What should I do in this situation?

[KissMyShades]

I had a crush (T) for a year in highschool, and it turns out we're going to the same college (not same field) and i'm still very fond of him. At the end of 2022, as T gave me weird mixed signals, i decided to give up on him as i thought he didn't like me. There's this boy (C) whom i learnt, liked me in highschool so we started dating. He's really caring and sweet, but the thing is that i still love T and have no feelings for C. Ofc i care about him but i'm not in love. One day one of my friends toke my phone to send to T a funny flirty drawing i made for C on a maths paper, and I was too busy with a big exam coming up to notice. The next day, at the evening, he sent me an ambiguous message telling how he liked my drawing a lot and talking about maths. I apologized and told him that I am with someone and he left me on seen. When we left college the next day, we walked on the same way but he walked very fast and acted nervous as he was trying to avoid me. He later sent me a message telling that he didn't take it bad and that everything was fine. I told him I was reassured because he acted distant and I thought I might have hurted his feelings. The next day he came at lunch to chit chat with me and my friends, something that he doesn't usually do.

I don't know what I should do, I feel bad for still loving T when i'm supposed to be with C, although I don't feel anything for him. But he's just so sweet and I can feel he really loves me, I don't want to break his heart... I'm also worried about hurting T or missing a chance to be with him, which I will find good for me because I am actually so fond of this boy and won't have this problem anymore...

What should I do guys?

[Guy13]

Why would you not talk to C about where he is, not what you guess or feel, in the relationship. When you tell him that you are no all-in, he will deal with it.

Who is not going to deal with it is T. Are you willing to reorganize your whole life for an opportunity with an Unknown? No male friends or interactions with C.

Is the Risk of C absent in your life worth the possibility of Lustful feelings being chased. The Cost Anslysis is much greater than you have thought about and 50% of the Risk is unknown, undefinable, and can not be prepared for.

You Game….⁉️

[RavVid]

Well I don't think it is being honest with C when you don't have the feelings he might expect you to have. And it is just going to get worse. So I think you should be honest and say you can only be friends. You are wasting his time as well.

Don't the cowardly think of getting back with T before you dump C. Dump C first then see if it works out with T.

[Dav1dTh0ma389]

If you are after two guys, you likely aren't after LOVE, you're after attention. Drop both of them, and work on liking YOURSELF first

[Anonymous]

It is possible to love many people at the same time.

[Iron_Man]

Talk to the guy you love

[In_Trance]

Make up your mind