What is the longest you've been single?

[Anonymous]

At any point In your life, if you wanna add up all the time you have been single then I'd like to hear it as well, just mention you are adding up the time tho lol

[Horror_lover92]

7 or 8 years
Mainly through the years of high school because I just felt like all the guys liked me for only one thing. And then it just got worse lol after graduation until I met my 1st boyfriend at 22.
So once my friends saved me from being mentally abused and almost physical,
I was single for 3 years until I met my ex.
The only reason this time I was only single for 2 months was because it was like love at first sight with my boyfriend even though mentally my ex messed me up. I'm still with my boyfriend so I'm hoping he will be my forever future.

[Asker]

I'm glad you found someone that makes you happy, I hope it last you forever as well 💯

[jennifer_bloom]

I was single until age 32 cause I had insecurities when I was younger and guys would not approach me cause I was obsessively religious.

[HighlyVolatile]

If it's starting from the time I first started dating, a year (I took a huge break from dating and relationships, and that's actually how I met my wife starting out as friends first instead of diving into dates).

[HighlyVolatile]

It was deliberate though. I actually didn't want to date for the bulk of that period. I just ended up becoming so attached to my now-wife as a close friend that I ended up asking her out at some point. Yet I was almost allergic by that point to the idea of dating.

Usually, I didn't stay single for long when I actually wanted to date. I think the longest before that when I actually wanted to date was around 8 weeks.

[Asker]

Just a year and 8 months, that is almost hard to believe lol

[HighlyVolatile]

8 weeks in my case when I wanted to date if you were referring to me! I was a serial monogamist type though bouncing from one monogamous relationship to the next. Beyond some unpleasant breakups, I traveled a lot for my work from one new city to the next. I was also working in very crowded city areas. It's usually easier to find dates and friends in those types of places.

[Asker]

Damn dude, no time for breathers lol

[HighlyVolatile]

Yeah. I dated a lot of women in the past but more quantity than quality. A lot of them were party girls since I loved to party. My wife is also a bit of a party girl but she doesn't revolve her life around the party.

[Asker]

Which is what separates the two

[Drumlin2001]

I was single for the first 35yrs of my life. Beyond that, between my first relationship ending and meeting my now fiance was about 6 months (there was someone else I started dating in between, didn't get serious)

[Asker]

Damn that's a long time

[Drumlin2001]

It was. But I have now met someone, have two kids, currently trying to buy a family home, getting married in a few years time. Took me a while to face some demons, they aren't gone, but working through them everyday

[Asker]

At least you got something to keep your mind off them demons tho

[OneNineZero]

Actually in my case the question should be how long was someone in my life
Well my parents died when I was 17 I got married when I was 27 years my marriage lasted 3 months
Now all women are banned from my life
So pretty much my whole life

[Asker]

Fair enough

[UniquelyBasic]

Maybe 1000s of years even before I was born I was single.

[Asker]

Well that's everyone

[exitseven]

I got married when I was 25. I have been married for 26 years.

[Asker]

Damn that's good bro

[iJokeTeeth]

Just over 1 year, I've always been the type to profess that I am happier single but somehow I end up in relationships

[Asker]

Sounds legit lol

[jamesgoldman]

Like 16 years before I started dating and the 7 since I finished

[Asker]

Fair enough

[TacosRAwesome]

Almost 19 years between birth and 1st boyfriend and then about 5 years between relationships.

[Anonymous]

My entire life.
Well to be fair I've never asked anybody out.

[8Bit_LYNX]

We need to change that then bro 🤙🏻

[Anonymous]

Most of my life. I’ve lived with a few exes for years, but mostly I’ve been single.

[Asker]

Fair enough I guess

[Genie23]

22 years. 😐

[Asker]

I'm on my way, it's about to be 21 for me lol

[Genie23]

You can't beat me, though 😛

[llorando]

But I can.

[Asker]

Oh I didn't see this message, always underestimating me, good lookin out G

[kiki18]

Now longer then 1 year

[Asker]

Fair enough

[Slartybartfast]

I've been single since 2001.

[ChiTown33]

Adeed up it equals 46 years.

[Asker]

Damn dude

[ChiTown33]

It's not fatal dude. Lol
People assume because you're single you're miserable. I'm not. I'm actually happier now than I've ever been.

[Asker]

I know cause I've been single all 20 years of my life and I'm not miserable but that's still a lot of years lol

[Anonymous]

17 years

[Asker]

That's good, I'm reaching 21 next month 🥳

[Opinion Owner]

Cool

[zagor]

All of it, except for a few weeks here and there.

[whereismyjohnny]

19 years 🙃

[Asker]

If it makes you feel better I'm in the 20th year going to 21 😂

[whereismyjohnny]

We are going strong 😂

[Asker]

Indeed lol

[8Bit_LYNX]

💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻 The strength here is evident 😁

[whereismyjohnny]

@8Bit_LYNX living that solo life since 02 🤣

[8Bit_LYNX]

Haha, how’s that going for you?

[whereismyjohnny]

@8Bit_LYNX I can't complain 😂

[8Bit_LYNX]

Haha same. Gotta keep pushing. 💪🏻 nothing else to do but keep going.

[Isismoonie]

1 year

[Asker]

Damn here the trophy so far, if someone beats it I'm taking it back but I doubt it 🏆

[Isismoonie]

If it’s over a year I’m definitely talking to someone at least. Not exclusive on my terms

[Asker]

No no I'm talking about being in a relationship 😂😂

[Isismoonie]

Oh 🤣 Cupid always comes around to me I guess

[Asker]

That boy cupid is on your ass from the sounds of it, or at the least his arrow is lol

[Isismoonie]

I try to dodge bruh but clearly I need to work on my juke moves 😵‍💫

[Asker]

Maybe cupid just got aim lol

[Massageman]

birth to 26.

[Asker]

Not as bad

[daster4442]

20 years

[Asker]

Been there lol

[llorando]

32 year's.

[Anonymous]

21 years.

[Asker]

I'm on my way to 21 as well lol