Why do you think girls aren't attracted to me?

[Miroveteniii]

İ have a nice looking nice body and height 1.82 m but girls dont like me and İm 24 and İm still vîrgîn. İ never even kissed a girl what should İ do

[OpenClose]

Looking back on my teens and early 20's, I can say girls probably like you more than you think.

I'm still a virgin at 31. I thought it was because I was undesirable, but I've chatted with a lot of girls I knew then, and surprisingly many had crushes on me. But I was rather quiet and reserved, and many took it as disinterest or apathy, and didn't want to impose. The relationships I did have were pretty good, but short, so we never got to that point (I'm not an exactly sexually assertive guy, so she determined more of the pace).

So at least take that into consideration. I don't know you, myself, but you could be perfectly awesome, and just have some obstacle you need to identify.

Maybe you haven't relaxed when socializing, so you're micromanaging your own thoughts and not noticing interest when it's there, or are worried that reciprocating it is inappropriate. I bring that up because I know a lot of guys like that. The micromanaging is the big one for me. Getting stuck in my own head and blocking myself happens a lot.

Maybe you're in a circle that isn't quite right for you so you're comparing yourself to people who aren't you, and hanging around girls who don't get you.

But don't diminish your own value just because you haven't kissed or slept with girls yet. As I said, it could be something totally separate from attraction.

But I do understand the feeling, and the frustration. It feels like everyone else had a party and you weren't invited. Or in my case, it feels like I arrived at the party ready to rock, just as everyone got bored and left, and that I'm too old to join another one.

Relationships have gotten harder these days, so know that plenty of others share your struggle.

[Anonymous]

You're a virgin is a big flag. Women are like credit. If you don't have credit it's hard to establish it because nobody wants to take a chance on you. Same with women! If you've never had a woman you're a risk. And clearly not in demand. Women Notorious want to deny other women spoils. Their just silly competitive like that.🤣
The messed up part is they don't want you if you've had too many women either. Because then you're a risk the other way.
Your best bet is to just stop worrying about it. Find an easy target, dip your wick, and move on. If that is your goal I mean, to get laid. Otherwise just stop worrying about it all together. It's just sex. Society make too big of a deal about. Quality over quantity is always the best way to go if you ask me.

[PrettyPriya]

A large majority of women judge personality first and foremost. Not knowing you, I cannot say if that is the problem or not.

Looks are secondary. Yes, I have to be physically attracted but that is far from the most important thing I look for.

[Miroveteniii]

Why physcicallyy not important İ even go to gym and my personality is good too

[Mommysboy31]

Real women don't judge a man solely on their looks... I'm not the best looking guy but I get the best looking girls... its all about how you carry yourself and the confidence you have. Looks are secondary.

[Miroveteniii]

What should İ do

[PrettyPriya]

@Mommysboy31 that is the most intelligent thing I’ve read this evening.

[Mommysboy31]

Thank you I try. It's from experience lol

[Mommysboy31]

Maybe focus on your personality as well as your looks. Put personality first and you should be just fine

[PrettyPriya]

@garykingg how about you give your own opinion and get off mine? Don’t speak for me, thank you.

[PrettyPriya]

@garykingg what truth? You are trying to speak for me (?) and women?

[PrettyPriya]

@garykingg so, you are speaking for me then?

[PrettyPriya]

@garykingg let me give you a piece of advice. Don’t speak for me or other women. You are welcome to your own opinion, which I see is well formulated.

Stay off other opinions for the sake of arguing or harassing. I’m entitled to my opinion too. You can choose to ignore it and move on.

However, trolling on my opinions won’t be tolerated.

[garykingg]

I don't think you would ever be able to silence the truth

[Anonymous]

we need more info , maybe its where your trying to meet the girls or maybe your not meeting as many girls as you think. to find a girlfriend often have to expand your social circle and meet a number of different girls before someone you'd actually want to date emerges

[Gangactivities911]

Young women don’t like anyone. They have unreasonable expectations and are currently going for men more attractive than them. Either play the field with women less attractive than u or wait til these same women are older and therefore less attractive.

[Gaibriel]

When will dudes learn it's not all about the body for women?

Women need that personality emotional factor.

Keep that in mind. Focus on that and you'll get a girl.

[MCheetah]

You're too short. And your body might not be that nice; otherwise they'd probably be into you.

[garykingg]

Do you have a defined jawline and a symmetrical face? If not that's probably why. To get a girlfriend face matters more that they might let you to believe

[omnivert]

Try going to different area clubs and find your girl.

[Zygum]

You should have soft tongue and big load in your wallet, money can buy everything

[Iron_Man]

Try Christian Mingles

[Joker_]

you're an incel

[Miroveteniii]

İ am all hail to supreme gentleman