged a bullet. A high mileage vehicle can bring with it problems you don't want, such as damage from wrecks you didn't know about before you bought the vehicle and a worn out or otherwise damaged chassis (frame) that you can no longer rely on.

[AviatorTom]

If those are your values, it's not wrong. But you might be missing out on a possible excellent long-term relationship. We all do things when we're young that we might do differently when we think about them we get older.

[lrina]

its just personal preference. nothing wrong with that.

[exitseven]

I voted A but I understand that everyone has their preferences.

[bamesjond0069]

You're right and smart. Girls who hookup are not good for relationships.

[Anonymous]

No I wouldn't trust someone who just gives themselves away so easy because it throws out anything special or intimate. I can only hook up with someone if she is my girlfriend first

[Avicenna]

It’s a perfectly legit reason to reject her

[zagor]

Your choice. You aren't obligated to date anyone.

[Iron_Man]

No you’re not wrong I don’t blame you

[Twalli]

Clearly you don't feel wrong for rejecting her.