Why has no one ever asked me out?

[bri1234]

I am really nice, Love the outdoors, very athletic, artistic, shy, kind hearted...why has no one ever asked me out?

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Maybe I'm just too ugly or something

[jaynasty]

maybe because your shy? or too shy? you aren't ugly but you seem like a very laid back easy going natural type of girl here's how to catch a guy attention show off you assetes...you have a nice tummy let it be known nice ass nice breasts legs whatever be yourself dress how you want but maybe just show it off a little bit get dressed up do some makeup style your hair this will catch a guys attention after that your loving shy and kind personality should take over and do the rest of the work but you have to catch a guys attention first also maybe you should think abbout being the one to make the first move and ask a guy out... hope I helped

[bkramer]

Thanks, I will look into that:)

[Batali777]

You should think about what type of signals you are giving to guys you talk to. You may come off as just a friendly girl who is fun to hang out with. You might want to come out of your shell a little bit and be just a little flirtatious but also be yourself. Also, remember that a lot of guys may want to ask you out buy are shy themselves and of course the male ego is mortified by the thought of rejection.

[bri1234]

Thank you so much:)....I might be just too shy myself or have a really low self esteem or maybe I'm just very unattractive =/

[heyitslinda]

I'm 18 and have never had a boyfriend. I don't think to much of it because who says you have to have had a boyfriend by any age? I've meet women who hadn't had a boyfriend until they were like 23, if by 30 you haven't had a boyfriend you might want to look in to what you could be doing.

[bkramer]

Very true. Wow I'm glade I'm not alone then:) Thank you!!

[heyitslinda]

No problem, I was actually happy to see this post haha :)

[TwiceTru]

I didn't have a boyfriend till I was 19 (my current age). I know how you feel. The best advice I could give is to be more active and outgoing. I too am shy and I stayed at home a lot. The second I started to go out more and become more social is when I found me an awesome guy.Good luck!

[bkramer]

Awesome, good for you. Thanks for the support:)

[dvdkn7]

@ linda... uve never had a bf? I find that hard to believe.... ur gorgeous,mayb guys always thought you were taken?

oh and add me to the list, 18 and still single

[bkramer]

Awww thank you, I hope you find someone:)

[heyitslinda]

@DVD I don't know I'm really tall (6ft) so I think effects it but thanks haha

[Daggermouth]

I think you're cute and you seem really nice. I'm sure the reason as to why no Guy has ever asked you out is because they're probably just shy. Trust me I'm sure a Guy has had a thing for you but was just to scared to ask You out :)

[bkramer]

Thank you so much! I hope that's the case:)

[Daggermouth]

Most likely

[WildVyse]

My problem is that every girl who's single is only into friendship, and any girl who wants a relationship doesn't want me.

So perhaps you've just had bad luck

[bkramer]

Could be, Thanks so much:)

[WildVyse]

I'd give you a good chance if you lived near me, and I'm sure there are plenty of guys who will out there near you too.

[bkramer]

Lol Thanks!

[frustratedchump06]

guys are probably intimidated by you and assume you are taken already, plus, a lot of guys are tired of always have to initiate.

[bri1234]

Good point Thank you!:)

[Anonymous]

Because you annoy guys by asking the same question within 10 minutes of the first. Wait 10 minutes and ask the same exact question again and maybe you'll get a valuable answer.

[bkramer]

Ok Thank you for the advice! I'm sorry if I annoy you and you are right:)

[Opinion Owner]

Now I feel bad, I wasn't trying to be mean. Just be patient. Loving the outdoors, athletic and everything are all good traits/qualities. Just be confident about yourself. Obviously guys see some kind of insecurity or attitude they don't like. I am assuming that could be one reason.

[bkramer]

No hard feelings:) I could see that as a possible reason. Thanks again!

[Opinion Owner]

Your attitude seems upbeat and positive at least. I wish you the best of luck with finding a guy!

[moviedude714]

I've never had a girlfriend and I'm 22, it's much tougher for us guys, but it can be done, us guys have to do more work, because girls just have to reject or welcome advances

[bkramer]

Very true, Thank you! Good luck in you're search:)

[moviedude714]

I bet if I was a girl, I would have had a boyfriend a very long time ago, it is so much easier for you girls, that's my opinion, can't be changed

[moviedude714]

I hate how us guys always have to initiate

[93stepsawayfromhome]

You could try to ask them out yourself. Maybe every guy you've liked is just too shy.

[rupert906]

hhmmm...
maybe because you don't get out there
or do you?

[bkramer]

Come to think of it I really don't get out that much. Since I am shy it can be difficult, I am trying to break out of my shell a little though. Thank you!!

[Anonymous]

if you are really kindhearted and shy thats why you are single. society wants aholes like they are.

[Jxpxtxr]

Haha sounds like me..

[Anonymous]

I have never found a real guy who loves me the way I am ... do disabled people ever find love

[jaynasty]

will you go out with me?

[bkramer]

You are sweet lol. Thank you;)

[MrKkibbles]

You kinda look like you would be a prude.

[bkramer]

Yeah a little

[bkramer]

Is that a bad thing?

[snackeyg]

Prude=bitch in my opinion and yeah that's really bad.

[MrKkibbles]

Generally yeah its a bad thing.

[bkramer]

Oh ok I don't think I'm as bad as you think I am

[smallbrownman]

WILL UGO OUT WITH ME? there!

[bkramer]

Awww your sweet Thanks;)

[lv4lv]

Why hasn't anyone asked ME out?

[bkramer]

Lol Thanks:)