Is it fair to reject this girl?

[Anonymous]

I met this girl that was so pretty and really nice and it seemed to hit off. After more digging:

I come from a very wealthy background and her family are either similar or even more wealthy I’m not sure.

I’m going to takeover my parents business and she’s going to take over her’s I would guess. When I would want a girl that joins me in our business.

So yeah I’ve ended it. Mainly on the basis that, I know women are hypergamous, she’ll want to find a guy Like a celeb or from a billionaire family or something.

She might even be snobby and entitled who knows

Good call

Bad call

Not sure

Other

[Anonymous]

It's up to you. ﾠ

[Oliverlogan263]

Rejecting someone based solely on assumptions and stereotypes is unfair and judgmental. Some things to consider:

• You don't actually know this girl's personality, intentions or values. You've made assumptions based on her family's wealth.

• Not all people from wealthy backgrounds are snobby or entitled. There are plenty of kind, grounded people of all socioeconomic statuses.

• Many women want a partner who is a good match in values, interests and life goals - not just wealth or status. Don't assume she's "hypergamous" based on stereotypes.

• Rejecting her without getting to know her first means you're missing out on the opportunity to meet someone who could be a great match for you.

• There are many ways two people from different industries could support each other in business and in life. An outright "no" could be premature.

• If you do decide not to pursue things further, it would be respectful to be honest and direct about your reasons. Avoid vague excuses.

• Be open to examining any underlying biases you may have about people of different backgrounds. Wealth doesn't determine one's personality or values.

In summary, while you're never obligated to pursue a connection with anyone, rejecting this woman solely based on assumptions related to her family's wealth implies a judgement of her character without good reason. Getting to know her as an individual - not a stereotype - could reveal someone you're very compatible with.

I recommend approaching this situation with an open mind. See where things go, learn more about her as a person, and reevaluate once you have a better sense of who she really is - not who you've made her out to be. I hope this perspective provides some nuance and food for thought.

[Oliverlogan263]

It's not fair to reject someone just because you think they're not wealthy enough for you. It's important to remember that people are more than their financial status. You may have missed out on a great opportunity by rejecting this girl.

[_Maya_]

You sound snobby and entitled. The irony of your post. You get rid of her based of assumptions lol. You didn't even give her a chance and her situation seems to be identical to yours as far as you write. Way to pass up on someone who is going to be successful and not after your money. Like that is not a smart strategy. @snowedin lol 😆

[Raersh]

@_Maya_ guys don’t look for success in women more good character and looks

[_Maya_]

@Raersh who da heck are you?

[Nikki1989]

The world would be a better place if you just avoided women completely. You are clueless and a snob.

[SnowedIn]

Is it fair? It's not not fair. Your predicament and this question have nothing to do with fairness or equality or anything of the sort.

Is it nice to her? Nope.

Can you do it? Sure.

Is it wise? Maybe.

But, here's the thing: will you regret this one day? Yes. Definitely in your heart and mind and, my gut tells me, in business as well.

You're making a mistake.

@_Maya_

[_Maya_]

Think dude has two accounts 😆

[SnowedIn]

@_Maya_ ... oh! Good catch. I wouldn't have thought of that. Smart.

[_Maya_]

I couldn't think of anything else. Brand new account answering for the asker it seems. Put two and two together I think.

[SnowedIn]

Yeah, exactly. Private profile and age check boxes too.

[_Maya_]

Oh just noticed age.

[ProbablyClueless]

I mean... technically, you can reject someone at any time for any reason. If you aren't feeling it anymore, that's that.

That being said, I don't find your reasoning particularly compelling.

[DextroShade]

If you are from a wealthy background you should find a housewife instead of a career woman.

[LiamJHayden]

Is judging her based upon your assumptions rather than her actions fair? Duhh.

[In_Trance]

Sure