Do you think it is possible for me to be happy, after giving up on finding a girlfriend forever, since Im ugly?

[Anonymous]

Im thinking of giving up on trying to get a girlfriend. I never had one since I am ugly. I'm 30. I turn 31 this August. If I just give up forever on trying to get one, can I still live a happy life for the rest of my life?

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What do you think?

[Dchrls78104]

Yes, it's possible. One way is to find and focus on activities you enjoy that do not involve overly great interactions with women. Another is to keep in mind that it is always better to go through this life single than live in an unhappy relationship/marriage.

[Asker]

What do you think of people that think it is not possible for someone to be happy without being in ANY romantic relationship for life?

[slatyb]

See a therapist to recover your self-esteem. Are you disfigured? Other appearance flaws can be remedied. Besides, Julia Roberts married Lyle Lovett.

[Asker]

My face is ugly.

[Asker]

And I never said there aren't any ugly men in romantic relationships. I said I never had a girlfriend cause I am ugly and if I'm 30 and still never had it for that reason, it is obvious it is never going to happen.

[Asker]

You know I am right

[slatyb]

Why ask for advice if you just want a pity party? Your assistance isn't the problem.

[Asker]

The truth hurts you

[Kelsea7]

No your just what to argue. You have a valid concern but when people try to help you shut them down. Stop asking questions if you not gonna listen to others. There's a reason you don't have a girlfriend because your being horrible.

[Kelsea7]

There's always therapy. And just because you might think your ugly doesn't mean everyone else does or that you are in general.

[Asker]

Therapy for what? And it is logical sense that if I'm 30 and I never had a girlfriend, it is logical sense that I fit the general conception of ugly. Logical sense.

[Asker]

@kelsea7 speaking the facts

[Asker]

You know I am saying the truth

[Asker]

@kelsea7 truth hurts you

[Ligerzzero]

You still young, so you still have a good chance of finding someone.

Now if your closer to 50 like me then giving up on finding a girlfriend is understandable, as far as being happy , if you have been single all your life then no you won’t be happy , but if you have had slot of girlfriend and been in relationships then your more likely to be able to be happy

[genericname85]

I think that's just unnecessary. It's your choice. So if you'd like to have a partner but you coffee not to get one anyway I think it won't be possible.

[Asker]

So you obviously think someone not being in any romantic relationship for life can't be happy.

[genericname85]

no. i do not generally think that. some people sure can, i guess. but since you mentioned that you previously were looking for a partner, i figure that you're not one of those people.

[genericname85]

i think that people are born with a natural predisposition. and i do believe that some people are born without a natural interest in finding a mate. and those people i think could life a happy and fullfilled life without a partner. but you don't seem to be one of those.

[Anonymous]

i wonder if paying for sex or losing your virginity to an escort or sex worker has ever crossed your mind

[Asker]

I said girlfriend not getting laid. Talking about romantic love. Can't you read?

[kitkills]

Nobody pities you, dude.

[Asker]

You would pity me if you were in the same situation. Hypocrite

[kitkills]

Probably not.

[Asker]

You are probably the type of person that would not care if you saw a dead person in front of you

[kitkills]

Haha you're right about the second one lmao

[Asker]

And there are people that pity. People that are not assholes that is. If you saw someone get run over by a car and he or she was complaining about being in pain you would probably tell them"no body pities you."

[kitkills]

Uhhh yeah, what's so hard to understand?

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Learning self confidence is the key

[anon1903]

Good for you.

[Asker]

Good for me what? I am asking a question.

[Asker]

I asked a question that I posted,

[anon1903]

Good for you that you realised you're ugly and gave up

[Asker]

That was not the question. I asked a question that I want people to answer. Reread it instead of trolling and being a messed up person.

[anon1903]

I said the fact that you've accepted yourself is good. You don't need a relationship. They're overrated anyway.

[anon1903]

As for your looks, they can be subjective

[Asker]

You are a troll and mean person. I bet if someone asked you anything you would say"good for you," instead of answering the question

[kitkills]

You just start sentences with "I bet" and then end with the exact thing they've done. Maybe it's not just your looks that are bad, might need a check up on that brain function as well. The complexity of your sentences (or lack there of) is concerning.