What can I do if I am now not sure about a guy that I had been going on dates and want to take a rest to see if there any feelings?

[Anonymous]

I am not sure about having feelings but I only seem to be a bit attracted to one guy but not very much. I am not sure about what red flags are. I used to get attracted to guys through college. My value is trustworthy and common, respectful, kind, know what is different from right to wrong. Is wasn't always like that.

[iamjustaman]

It is your right to choose yo step back from a relationship you aren't sure about. I would suggest kindly explaining this to him. If he respects your wishes then that is a good sign
If he doesn't act like a gentleman about it, then you are best to break it off. I might also suggest talking to a dating coach to sort out things like red flags. Each person has there own set of rules as to what is good or bad in a relationship. You may need to figure that out with some help from a person who knows you.

[Asker]

I am said that I am not sure about feeling and let at. Did let know that I did not want to go on.

[iamjustaman]

That's great! Hope you find the right person soon

[Xhuy_006]

Probably just at an age of sexual maturity where ya wanna settle down. Ain't nothing wrong with space and time to figure things out