The title says it all. I got ugly face (big nose, crooked teeth, weird eyebrows) and ugly body (hips dips, small butt and boobs). I can't find relationship because of it. What should I do? Does it mean I'm gonna stay alone forever? I'm not a bad person I'm just ugly I don't know why looks matter that much :(
Nobody has an ugly body. You can go to the gym and make it hot. You can't do much with your face but you can practice self-love so you don't self sabotage yourself going forward. And I'd get a firm grip on self sabotage because most people are doing it and don't really understand what it is. It's actually most people's only problem. Self-love is a subconscious activity. You can get a guy regardless of your looks but I think you should go to the gym and get hot for you. It will help you emotionally and physically guys will like it.
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I agree with Anonymous below. I think the first step is to work on you. You need to give yourself a new image. If you fall down the hole of self pity and wallow, you will never find someone, bc they are looking for a positive upbeat person, which I am sure you are too?
So first things first, head to the gym and get busy, working on your body. It can do wonders for your self esteem, it will provide you with endless energy, and is good for both your mind and soul. If you are uncomfortable going to the gym, then go old school and gather a few key workout ingredients/equipment for at home workouts. Maybe a workout video, tailor it to your taste, just make sure you do it on a regular basis.
The big thing here is, depending on what you do, results take a bit of time. Rome was not built in a day, so you have to keep to a regimented schedule.
Start there, build self esteem and your health and then see how things go from there.
How small is your butt? Also small breasts aren't ugly lol😹.. i also have small boobs and there are men who prefer them.. i think you are overreacting!
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This comes down to two things quite simply
1. Your expectations. If you're ugly your NOT going to get the top shelf hotties. If you accept that then absolutely you have a chance at finding a relationship. But this leads to the second point.
2. How much EFFORT you're willing to put forth. This is the biggest reason most women in general fail. They want a relationship. But they want to put little if ANY effort forth in achieving one. If you're ugly (and it seems like you've already accepted that). Now you need to give guys a REASON to look past that. Guys are not so different from women in the fact that we have ego's and feelings to. A woman that has less going on in the looks dept can nail down a decent looking guy buy making him feel valued, respected and loved. Where most women fail is they consider this beneath them.
Good luck
Nothing you mentioned are particularly ugly. You may just have a negative self image. Plus everyone likes different things. So, I wouldn't give up on love.
If you have crooked teeth, you should save up for a dental operation. Everything else you listed is not an issue. The teeth are your greatest challenge.
I'd consider a girl like that if she made herself physically available to me for EVERY kind of sex all the time, especially the kind most women won't do.
You are not ugly everyone will find someone eventually
Im Shrek so I know what you mean:(
You had better have a stellar personality.
Not my type sorry..
Are you short and hairy bodied too?
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