He left, then later came back and tried to change his behavior. His consistency fluctuates constantly so I told him about it. I mentioned I would just like to get to know him more and have better communication. He told me he felt pressured. He ignored me one day and posted an Instagram post saying he wants to find someone who isn’t a distraction. I was just hurt and I told him it was hurtful. He ignored me and called me a few days later, to still tell me he’s unsure about me. He said because I’m “too sweet and nice” and he’s “not use to that”. Should I just tell him I’m not interested in move on or ghost him?
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At this point, a guy should feel certain that he wants to move forward with you if he is really interested. I say can this guy.
Ghosting should be reserved for people who have intentionally done things to hurt you and not simply people who aren't a good match. Maintain high standards for how you treat other people and give him an explanation.
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That all depends on you and what your willing to deal with but me I'd dump him I don't deal with inconsistent people well at all its very frustrating for me like make up your fuckin mind already and if they can't I'll make it how for them by dumping them and taking myself out of the equation. You can't toy with my emotions and deal with me only when you want to. That won't work for me
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Well his processing some stuff, i dont think you want to be dragged into storm for nothing.
I would just tell him good luck and then stop contacting him
You told him that he said something hurtful to you and he ignored you. That's a pretty big red flag. Don't waste your time with someone who isn't clearly, 100% interested in you.
Do what you girls are experts to do " ghost "
Date other people while he decides.
Might as well if his dick is small
Move on darling!
Yes, walk away
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