One thing is saying I never had a relationship with the opposite gender.
Another is they never had a serious relationship for longer than 3 months or so.
I've had sex in all of my relationships, cause there's really no point in suffering over a heartbreak for someone you didn't even get the privilege of being intimate with.
But they were not all serious. To me what was serious was when we became almost one where it was starting to be like life didn't make sense without them. A non serious relationship is when little quirks annoy you about them to the point it's enough to make you consider breaking up with them, that you were just into them for the having fun social aspect of dating somebody. Serious is where that person will always mean a lot to you, even if it's been so many years. So if she's saying one or the other, she's clearly insecure in her past with men, and needs reassurance from a positive experience
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Depends on her, I don't know her. Just ask her but it's okay to never be in a serious relationship and still made some experience!
I don't call my first two "relationships" a real serious relationship and I had been slut shamed for that shit and it's wrong to do so in my eyes, if you're insecure about her maybe having experience, then please move on and let her get someone who will be respectful
Probably:
1) She chose to focus on herself e. g education, career etc.
2) She is not into serious relationships and more into casual hookups
3) She chose to live life without involving serious relationships for now.
4) She haven't found the right person to be in a serious relationship with
5) She can't afford to be in a serious relationship (mental health reasons, environment, clashes with families etc)
women are not gonna be honest about this it basically means SHE never made a guy take her seriously enough to date she more than likely slept around women tend to let guys they’re more attracted too get sex easier while making others wait or take them on pointless dates while still sleeping with the guy they really want a relationship with
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How are we supposed to know? Everyone is different and lives different lifestyles.
If you’re that curious, you should ask her directly.It means she never found someone who gives her the value she deserves.
She’s just never had a serious relationship/longer term commitment. She probably hasn’t come across anyone worth her time. You’d have to ask her. It sounds kind of sleazy since you’re also attaching sex to her saying she hadn’t been in a serious relationship.
It depends on the girl. She might have never kissed anyone let alone dated anyone. Know a lot girls like this in their mid to late twenties (from average to beautiful looks wise) Might be more concerned with friends, school, her career etc. Or she could be a wild child and just have a ton of flings. Can’t put it in a box
If she’s pretty, and not extremely socially awkward she’s just had hookups. No pretty girl, who is socially normal hasn’t dated by 24. If she’s not pretty, not dating is still no indication she’s not had sex before…
It means, “Look, I’m telling you now that I’m not good at this Relationship thing. Don’t get mad if I fwck this one up too…. I’m willing though.”
-Clear-vision and servant-leader…I'd assume nothing. It could mean just no relationship, but she's had plenty of sex and/or dates
She could be busy, religious, hasn't found the right one or just minding her own business 🙄
Probably nothing that lasted that long I would assume.
She’s been dating casually but she hasn’t gone very far sexually
She probably is emotionally mature and didn't see any reason letting a relationship keep going when she knew there wasn't a future.
Could mean several different things. The only way to know for sure is ask her.
It could mean either one. That totally depends on her worldview and how she defines certain things.
It means that she has fucked an endless number of guys and is waiting until she hits the wall at 30 to “settle down” and pretend that she wasn’t a human trampoline her entire youth.
She probably just wanted to fuck or do nerdy shit by herself.
She's either a hoe that sleeps around. Or her self value is too high and she's picky beyond belief.
It means she's about half way through 500 miles of mr right, 6 to 8 inches at a time
She very ugly or she's very emotionally unavailable. Maybe both.
WQhy can't you take were at her word? Why can't it mean what she says?
if she's 24 and never had a serious relationship it means she has an only fans account and most likely a whore
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