Why hasn't a guy ever asked me out?

[Anonymous]

I am an introvert. I would say that I am average looking person. I got a decent body if that's what a guy usually looks for. But i wear glasses and am a typical good girl typa person. So what am i doing wrong or what should I do to get a guy.

[custard83]

Its all about approachability. Are you always in groups, do you not send the right signals? You know guys can't read signals and need to be directly told?

Ask him out... 2022, equal rights and stuff (it's equally nervous for us)

[Asker]

What if he thinks i am a creep for asking him out

[legalboxers]

Im a homeboy myself. Maybe your not looking in the right places

[Asker]

What should I do

[legalboxers]

for me, I go food shopping. Im afraid to approach anyone since I look like shrek. I am willing to bet you are very beautiful. Just try and go out. Barnes and Noble, Starbucks, etc.

[Asker]

Yeah i will or i should make the first move on the guy

[legalboxers]

just be careful with that..

[Asker]

Would it make me look like a creep

[legalboxers]

like I said - start small talk but be careful. make sure the vibes are there

[legalboxers]

TY for MHO

[Asker]

you are welcome

[legalboxers]

You got this.. Trust me <3

[Asker]

aw thank you!

[Zeldaismyqueen]

How do you dress? If you wear. T-shirt and jeans then don’t expect guys attention. But if you wear say, a fitted black turtleneck, a nice blazer, some good quality leather trousers and ankle boots, now we are talking

[Asker]

Yup i am t shirt /sweatshirt type of girl

[Zeldaismyqueen]

There you go, t-shirts are the worst! Sweatshirts can be nice as long as they are not the zip up kind. I see lots of people at college doing the black turtleneck under pullover hoodie and it looks great! But the t-shirt and jeans gotta go if you want to attract guys! Check out aritzia’s Melina leather pant! Trust me!!

[Zeldaismyqueen]

Something like this:

[Asker]

Wow its really cool. I love those boots as well

[Zeldaismyqueen]

They are just ankle boots!! Do you have something like this outfit you can put together? That will solve your problems 100%

[OddBeMe]

I’m sure you’re very attractive but you’re prob like me and give off an asocial tone by being shy. I took acting lessons and I swear, I mimic my favorite movies sometimes when I have to socialize. It’s weird but works.

[jshm2]

Introverts are usually back of the queue, so that's your personality flaw.

As for looks, if even you think you're average then you're probably less than that.

[Asker]

As in my looks are below average?

[Dirtykid690]

u may not be looking in the right place u need to find people who love personality over looks

[Anonymous]

I proposed to the love of my life numerous times and never got an answer so how do you think I feel

[legalboxers]

Same...

[Jessica405]

SMILE at them!

[Asker]

What? i will end up looking like a creep

[Jessica405]

No. Works very well.