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Do I have to go ghost?
Because they seem to be more into someone else right now because that person went ghost on them for a long time and now their back and it's driving me up a wall.
Because they seem to be more into someone else right now because that person went ghost on them for a long time and now their back and it's driving me up a wall.
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I don't think he's back with her over ghosting him. There has to be more than that. He probably realized that she was the one he wants to spend his time with.
I think that it's time that you get some professional therapy this time because this has been going on this way for far too long.
You seem to be addicted to him and that's different than love.
I don't want to sound mean, so I won't say anything more about it. Just get some professional help this time pertaining to this new situation.
As always, I wish you the best ❣️
Yeah I did therapy before but didn't complete my sessions because I couldn't afford them but I may have to return now that I can. Thanks for being honest and blunt with me. Appreciate the honesty.
Please find a good therapist because a lot of them don't help people.
I'll always be honest with you and everyone else. I just don't want to hurt your feelings. I know this must be very hard on you.
I went through something similar but then my friend was very blunt with me and said "He is emotionally and physically unavailable to you"!! That's what I kept telling myself every time I thought about him until it finally sunk in and I let it go!
Well thanks again. I really truly appreciate it!
You're welcome sweetie 🫂
You shouldn’t want someone to notice you again, if you aren’t their top priority , then don’t waste your time with them whatsoever, they clearly rather be with someone else , over being with you , so don’t waste your time wanting them to notice you again , never be a convenience to anyone , I don’t care how good looking and amazing you think he is , he isn’t worth your time whatsoever kick him to the curb where he belongs
Thanks. I guess you're right.
Just giving you some advice on what you should accept and not accept into your life , just so you don’t experience heart break with anyone. When a guy really likes a girl and wants to be with her , he makes her his top priority , he invests a lot of his time into her and wants to see or hear from her as much as possible , hoping she feels the same way about him. If a guy doesn’t make her his top priority , he just likes the convenience of her , while he is weighing his options , why you should never stay with someone that treats you like an option and you should no longer give them access to treat you like one either. I do the same thing with girls’ that do not make me her top priority , that can go days and weeks without calling or hearing from me or seeing me. Then all of a sudden she calls me out of the blue like everything is fine when it’s convenient for her. I just tell her you had your chance but you blew it , unless she has some actual valid reason as to why she didn’t call or return my calls or texts. Or talk to me or see me all that time , then I might let it slide, if she has a legit valid reason. Otherwise I am not letting it slide , and she is wasting her time with me , because I am not going to allow myself to fall for nonsense like that whatsoever. I only continue dating girls’ that are consistent with me , that make me her top priority , that are excited to hear from me or see me on a consistent basis , that don’t want or need another guy in her life but me. And I will do the same for her. So do yourself a favor and move on from that guy and realize you deserve so much better than that nonsense
Ok. Thanks. I will.
You shouldn't even be wanting this person. It seems he's playing games with you and the more you chase the more it will turn against you somehow not because that person is a bad person and not because you will be hurt necessarily but why are you worrying about a person that doesn't notice you? I think everyone deserves better than that.
You're absolutely right. Thank you.
Welcome!!
Hate to say this, but I think you were their temporary until they could get back with their former relations. I hate when that happens and someone "rebounds" into another.
Key points about rebound relationships
Timing: The new relationship begins shortly after the breakup, sometimes within days or weeks.
Emotional state: The person may still be thinking about, comparing to, or emotionally tied to their ex.
Motivations: Common reasons include avoiding grief, filling an emotional void, or proving attractiveness to an ex.
Outcomes: Some rebounds end quickly, while others can grow into lasting relationships if both people are emotionally available and commit to each other. And other times they can go back to their former crush.
Invest in yourself.
Don't get me wrong. There are people, one person in particular at the moment, I would move the Earth for, if they did to. Relationships are two people showing up, being vulnerable, and building together.
Playing games is wasting your life.
honestly, I would say focus on yourself and drop the whole thing..
Thanks. I think you're right.
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Nothing. Absolutely nothing.
"They seem to be more into someone else right now" is your reason.
Don't concern yourself about the other person ghosting your POI.
That sounds like a lot of drama, if you ask me.
You're right it does.
Then maybe it's time to move on, especially if they're into someone else.
I've never tried to work it out without someone after a relationship or whatever ended.
Once it's over, that's it for me
Make it super obvious!
And the award for comment of the day goes to...
Even trying to get someone to notice me is a sign of low self-esteem; after all, if they want to notice me, they’ll do it of their own accord I’m not going to waste my breath on that.
Skip the play games. Just talk to them. If they're into you, great. If not, move on
You really need to find a way to disconnect from this guy. I think he's seriously affecting your mental health. This is why you should break off all connections and communications with exes.
If you need to go out of your way to make a person you know already notice you again, it's time to move on.
So you have finally moved on from the guy you were fucking?
🙄 he is the guy I'm talking about
But you are fucking him right? So call him and give him more puss simple
The probably want that other person who ghosted them if they left for them after they ghosted
I mean, that might work 🤷♂️
Some people desire what they think they can't have.
Some people are amused to get what they can't have. That doesn't mean they want to keep it.
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