How to get a commitment phobic man to fall in love with you?

[Lara98]

I have been talking to a guy and he’s the nicest but he is a workaholic and dedicates all his time to work. He is also anti social barely ever goes out. We talk for hours in a day and he has opened up to me about his life and difficulties in it. I have started to like him a lot. How can I get him to fall in love with me?

[Firegirl258]

If he is strongly against committing then it's hard to think he would want to change. Honestly just let it flow and see what happens you can't really do something specific to make anyone fall in love with you. You can hope they do and try to do right by them, but I can't see a relationship working if you already want to change the other person. I wish you luck tho.

[yolandra]

Show him that you care about him and that you love him. He just needs to know that you are not using him for anything and that he can trust you. The rest will take care of itself

[Lara98]

I shouldn’t confess right? Build trust first and take things slow. I also don’t want to overstep, so should I not text very often?

[yolandra]

Don't confess right away but show him that you love and care for him. As for the texting, text him if you feel like doing it. Texting him shows that you care. Let everything happen naturally

[Guy13]

Don’t be afraid of:
1. Femininity, ignore media/feminist‼️
2. Risk as Workaholics respect Risk.
3. Servant-Leadership for both boy/girl is in Ephesians 5.
4. Simping…Dotng is good for both
5. BJs

[Anonymous]

Most men aren't commitment phobic. They're phobic of getting with a woman that runs his life on a whim. We do what we can, but somehow it's never enough.

[Lara98]

He did say something like this, like he’s afraid of hurting his partner unintentionally because he might not be able to fulfill her expectations

[In_Trance]

You can't

[Lara98]

Why not

[In_Trance]

Think of how hard it is to change anything about yourself and you'll quickly realize that you have no chance in changing someone else

[Lara98]

Makes sense actually:/