Why do guys say "You look like a girl only good for sex"?

[Anonymous]

Hi I'm 31 F. Lots of guys on dating apps message me with "Hey you look like you are good for only sex. Come over my house right now and bring a paper bag to put over your face".

I haven't had sex in 7 years and I am definitely not promiscuous. I have posted pictures of myself in jeans, T-Shirt and turtlenecks. Definitely no sexy pictures at all as I am looking for a serious relationship.

So why do men only view me as a one night delivery sex thing?

[Anonymous]

Most guys aren't on dating sites to find a relationship...

Relationships are dead! I'm not sure why any woman expects to find anything remotely resembling a relationship on sites like that. Ever heard of the phrase 'Nice guys finish last?' Well those were the guys that wanted relationships and a lot of them just walked away... leaving the other ones that only want sex or ONS... friends with benefits etc etc.

[Asker]

But I don't dress sexy at all, I cover my whole body! And I haven't had sex in 7 years! So why be so insulting and saying "you look like you're only good for sex!" I can understand guys saying that women who post their pussy on dating apps. But a normal girl in a baggy jumper who doesn't have any sex is considered a hoe because she wants to get married?

[Opinion Owner]

There are still girls that wear hijabs, cover up with modest clothing that are just as promiscuous. Maybe they just assume all are that way regardless of how they dress. Thus exceptions to the rule will be tarred with the same brush.

[Opinion Owner]

It also depends on the look in the eyes too.

[Anonymous]

Dating apps are shit, being used by overly horny weirdos who've never talked to a woman, guys looking for easy sex or girls looking to stroke their ego. Dating is dead because women killed it. Men nowadays won't invest in a relationship when they can get quick and easy sex without even going on a date.

[Asker]

So basically in future every woman will be only for sex? I get rejected a lot because I don't go straight to their house after they send the first message.

So guys will probably just have sex with 25 different women every day until they die!

I just wanted to get married to guy who appreciates that I am holding out for him!

[Киттйлинк]

Lots of guys message that to you? 👀
You sure it’s not the same guy with different accounts? Lol seems weird for all to send something so rude as that.

Maybe block those people or just find another app. That’s rude.

[Киттйлинк]

Hmmmmmm… OR..
perhaps you are a man? trying to bash women in their 30’s insinuating that they are not good potential parters which is pathetic in itself to even think that.
Now analyzing this alll… I do not think you are a woman. I think you’re a bitter lonely man who can’t find a girlfriend. 😱

I will go ahead and report this as multiple accounts so they can delete your accounts :)

[Киттйлинк]

If I’m wrong then your account won’t be deleted so don’t worry.

[Agagagagaga]

@Киттйлинк I see you’re carrying on your country’s tradition of reporting people to the authorities. Thankfully the gulags are a thing of the past.

[PrettyPriya]

Likely that is all they are on there for and spray that message to as many as they can in hopes one responds positively.

This is why I haven’t or ever will use dating apps.

[Imsmurter1]

I've never heard of any guy saying that openly to a girl that's very rude. I apologize if that's how guys have treated you online.

Can you rate my appearance please? Girls, How much do you rate my fat-ass out of 10? ↗ and please don't be mean just for the sake of being mean. Thanks :)

[DarkWinterNights]

You’re a woman in your early 30’s on a dating app.


That’s it. There’s your answer.


Guys have to deal with silence and bots. Women get to deal with tons of spam, dick pics and half assed pickups lines.

[Agagagagaga]

This.

[ohshee]

Stop it you are kidding me right . no guy has ever said that to you. Have they

[clampfan101]

They’re just being desperate perverts. Not all guys are like that though, but you’re sadly more likely to find them in places like dating apps.

[Wise4myage]

You must have a hot body, but it is rude to say that to a girl.

[Anonymous]

Because it's a dating app. That's pretty commplace for a woman.
Just like it's pretty commonplace for women to ignore guys messages.

[Anonymous]

They mean your body looks fit young and girlie but they're not sexually attracted to your face... hence...
As the saying goes " Cover the face... f*ck the base"

[Avicenna]

Because they are low class

[Sam_The_Savage]

It's depends on your pics...

[Asker]

Big turtleneck jumper and jeans and trainers. Is that too sexy?

[arkward-villain]

Perhaps you look untameable

[nawtee_me]

not sure but would love to see one of your pics...

[Asker]

Google "a woman in big baggy jumper and jeans". Is that too promiscuous and sexy?

[nawtee_me]

I think it is sexy yes but not promiscuous...

[JohnK123]

That’s strange… are they like younger guys?

[Xoirwinkan]

Wow, whoever says that to a girl is garbage.

[Fuentes]

I don't take chicks serious on. those apps

[Iron_Man]

I don’t