Also I'm not trying to be mean or anything I'm just actually curious and I actually like secual comments as long as they are harmless and more on the joking side!
So for example. I'm not wearing anything provocative I'm just in my room looking normal with a bit of makeup still on from earlier today but a few guys in my apartment building made sexual comments even though I'm not dressed up like that
Guys, why do you make sexual comments towards girls?
Because we love sex it’s how we were made , most girls don’t understand that about men and think we are just being pigs and don’t get me wrong yes their are pigs out there but the reality of it , we are complimenting her and pretty much saying we find her very attractive and beautiful and picturing her naked in our arms We show our appreciation and love to a girl through sex , when a girl gives us sex we feel she values us and respects us and that she is very attracted to us it rises our Ego, the hard part is not really knowing what the real intentions are because there are men and women that just want sex and nothing more so yes it’s a 50/50 chance on whether it means something or they are just trying To get off on you , that’s the gamble we all take , Me personally can’t have sex with a girl unless I feel chemistry and connection with her and feel like it’s going somewhere , I can’t just bang a girl for the hell of it But I been with girl’s that have played me , so again it’s a gamble and a 50/50 chance , Sex is important to most men in a relationship, if his girl isn’t giving him sex and withholding sex from him or making him feel he has To earn it , he will feel she doesn’t value and respect him and feel that maybe she is getting it from someone else or planning on getting it from someone else , we aren’t mind readers , so if a guy is constantly getting denied cuz she isn’t in the mood and only gives him sex when she is in the mood that is adding fire into the relationship , he will start to resent her and feel she doesn’t value him and might be open to another girl that makes him feel more valued and wanted , Relationships are not easy every relationship has it’s ups and downs , So it’s important to make your partner your number 1 priority and value each other , compliment each other , remove selfishness and temptations for each other , sacrifice for each other wear each other’s shoes , it won’t always be perfect but when you prove to your partner that you are not going anywhere and that you love them and don’t want anyone else that’s what makes love grow, accepting the fact that you can’t always be right and that you can be wrong , Showing each other respect , will keep you both closer together and for love to grow. So sexual comments again can go both ways , If I make a sexual comment to a girl I am pretty much letting her know that I find her beautiful and gorgeous and that I am open to having her naked in my arms
Control your dicks. You can't excuse for nasty behavior and degrade a person to a sexual factor because you feel horny 24/7. If you're lustful then you don't have real intention of love; "it's a complement" or women just have to avoid getting an unavoidable pregnancy then having the man leave them. Thats what I can at least know if your LOVE SEX. And if it's a woman then she's a whore and smells like fish. Lol. Keep it in your pants and find a hobby, I'm sure you're over that teenage age.
GaG has around 400,000 monthly active users (people who post something at least once a month). Let's say that 60% of them are male. That's 240,000 men who post here. Let's say that only 1 percent of them make overtly sexual comments towards girls here. 1% is 2400 men. Do you think 2400 men are here on GaG doing this every month? Perhaps, but I suspect it's about half that. But even if we say it IS 2400 men every month, you're still only talking about 1% of GaG's male population, which means the vast majority of the men aren't doing this.
As for WHY those 1% of guys do this, it's because they're horny, they want sexual attention, and they know if they make comments like that to 20 or 30 or 50 girls, eventually one of them will respond positively and even enthusiastically, and he might get some sexting or nudes or something out of it. For those guys, it's simply a numbers game, and one they know they can win as long as they run the numbers up high enough. Success breeds repeat performances.
Because a woman is supposed to save herself like the last cookie while the man is free to lick the cookie crumbs off anyone's plate, is how the society functions. It's disgusting honestly.
Also, you're very beautiful. Not hitting on you, it's just a compliment. You look gentle and elegant, which is very attractive in my opinion.
Guys usually like to take advice from other guys, who because of "boys will be boys" culture and general association with gold diggers and prostitutes have the "most accurate advice ever", aka sexist misogynistic hypothesis of their own that they confuse with facts. Which is why, you'd never see remorse or shame on any guy's face if you don't react well to their negative attention. In fact, even the good guys would advise you to cover up, like that helps.
