Why haven't I been asked out by any guy till now?

[awkwardddgirl]

I have never been asked out by any guy. I have a few guy friends but that's it. I have been single since forever. Is it because I am an introvert or is it because I am not like one of those sexy and fun girls?

[noamazia]

there are so many factors.
you might be hanging out in places or people that don't expect you or expect you don't want to be asked out.
you might not be attractive or give manly vibes with clothing and expression.
you might have unknowingly sent the opposite message.
maybe everybody is really fucking scared of your dad.
but believe me, if you are mildly attractive, go around with a fitting Tshirt, and act just a little bit like a girl, and go somewhere that isn't a friends house then someone will hit on you at some point.
and even if you don't do any of thete, im sure that at somepoint you will figure out a way to express yourself in a way that will attract the boys. you got time.
but remember, you can ask men out too, there is no reason why you can't. like all the vilains say: if you want to get something done you have to do it yourself.

[noamazia]

by the way, maybe someone tried to hit on you but wasn't clear enough so you didn't get the signal.

[awkwardddgirl]

yeah but it's hard to take a hint. I can't really differentiate between friendly and flirty behavior.

[noamazia]

me neither. its one of my greatest flaws in interactions with women.
for exmaple: during summer break before my last year in highschool i worked for the city's municipality with a girl and we became friends. i used to drive her since she was on my way to work, and almost everytime we drove back she would tell me to take a detour since driving around late at night was fun. one day we talking more than usual before work (a conversation in which she told me what she enjoys in bed) and after, and at that point, late at night, sitting beneath her house, she stroked the back of my hand and told me i have nice skin. and i didn't get that, i just kept talking. dumbest moment ever, and i figured it out only 5 years lated when i was in the shower reminiscing... i still have those moments but im much better. but i can tell you for certain, that if you try to work on it, either with just keeping it in mind when talking to boys (or when other girls are talking to boys you know they have a thing with), or actively trying to improve through practice or YT videos or something, it will get better.

worst case scenario walk around with this 😂 www.zazzle.com/im_single_ask_me_out_t_shirt-235138831856253652
i would have if it wouldn't have been pathetic at late 20s.

[awkwardddgirl]

Omg. haha , if things don't work out then I would definitely invest in that shirt.

[SkipPerk]

It is difficult to ask girls out. You get a lot of rejection. It is intimidating.

you need to start asking guys out. You will get some empathy. Also, many of us like being pursued. I dated a girl in college I never would have considered had she not courted me (not pretty, bad body, but cute, witty and cool).

also, men are very impressionable after an orgasm. Depending on your age, after you sleep with, swallow or service your intended man, compliment him and tell him why you like him. Good guys fall for this all the time.

do Not wait for a man to chase you. You chase the man

[awkwardddgirl]

yeah thanks. Guess I have to try asking a guy out. I hope he doesn't make fun of me with his friends cause it is usually a guy who makes the move

[Siren777]

Show interest in them. Sometimes girls are closed off to a connection or to receiving affection that it scares off a romantic interest. Also if you don't show any interest they may assume you're taken.

[hahahmm]

Probably because you have guy friends who have been giving other guys the impression that you're in relationships already and you spend all of your free time with these guys. A lot of guys these days won't ask a woman out for fear of being accused of sexual harassment.

And yeah, you dressing like an 80 year-old nun won't help you attract guys who don't know you. Guys are visual. Doesn't mean you have to dress like a "slut" but wearing clothes that fit really well and show some curves would be smart. After a guy sees something he likes then he gets closer & might find out he likes more about you. A guy who is blind to a woman's looks & only cares about her heart is super rare. Plus those guys are already dating 500 pound women & they don't have time for you.

[Mofunfour20]

You answered the question in your question. If you know you arnt attractive to men why are you wondering? Nobody ever told you men like sexy women? Ridiculous, if you dont even know what men want why would you be surprised. You never provided what they want. Jesus Christ, help her

[awkwardddgirl]

then what exactly do they want

[Mofunfour20]

Sex and compliance which in turn gives a man peace.

[ChiTown33]

Because you're not showing any interest in them. Most guys don't approach women unless they give them a sign they're open to being approached. If you want to be approached you have to start making an effort. Guys c as not read your mind.

[Anonymous]

Most guys aren’t just going to randomly approach a girl. Unless he has had lots of alcohol. Too much to lose. If you want to get approached go to bars where there are drunk people

[Anonymous]

It may not have anything to do with you personally at all (most likely doesn't). We can not ask out a woman for any and ALL the same reasons women don't ask us.

[Snakeyes7]

I think the most common reason is they think that there is no way that you don't already have a boyfriend so they don't bother. I make that same mistake

[Pohjolan]

This is missing a exeptional amount of context.
Like how many dating apps are you on?
A literal table will get swipes to right on tinder if its gender is female.

[SignedAutographs]

I've never been asked out or asked out anyone either. I like to think I'm a catch yet I can't get any girl to ask me out. Why?

[awkwardddgirl]

sorry are you asking or answering

[SignedAutographs]

Both

[awkwardddgirl]

why haven't you tried asking anyone out instead of waiting for someone to do it

[SignedAutographs]

I didn't know guys were EXPECTED to do it

[awkwardddgirl]

i never told it is expected from guys. I just meant if you like someone maybe you can make the move

[SignedAutographs]

Then maybe take your own advice?

[awkwardddgirl]

I am planning to ask a guy out but I don't know him personally. We just go to the same collage. I am really scared to come off as a stalker or creep

[SignedAutographs]

Get to be his friend first. Then ask him out

[awkwardddgirl]

considering that we will be graduating in a few months not sure i can be his friend

[SignedAutographs]

There's always time to do that

[SkipPerk]

Ask him out. Men are not afraid of women the way women are rationally afraid of men.

Ask him out. Imply you want intimacy badly. Either you get him or you don’t. Do not waste time and have regrets. Also, men know how hard this is, so he will treat you with respect (unlike many women who like to humiliate men public ally)

[awkwardddgirl]

@SkipPerk that is so true. I really don't like it when women humiliate men in public. I mean accept it if he proposes you in public to save him from an embarrassing situation and later say it to him in private if you want to reject him

[Zolly99999]

That a tough question to answer with out seeing you or talking to you... sorry

[awkwardddgirl]

no worries

[Anonymous]

It's not easy these days, a lot of people are just trying to hook up on tinder and similar aps for sex only, not relationships.

[awkwardddgirl]

true. I really want an emotional connection to be there. But I feel like I am not attractive enough for a guy to ask me

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe you are, I can't see your picture, but even if you are attractive, it's still not easy.

[controlleddecent]

need a pic for an opinion