You like the bad boy type which most girl’s are attracted to , Most girl’s feel they can save him from being a bad boy which in most cases in the long run she can’t and he shouldn’t , I like to drink and smoke just because it relaxes me and helps me let loose , I don’t drink every day but come the weekends after a week of work I enjoy drinking brews and smoking I have dated girls that didn’t smoke or drink and I was just straight up honest with them , and told them if you don’t like the fact that I drink and smoke then I am probably not the guy for you , Shockingly they were ok with it , and ended up dating me , the problem that occurred was the girl eventually got upset about it and would try to get me to stop drinking beer and started saying things like You choose beer over me , which was not true what so ever , I am choosing to relax and unwind after a week of work but I am here with you , I am not out bar hopping and leaving you behind , if you and I had plans to do something I can easily go without drinking but since we aren’t doing shit I am just enjoying myself , it turned into a battle to the point I would tell her hey I am who I am , when you met me you knew I liked to drink beer so the only person changing here is you, not me , So you better back the fuck up and reanalyze yourself before attacking me for something I addressed to you in the beginning , I didn’t change you did, From my experiences with girl’s is that Girls change and guys don’t , Most Girl’s are very selfish people , most girl’s can not admit when they are wrong , they feel obligated and justified for their actions , A girl can tell a guy to stop doing things that she finds disrespectful and if he loves her he will more than likely stop for her cuz he doesn’t want to lose her , but the fucked up thing is she will eventually do the things she stopped her man from doing and act like he is controlling when he tells her it’s wrong for what she is doing cuz it’s the same shit you stopped me from doing. Girl’s don’t see things that way , it’s her way or no way and why so many relationships don’t make it because Most girl’s are selfish Double standards do not work in a relationship period , if a partner can’t remove selfishness for you , you can’t remove selfishness for them Guys, my advice is let her go , do not change for her , cuz if you change you become weak to her , value yourself and realize you deserve a girl that wants to be by your side and will remove her selfishness for you the same we do for her
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Because like most women you are attracted to the bad boy type.
It’s okay to have a preference. Maybe you’re not actually attracted to what they’re doing, aka smoking and drinking, but the stereotype surrounding it.
People who usually smoke, drink and have tattoos are seen as “rebellious” and have the “I don’t care about anything” attitude. Some may find that attractive. Bad boys represent freedom and they’re everything your parents warned you against. I guess you’re attracted to the thrill that comes with dating them. It feels like you’re breaking the rules and gives you a sense of euphoria
In reality, the smell of smoke is revolting and heavy drinkers are loonies. Many of these men are seen as “bad boys” which is a terrible concept hugely popularized by the media and young adult novels.
You either like the smell of smoke or have never had your senses assaulted by smoke.
Drinking on the other hand doesn't give second hand... and doesn't necessarily mean he gets drunk... in this case you like men willing to experiment. The "I don't give AF" vibe, which can mean excitement and who doesn't love excitement, is sometimes associated with drinking and smoking, but is not always true... so stereotype thinking can also cause your attraction.
You know what's so crazy, those dudes are more likely to be good lovers. They usually stay married.
I think the reason is because they date so many women, they learn so much about life when you have a sense of adventure and you learn to appreciate a good woman when you find one.
Personally, I never really liked people who arbitrarily follow rules. People will take pride in being "good" citizens but will sell out the people closest to them. They won't appreciate the people they care about because their world view doesn't allow them to actually live and appreciate life.
People in here talking about "bad boys"
I don't know anyone who is truly successful who didn't to some degree follow their own rules in life.
Most people I know drink at least socially. Being attracted to "men who drink" means you're attracted to the majority. As for being attracted to "men to smoke"... well that just means you're into guys that are easily peer pressured into doing something that society has brainwashed people into thinking looks cool, and spend approximately $10k (lowballing) a year on a product that helps to kill them.
Brain washing of some sort. Most likely due to the media. You must realize your human side is dumb. All of us I mean. It will have a person on the streets and on the edge of death for another hit of meth. That is how dumb are human side is. You cannot trust it because it is outdated. The newest part of our brain is the only part you can trust. Our lives suck because many of us trust the old part more. We dont even know we are doing it though.
You are not only girl whome they are attracted to men who drink and smoke. Might be drinking and smoking makes men hotter and sometimes we know that this is bad for me and him but we can't resist ourself to attracted to them. I attracted to those girls who smoke and abuse ( not intentionally ) i don't know in fact I hate smoking so it's in our nature we always attracted to those whome we don't like.
When we are younger we gravitate toward forbidden fruit (of all sorts). It is exciting to some extent especially for those always walking the straight line. It is one of the reasons that girls tend to take the underdog viewpoints. Its exciting to be different or get attention! As we mature then lessons learned teach us this and we often change because we grow out of the need to have constant attention.
Masculine association? They're common enough vices that you're gonna like someone who does partake regardless. Similarly I've been antiweed almost my whole life until recently but I tend to date women who don't have the same aversion.
Ew I don't know lmao. The only time i can tolerate a smoker and a drinker is when its strangers in passing at the casino. Otherwise i dont want to be around it
I doubt you're attracted to the smoking and drinking but the guys youve seen doing it were attractive to you and just happened to be doing those things.
Well.. Everyone have their own choice & taste on specific things.. So no worries 😃..
Cause you know... When I was teen back then.. I found bus driver & labour's very attractive 🤣whose are already very older than me... like 30 _40 in age
Girls love dominant character and you got the idea from movies somehow that boys who drink and smoke are dominant in character that's how you got influenced.
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Anonymous
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Because strong men do those things
Weak 'men' have manbuns and drink skinny decaf soy lattes with a sugar free caramel drizzle
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