Why is it every guy I talk with tries to turn it into a relationship?

[Anonymous]

[hahahmm]

Uh, if you name everything you have to offer in a platonic relationship, the guy can find that with other dudes. Why would he need you? Smart guys know this. The 'special' guys don't mind giving you all the benefits of a male-female relationship while getting nothing in return. Those are guys that will be in the friend zone & run around like gophers doing things for you with nothing in return.

Maybe a better question is why are you talking to all these different dudes expecting them to want a platonic relationship with you when they can find a dude they have WAY more in common with if all they want is platonic.

[OlderAndWiser]

Most people at your age who are not in a relationship want to be in a relationship.

[Anonymous]

This happened to a woman I know so she started just having sex with married guys.
And even they would get possessive.

[Raphaëlle]

They think you like them or they like you when you're a nice person?

[Lurkergao]

because talking to girls is how we find relationships and most ladies play coy and hard to get. we dont know what you are thinking.. and even in situations where you are straightforward do you act that way consistently? or are you a bit unpredictable sometimes? we just gotta know, and pushing it in that direction is the only way we find out.

[andreasderjuengere]

Maybe you're a nice person?
By the way - how about being my girlfriend?
...
Heh heh heeeeeeeeh :D

[Nidal_AA]

You could be extra nice and polite... And also extra attractive

[In_Trance]

if you only wanna rail and bail, why don't you say so?

[Luckycharms12]

Well your there type that's why they are talking to you

[WhitneySnow]

They think you’re hot?

[Sam_The_Savage]

Because you're everyone's dream.. lol

[Anonymous]

As opposed to a no strings attached fuckbuddy?