You are most pretty Ms Savy, of course, but as for the sexual comments from guys and because what's on their mind ends up in their hand, which results in a transfer of their brains to that area, at that point they lose their mind and say just about anything, they can't help themselves... just saying... lol
Men who are physically attracted to an attractive woman won't need provocative clothing to know how hot a woman is. Usually its the eyes, followed by the way she walks, talks, carries herself, & the overall vibe she's got. Even if you're a goofy dork, if you look like you want someone to spit in your mouth & tie you up (not clothing, more like facial expressions & body language & again the EYES) then a man will pick up on that. Now a real man with self control, dignity & game will be able to make subtle advances that will draw your attention to them. When a boy/man makes sexual advances usually they dont mean any harm but literally psychologically cannot handle your hotness & lose their sense of awareness & then they get torrettes syndrome out of nowhere and say whatever is on their mind a little bit too honestly. But it just means theyre very attracted to you, a lot of the time men dont mean to objectify women, but especially with men who dont get laid, their brains cannot literally handle your level of attractiveness. 🤷♂️
Because, most guys who are made this way are slimeballs and fuckboys who enjoy leering at, and catcalling other women because it makes them feel good about themselves. Those guys have trouble keeping it in their pants and probably have no respect for their mothers or sisters either.
In short basically, they lowkey think they're being charming and cool, when in reality, they're both annoying and obnoxious to even us guys who are nothing like them. Contrary to popular belief, not all of us guys enjoy passing sexual comments towards women and we just think it's rude and uncalled for, and whoever treats you like this is a downright creep.
The majority of Western society is blatantly hypocritical in their promulgation of especially juvenile and adolescent gender's sexual experiences. Smothered in Judeao-Christian guilt-trips and real-world hypocritical tristings!
How many of your judgmental parents got THEIR first experiences from pervy relatives or in sweaty backseats fogging the car windows with rushin hands and roamin fingers? T. J. & the Shondells and later covered by Brittany " I think we're alone now"
Its only natural to be curious "what's it like?" from the OTHER gender's perceptions at those first vulnerable occasions And risque' comments invite opening discussions. Everyone is 'insecure' at their core psyches but no one wants to ADMIT their curiosity and/or personal vulnerable fetishes <3
Because men are -- generally -- attracted to women. It's this biological thing called sexual attraction. From a science pov, men can sense phereomones and be attracted. men can see visually that a woman is FEMALE and find this attractive.
Men also have mouths and tongues and can speak. That hasn't been outlawed yet.
If you don't want any attention from men then start dressing like a dude or get really fat and dye your hair green/purple. Maybe grow a beard. Cut your hair super short. yeah, there's a few losers who will still chase you but it will only be a tiny fraction of the dudes who talk to you now.
You're not fat and look like you've taken a bath recently... so I would expect guys would want to take you to the bone zone. Not sure where you are at in the world, but just by not being obese alone puts you in the 9 out of 10 + category. I live in Washington State and I'm not bullshitting you by saying I can walk around here for weeks and see very few examples that come close to you in that picture... it's that bad here. I go back to Japan though and you're just one of the many. There you're pretty average. It depends on where you're at.
So why the sexual comments? You are eye candy. If you live in a place where eye candy isn't commonplace, then I expect you'd be getting a ton of those types of comments.
Some guys are just rude and crude! But I understand that when a bunch of women are together. Like in a work environment. They are about the same as a group of men. You are young, single and very pretty. Most guys think that they are God’s gift to women. I do agree. Talking about how a girl fries her eggs can be extremely sexy without being a pig about it! 👀
that's a succinct way of putting it:) it's part testosterone telling them what they want, but the filter isn't there. and if it gets them what they want, they are rewarded. in essence though they don't care about you, they care about how they feel... it's selfish. So they are thinking, thinking stupid, selfish, and they need smacked in the head. society used to do this to some extent and develop people with class. A lot of spoiled brats out there... and desperate ones. part of it is you are the object of desire, there's no way around the reality guys are highly visually stimulated.
