Why do guys make stupid and/or degrading remarks to girls online?

[WowwGirl]

It’s not cute, it's tasteless, and it’s embarrassing. Why do you guys have to do that?

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[PeacefulRainDrop]

Its happened twice to me since I reactivated my account.. then they block you so that you can't respond.. or delete your comment so that there is no one opposing what they want to do both were from guy accounts... one was about sending dick pics/videos I advised we dont like seeing that and the guy should respect himself.. he responded thats stupid with covid.. I said I acknowledge its covid but keep your goods a mystery then he responded something hateful in totally in left field... I said its just my opinion you dont have to do it.. its your free will couldnt respond cause he blocked me.. also one blocked me about being a waiter and spitting in someone's food... I said it doesn't surprise me? He said something like well dont be a bitch.. I said im not I rarely eat out cause I already considered tampering of food likely goes on this post just confirmed it then he comes back from left field again says I am an American that has my parents doing everything for me..

All over opinions they didn't like.. I think its stupid.. since when did people become such pussies.. there's been another guy on his post that wasn't kind but I didn't trash talk him probably like he wanted.. he didn't block me or delete my comment..

I accept and acknowledge not everyone will have the same opinions thats why there's a you and me... why silence one like what the media is doing today? Both people can believe what they believe and still live in harmony... people seem to have forgotten! The world is full of pansies I might delete the app again its not as good anymore!

[GoldenTulip]

Because they are Pussies in real life.. online they can hide behind a computer screen it is safe. In the outside world they will never say it oit loud. Behind the pc at home alone everyone is suddenly Gangster. (In their mind).

[kevyhanma]

Thug life biyotch💯🤣😡‼️🔫🔫🔫

[ohshee]

Well I have to be the first one to admit that I probably have done this myself just trying to be a smart-ass or something in my words mixed up I never cut it down talk or hurt anybody in any manner or any form. I am usually the guy that will back any girls play. Because in general I don't like how men treat women and if I have ever done it to anybody I apologize right here now that's not what it was meant to be about like I said I'm usually the guy in the girls corner I watch too much stuff have them in my life and I don't put up with it very well but I really just like about it is you take somebody beautiful like you it should have just as outgoing personality and I'm sure you do but I read in your questions a lot of pain a lot of hurt and I just think to myself somebody fucked her mind up somebody fucked her up and I think that's just wrong because I how do I read your questions I see your art your character the beauty find everything that you put into that question and you're very talented super smart individual actually with a good heart too so I guess the only thing that I can say guys do it because they have taken their brain out and played with it one too many times and put it back together and all the parts that they have lost will never make them whole again kind of like Humpty Dumpty

[robocop666]

stupid idiots thats why

[WowwGirl]

Thank you

[Coolkat12345]

I completely agree lol

[KatieCC]

Anonymity absolves responsibility for actions, their assholes to other guys online too, the internet is wonderful. The added bonus of being female tho is they can vent sexual frustration onto you as well ✨.

As a general rule, take all online comments with a grain of salt or snap back in a joking way if you can, it'll dispel tension and force them to see you as human. That is... Unless they're dense and acting genuinely malicious in which case just stop talking to them, people like that don't have healthy conversations because they crave attention... OR, you could have some fun with it and dig into their psyche, often it's surprising how much they'll open up... once they're really emotionally invested drop em at random ❤ I live for that shit ❤

[ChiTown33]

Wow! You're kind of monstrous.

[KatieCC]

@ChiTown33 I am but a product of the internet and gaming lobbies, thank you kind sir ❤

[kevyhanma]

You should get a life weirdo

[KatieCC]

@kevyhanma bruh I see you commenting on every other post on here, don't act like you have a life stfu

[kevyhanma]

So you don’t have any hobbies or friends your a loser bro I was looking for a bitch with a brain but I was deeply disappointed and disgusted by you whores

[silkjames]

One word 'immature' lol or they can't take rejection so being rude I guess makes them feel better because people take the bait people like that like working our people up with negative BS just ignore them if u reply back with hate boom u put a smile on there face there no different from bully's in my generation we old school we moped all the bully's up lol but now look 2021 online online is a immature/bully's wet dream they hide behind there keyboard and talk bs on the street I bet they look at the ground and keep walking then power walk home to jump on there phone or computer because they had a bad day or something Soo they take it out on other people I just ignore them I keep scrolling we have the power to just don't reply no one putting me in a bad mood but me🤙🤙😁!!

[ChrisMaster69]

Let’s put it this way, in the real world girls put up with cat calls, verbal abuse, inappropriate touching on the likes of public transport, this is where you can actually see the person making the remarks and potentially the touching.

Now move this to a medium where you cannot readily see the person, they have the ability to be anonymous, hide behind the old ‘well girls do it also’ thing.

It’s not really surprising that people will be abusive every chance they get.

Not sure about the US, but in the UK road rage is a bit of a nightmare and people only do it because they are in a metal security box.

