Does this girl think I rejected her? For a couple of weeks I have noticed me and this girl making eye contact a lot in the gym. Along with some other things ( I noticed her leaning her head past machines to glance at me, once I unknowingly parked next to her and when I looked to my side to gather my things we made eye contact because she was sitting there already staring at me, she is always finding a way to face me, etc Anyway she was on the treadmill and I went on the one next to her and started talked to her. I was asking her questions and all but what I didn’t like was she didn’t ask me any questions back? Didn’t really like that. Maybe she was nervous or intimidated? Because of that it was kind of awkward but I didn’t bother me. Soon enough she starts mashing the stop button and I’m like oh fuck that’s that. But Then she comes back to wipe the machine. And she says something like “are you going to keep doing this?” Like kind of she was inviting me to do something else with her? She told me she was hitting shoulders. And I said oh ok I’m going to go over here. And then I went someone else lol. Today I saw here again but I had my headphones in and did not say anything to her. She kept staring at me from afar but when she walked past she pretended like she was doing something on her phone.
Best advice I can give is to avoid her. If possible, change up your routine or schedule.
You probably know this but there is a trend currently about women getting harassed while at the gym. I'm not going to imply that you're a deviant at all, but looking at any woman in the gym as a man is putting yourself at risk of getting blasted online.
You don't know her and she doesn't know you, but any interaction you have with her is an utter minefield and it's likely not worth it.
Of course, that's my 2 cents, I could be way off. Either way, good luck my man.
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When she didn’t ask you anything back why didn’t you ask her: am I bothering you during your workout?
When she asked “are you keep going to do this? I’m hitting shoulders”, why didn’t you ask her if she wanted to work out together or rather wanted to work out alone?You felt an awkward vibe and it didn’t bother you but maybe it did bother her. My advise is to approach her next time you see her when other people are nearby and just tell her you hope you make her feel uncomfortable the other day and you’re sorry if you did. You were just making conversation but you realize not everyone wants to chitchat while they’re on a treadmill.
She might be nervous. I would be if a guy I liked started talking to me. I don't think she felt rejected, but maybe awkward or embarrassed? And don't worry about the 'she might report you' thing. It happens, but it's way overstated online.
Not sure you need to ask her ….
You never know she might be a player…..
If so the next thing you got to ask yourself is do you want to be with someone like that….
If she is doing that to you or could she be doing that with everyone else too….
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