Girls, do you always think that a guy who is hot looking is a player, playboy?

Question

some girls and women told me that they think im a player, one girl on gag told me that she thought im a playboy, and i really dislike being called with those names. The truth is, i dont like being called a playboy or a player, i know some guys love being called that and being a player and a playboy, but im a very monogamous person. im a virgin, and im waiting till marriage. you can say that im old school. i'd be more happy if a girl or a woman called me a gentleman rather than calling me a player or a play boy.
so whenever you girls/women see a hot guy, you just think about sex? or do you also think about serious relationship and marrying with him?, depending on his personality?

Anna96 · Accepted Answer

To be honest, when I see a hot guy I assume he's a player. However that doesn't mean I want to sleep with him. Before I would do such a thing as calling somebody a player I would have to have some proof to back it up. I might think to myself 'He's hot. He probably bangs a new girl every week.", but I woukf never say it unless I know he is. My current crush is hot af but he had only had two relationships so far and not a single one night stand. At first I thought he would think himself unbelievably desirable and sexy but in fact he doesn't even realize it when girls flirt with him.

LoveJones1 · Accepted Answer

I dont necessarily think a guy is a playboy or promiscuous because he's hot or very attractive. Its the things that a guy does that will make him come off as a playboy or promiscuous. Its all in his actions and how he carries himself. Cause there are guys that aren't attractive to decent looking that are playboys and promiscuous.

But, keep in mind that we all are visual creatures and that we have nothing but the persons looks and demeanor to go off of before we really get to know them. I hope this answers your question in an appropriate manner.

what-do-guys-want · Accepted Answer

Someone will always have an opinion based upon your looks first up, it's what will always happen, so don't take it to heart, instead show that person that they are wrong :-)
To answer your question no, I don't see an attractive guy and think about sex or a relationship. I have been attracted to plenty of men who once I've spoken to turn me completely off, and I've known some men who aren't exactly what I'd go for generally but once I know them then they become a lot more attractive to me and I could see something with.

This_is_my_username · Accepted Answer

Yes I do assume so I know I shouldn't Judge a book by its cover or whatever but it's hard not too. Usually men that are good looking have heaps of Females fawning over them. So it's a automatic thought. Unfortunately.

And ofc you aren't asking this q to justify if you're hot. You ain't like that.. You're a wait for it...

Decent guy 👏🏾🙈

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yeah I think they think that. Yet then they act less innocent around a guy who is clearly a player and objectifies people and who is less attractive. It makes no sense.

I agree, on being good looking and a good person is good. Can u help me out on a similar question pls? I explain it in the description? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q2182612-how-d-a-woman-act-around-these-guys-do-they-allow-some-men-to-get

MyExperience · Accepted Answer

I was accused of being one by my girlfriend when we first stared dating. mostly because of rumors but I think I dispelled it overvtime.

whackedout101 · Answer

I mean, I don't necessarily think that the dude is a player, but I do automatically think that he probably has a lot of girls falling all over him so therefore, I'm probably not going to want to even take my chances because he's way out of my league and he probably won't go out with someone like me.

I think though, in the past, I've gotten to know some guys who I find pretty attractive and then they end up being super nice and my general assumption or judgment usually is gone by then. So, if I get to know a guy and he's a good looking guy and he's also really nice, then I don't think there's really an issue at all and I normally don't think he's a guy who sleeps around. It's all about how you act and the way you present yourself--not just the way you look physically. I can tell if a guy is an asshat just by the way he talks and the way he presents himself to someone. It's kind of a whole-picture kind of feel, not just the way your face looks.

SweedyPie · Answer

Ok so I know I'm different but I don't judge guys by looks at all. Meaning I don't generally feel attracted unless his personality is amazing. I don't ever make assumptions on people's personalities based on their appearance plus I've seen too much CRAP happen to people who did do that. Prejudice is not a nice thing I've been on the receiving end before, I'm sorry that happened to you. Just take pride in the fact that they don't know you and try to laugh it off ;)

Shangri-La · Answer

I don't automatically assume a hot guy is a player. If he's very flirty I sometimes jump to the assumption that he's probably a player though

I've never assumed you're a player. I've always thought that you're a really genuinely caring , loyal and understanding person.

Kimm_3 · Answer

The key point is that everybody's different. Some girls would label you 'playboy or even cheap' without even knowing you, others won't. and as far as being virgin and considering your personality is concerned that would vary from girl to girl! Good girls would see the real good in you ultimately while bitches would only see what they want to. So I guess point is that you should concentrate more on decent girls and leave the bitches (and their views ofcourse) behind! ;)

cross98 · Answer

in my life hot guys and average looking guys weren't so nice to me. however, i do make it my life to dodge "hot" guys, they just seem out of my league and they sometimes laugh at me... guess i'm not their "standard".

ebbyeb · Answer

Well, when I see a hot guy, I think "dang... he's really hot." Then maybe "huh... I wonder if he's single." I never assume that a guy is a player unless I see him practically surrounded by girls on the daily, and if I see that he's a pretty big flirt. I mean, because only then could I really reasonably assume that he's a player, ya know? That's just me personally though! I hold this was helpful :)

Widowspider · Answer

No. Some "hot guys" are shy. The ones I've known. And they are gentlemen and that's how I see them. Looks really don't matter you can look perfect but if you don't have good morals and respect for people that's just makes you a bad human being.

Carley99 · Answer

Men in general the better looking the there are high chances that he is a player, but not because a guys is too handsome means that he is a player if he has the attitude of a player he is one. well that's my opinion anyway.

Luci160999 · Answer

Honestly, I do but because in my country there are not a lot of good looking guys and when a guy is handsome girls put him in a pedestal and that is why he becomes a player.

Jesenia · Answer

1st, you are not hot.  2nd, maybe they thought like that cuz of your profile photos 3rd, don't worry about people's thought that much fin

Catvonme · Answer

Usually if I see a really good looking guy I don't think he's a player but stasticslly he most likely isn't a virgin. Usually someone really good looking has tons of people who want to be with them. So their more likely to have sleep with more people.

SarahsSummer · Answer

I don't associate a guys looks automatically with being a player. just his words and actions. But when a guy doesn't have a shirt on in his profile pic, I assume he's trying to look like a player.

BeautifulPromisesx · Answer

Yeah my ex was hot and I was like "nah I don't trust you" lol. Jk.  But yeah I don't think hot guys are promiscuous or bad, but I can't help to just think they have many options.

kellyg83 · Answer

no. there are very specific mannerisms a guy can give off, whether he's hot or not, and you just automatically know he's a player.

Pinky26 · Answer

Nop, there are some hot boys that aren't playboys. It all has to do with mentality not with appearence.

PiuBravoRagazzo · Answer

I feel you bro I am in the same boat Girls think I am PlayBoy McGee and go around screwing every girl I lay eyes on. When that's not the at all the case

rose004b · Answer

Not necessarily. I tend to judge people based on what they project overall. I observe their body language, their attitude and I pay attention to what they say and how they say it.

Cerate · Answer

obviously not. have to know him deeper in order to find out

melodybluesy · Answer

Yeah, u do look like a player but luckily I don't judge a book by it's cover

awilliam360 · Answer

It doesn't make you a player based on how you look but it's just a stereotype we tend to associate

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