Girls, do you find you go on so many dates but never feel a spark with anyone & just end up rejecting everyone?

[Anonymous]

Yes - I never feel a spark with anyone despite going on so many dates & do just end up rejecting everyone

No - I do feel a spark but still reject guys

No - I don’t feel a spark and just reject everyone

[Anonymous]

I very rarely feel a spark, like 1-2 times a year with normal social interactions, so I don't reject if I feel it. Though, I tend to feel sparks with men who turns out to just want some fun and sex, not someone who is genuinely interested in me, so spark quickly disappears again. I have tried making an effort without a spark, but that also don't involve into more. So I am just staying away from dating for now.

[Asker]

How many dates did you try with guys you felt no spark with?

[Opinion Owner]

3 and then he lost interest

[Asker]

How do you know he lost interest? Would you have continued if he didn’t lose interest?

[Opinion Owner]

he did not respond to my messages.. I could give it longer time, yes. 3 dates is not that much

[Opinion Owner]

or just a single message.. I don't send more than one message I expect a response to so early on in a relation

[flirtatiousgirl]

Neither