So i am a 17 year old guy, and i'm currently "dating" a 15 year old girl, who lives on the other side of the small country.
So i'm gonna try to explain the situations and our text conversations briefly.
Basically we met on a ski vacation that lasted a week. A week or so after that, we started talking all day, every day. And i was making plans to go see her, and make a walk to get to know each other better.
About a week ago, was the first time i would go to see her again, i told her to ask her parents, but on the day that i was supposed to see her, she completely ignored me. The day after we started talking again like nomal. Know i'm gonna be exact with dates and stuff.
So it was Saturday April 9th, her birthday. We decided to make new plans to meet up, she said she was free on Monday 11th and Tuesday 12th. Sunday 10th we spoke to each other as normal. But the following Monday and Tuesday she ignored me, and so i started overthinking a bit but i was able to handle it.
We are now Sunday 17th, and she has ignored me the rest of that week until yesterday Saturday April. I replied to her snap storry. She replied to it very briefly, and followed up with a "Sorry" and a long explanation of why she ignored me that week. It went a bit like this "I'm struggling to get over my ex, and i forgot about or was getting over it trough you and i ignored you for that reason, sorry". I replied with "That's okay, if that's your way of handling such a thing, go ahead,". She replied with "I feel bad for fooling and using you and now dragging you along" or she said in dutch "Ik voel me schuldig om met uw voeten te spelen". I then replied with "I myself kinda 'used' you to get over my previous crush/ex, oh and if you don't want me to come see you, just tell me it ;)". She then replied with "I do want you to come over, but you get it?". And now a day later she is ignoring me again.
So what does this mean, what can i do, is it positive or negative, and does she like me or not?
So i'm gonna try to explain the situations and our text conversations briefly.
Basically we met on a ski vacation that lasted a week. A week or so after that, we started talking all day, every day. And i was making plans to go see her, and make a walk to get to know each other better.
About a week ago, was the first time i would go to see her again, i told her to ask her parents, but on the day that i was supposed to see her, she completely ignored me. The day after we started talking again like nomal. Know i'm gonna be exact with dates and stuff.
So it was Saturday April 9th, her birthday. We decided to make new plans to meet up, she said she was free on Monday 11th and Tuesday 12th. Sunday 10th we spoke to each other as normal. But the following Monday and Tuesday she ignored me, and so i started overthinking a bit but i was able to handle it.
We are now Sunday 17th, and she has ignored me the rest of that week until yesterday Saturday April. I replied to her snap storry. She replied to it very briefly, and followed up with a "Sorry" and a long explanation of why she ignored me that week. It went a bit like this "I'm struggling to get over my ex, and i forgot about or was getting over it trough you and i ignored you for that reason, sorry". I replied with "That's okay, if that's your way of handling such a thing, go ahead,". She replied with "I feel bad for fooling and using you and now dragging you along" or she said in dutch "Ik voel me schuldig om met uw voeten te spelen". I then replied with "I myself kinda 'used' you to get over my previous crush/ex, oh and if you don't want me to come see you, just tell me it ;)". She then replied with "I do want you to come over, but you get it?". And now a day later she is ignoring me again.
So what does this mean, what can i do, is it positive or negative, and does she like me or not?