Lol I love the way you said you like sexual comments while you are actually complaining about sexual comments. Lol guys make sexual comments most of the time when a woman is very attractive. In my experience, when we would “joke” around, that was a girl that was really pretty. Nowadays, women don’t even want to hear they are pretty unless if comes from a man they like. But it’s also funny, that the majority of men are giving women what they want and not giving them that kind of attention anymore, and the women are complaining now that men aren’t assertive enough and doesn’t take initiative. Lol women as a whole need to come together and figure out what they want… hard to do when you can’t figure what mood you are in when it comes to wanting to eat food.
Well first to acknowledge the obvious, you are sexy!
But to answer the question I think sometimes it works and in situations where it probably won't work I think they do it for their own entertainment or to see how you react, they may get off on ANY reaction like if you laugh or if you look embarrassed, it might be the closest they can get to being intimate with a girl at that moment? Who knows how boy brains work or any brains for that matter?
Because men are hard wired to compulsively hit on almost every woman they see. The ones that done were raised to be overly respective and overly polite, or... The ones who do, likely had a father brother or close male friends that did. They continue to do it because for some unexplainable reason, while most find the behavior annoying/harrasing, clearly there are are a percentage who do like it. As long as that percentage keeps buying, the men will keep pushing.
I don’t make sexual comments personally. Because they’re wanting sex. They either can’t control themselves or think if they send dirty comments to 100 women. One will say yes or like it. Even if 99 others are disgusted and they embarrassed themselves or 100.
I really don’t know why some guys do this. Some girls do too.
It isn’t safe to talk to women in real life in my state without an immediately obvious business purpose and multiple witnesses. Even then some will still try to sue. Filing a lawsuit in New York is like buying a lottery ticket, such that the initial buy end is almost insignificant but the payoff could be in the millions.
This is a really unfortunate consequence of feminism, such that a lot of opportunities are lost for social or romantic relationships, professional mentorships, academic partnerships etc. But no, the Marxist dialectic must rage on.
A man once told me, he doesn't mean to do it on purpose... that sometimes he see's someone he finds attractive and thinks it, but then realizes he is cat calling her without meaning to.
Well I wouldn't say sexy things to a girl I dont really know an as for your clothes I just say you look nice or if I think it's a hot dress say it looks hot but if I say a sexy remark it's to female friends they know I'm giving a conplement to like nothing more than that outfit will make guys want you
Because guys are highly motivated to have sex. And beautiful girls like yourself make their hormones rage and they start thinking with their little head instead of their big one. Most of them are probably trying to be nice, flirty, and complimentary but come out dum or crude.
Pure ignorance. They think they rude and crude comments actually work. They think it'll turn her on and they'll actually think they'll have a chance with her. Stupidity. I don't know where they learn it, maybe porn. There's no excuse for it
Some guys just have no self control/manners and think that because women exist they can sexualise them. I’d just wait until in a relationship to start making comments like that, when appropriate.
Men are pigs that's the bottom line, I know because I am one. Most likely the ones making the comments are 100% sure you're way out of their league, and showing their ass in front of their friends. Try to lower your worth in hopes of raising theirs. Ignore it really it's not worth thinking about.
All I can think about is trying to get girls' attention through any means possible. Be it in a good way or bad, does not matter. They just want the attention.
Same reason why girls make sexual comments towards guys. Maybe it has something to do with just being straight and human. Also why are compliments considered sexual comments when a man does it?
I wouldn't know tbh. I don't make sexual comments at most I will say they look nice but that's it. Unless your in a relationship and at that point I think it's rather in appropriate.
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Probably because you're drop dead gorgeous. You could come out in messy hair and sweats and probably still get cat-called lol
A gentleman would never do that. These guys are still adolescents.
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I, for one, have never ever made any sexual comment to anyone for any reason at any time or at any place about anything in any circumstance so I am offended I would be included in this category.
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