It’s so much simpler being nice to people (admittedly Blue Anon Virgins do not fall in to that category)

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

For the same reason some women do the same to men. Far easier to insult than admit you have no value point. Easier to try to degrade other people to make themselves look or feel better. Thinking that means they bested someone instead of realizing the better person can get their point across without doing that and can agree to disagree/debate those differences and still do so as a responsible adult. Just because someone disagrees is no reason to try to degrade them.

[TonyMetal___86]

Well said miss brains muffins 🙂

[BabyGirlRobin]

Calling people out for the fucked up shit they do is fine, but I don't understand guys who put down girls, call them ugly, and insults their looks for no reason.

[WowwGirl]

I agree

[Mofunfour20]

Because men live in a fact based reality. When we speak its usually facts and women often love to argue against facts with feelings. Just because your feelings are hurt does not make a statement false. Women speak overtly with regard for the persons emotions and feelings. Men speak frankly, without attachment to emotion but FACTS$$

[Mofunfour20]

So many dislikes yet nobody has a logical argument. y'all funny

[The_Maphio]

It's women you're talking about. Specifically, young women. Modern young women.
The kind of woman that is not viable as wife material. Of course they don't need to give YOU any reasoning behind their rage.

[Mofunfour20]

@The_Maphio the reason is insecurity. They would rather die than be honest about it 🤣😂🤣, her loss🤷🏿‍♂️

[The_Maphio]

Even though not literally, fuck them. You got a head on your shoulders, be proud of it.

[Mofunfour20]

@The_Maphio likewise, honesty makes facts easier to adhere to. The dislikes speaks volume to the delusions people want to believe.

[ArrowheadSW]

I don't get it when people make rude remarks to anyone on here. It makes me wonder what kind of life they live and where their head is at.

[WowwGirl]

Me too

[Floppy2112]

Those dudes are insecure. If they are doing it, without prompting. Meaning, if they initiate the degrading comments, they've been hurt, they blame everybody but themselves for all their problems and weren't raised right. Meaning they are lashing out like a kid who perceives insult where none was made.

[VanillaSalt]

Help someone said something mean to me and I’m offended because I have too much free time... that’s all I heard from that.


Although your right. I wish men would ignore women all together. Ide be interested in how women would respond to being completely ignored. I’m tired of this I hate you you hate me bullshit.

[MrOracle]

I don't think I do that, but I don't believe in belittling anyone without some pretty strong just cause - something which rarely occurs.

But to answer your question, those that do tend to be insecure people who are trying to make themselves feel better by making other people feel worse - and that's a bankrupt and selfish way to live.

[TheUniqueOne96]

The same reason women do it to men.

Happened to me earlier today, before I got blocked, when all I did was address her points and point out a small dig she took at men:

What do guys mean with traditional submissive women? Do they want women to obey them and hit them since traditionally women were hit for not obeying?

[Darbby]

I hate it when a man answer is because u do that too.. Omg thats so childish 😒

[WowwGirl]

I totally agree

[MasseurDeMojo]

Most of the guys who make stupid remarks feel that since you cannot see them, and you do not know where they live; they can say what ever they want, and never have to deal with the consequences.

The problem; it makes those of us who are real, have a harder time talking with decent women!!!

Ultimately, it is all about being a total prick towards women!!! If they truly wanted to know you; they would talk you, not insult you!!!

[Coolkat12345]

Hey some guys are immature and they do stupid remarks like tht to other guys as well. Don’t worry tho guys tht do stuff like that just have an inferiority complex and are trying to compensate it by doing stupid stuff like that unfortunately, basically people tht do tht are just immature brats so don’t pay them any attention…

[Gray-Wisp]

This reminds of that story where a woman pretended to be a man and decided to (I think it was twitter?) go online and troll women. Women are often attention seeking (victim complex), emotional, whores, liberals or a mix and match of those. It is extremely entertaining to see them distressed and since the ones that I just described are undesirables it's practically cleaning up the internet at best and having a good time at worst.

[ALoser]

Because they feel safe behind their computer screens/phone and don't have to worry about consequences.

Trust me these same men would simp for you irl face to face

[WowwGirl]

Thank you that's horrible

[Andres77]

Reasons vs excuses:
Understanding vs agreement:


I'm too tired to get deep... sometimes they're ignorant jerks that don't deserve any consideration so if you see anything derogatory twice and you don't block them... you should have...

[Puppystarfish23]

Some men are just stupid and are too set in there ways.

[Hanrej]

For several reasons. Guys are competative. Rather than acknowledge a fault they make others to be faulty.

Then there's also negging. The idea that women who're selfaware of their flaws become easier prey in time. If you manage to make a girl feel bad about herself it will take less effort to win her.

[TonyMetal___86]

Some women deserves to be insulted and degraded, if i do it here than i'll do it in real life!

I'm an honest man, if the girl does something bad, i can't stay shut!

There are a lot of women who insults and degrades men too, women does it more often, just look at this site and see the women'a comments on men and you will realize what i'm talking about...