Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. What one finds attractive, another might find repulsive. Rather than assume anyone you're attracted to should be attracted to you (reinforcing your own low self-esteem), be observant and discover who might be attracted to you.
There is a very simple way to significantly improve your looks... smile. You'd be surprised how many doors are opened by a simple smile. Make the most of what you have rather than attempting to be something you're not.
Some people are drawn to beauty queens, while others might prefer tomboys. There are many people who prefer plain to glamorous, as they see it as more natural rather than phony. One thing that's always frustrated me is when I encounter a woman I find to be very attractive who minimizes all the compliments I give her and insists I'm just settling for her... as she doesn't fit what society says is ideal. I happen to be turned off by what society promotes as ideal, yet it's so hard to find someone I'm drawn to who sees any value in what she brings to the relationship. Just let me enjoy you as you are rather than continue to push what you think I should find enjoyable.
Beauty is subjective. If one man doesn't like you looks then other man will. If the reason of ugly look is curable like weight, acnes or something like that then try fixing it. However a plus point of being ugly is that you won't have boys using you for your looks but they will love you for your personality. So if you will get in a relationship then it will be a long lasting one. And one thing... No one is born ugly, it's just that the high standards of society makes you feel ugly but true beauty is the confidence which you show by accepting yourself.
You have to find ways to bring out your good qualities. If you label yourself as ugly then its probably best to stay away from dating apps for the most part and meet people in person so you can show off your personality better. Its also important to accept what kind of people you can attract and there's noting wrong with that as that will save you a lot of stress when you ask someone who is out of your league and get rejected over and over but Im not saying to not try to ask a person like that out, you never know. People will cheat on anybody even if they are good looking, most people just want to feel wanted and loved and if you give them that then you should be fine.
Don't be so hard on yourself, I'm sure you aren't ugly. Very few people in the world are actually ugly. There are no leagues of people, cause looks are subjective
You should work on yourself and your looks, exercise, eat a healthy diet, moisturize, get a nice hairstyle and wear maybe a tiny bit of makeup, cultivate your personality, get new hobbies, try to be kind, friendly, funny and a pleasant person to be around and I'm sure the right person for you will find the right person for you
You’re probably better looking than you think. You are more apt to find someone of similar attractiveness than not, though there are exceptions. You can also date guys who are a bit older than you too if you’re having trouble finding someone mature your own age.
Ugliness doesn't justify cheating. If you were asexual, then some twisted logic it'd still make sense. But you're ugly, and dating is a choice, if one doesn't find their partner attractive they can look another... After breaking up with the said unattractive partner!
This is a silly Azz question for a female. Just lose the weight, let your hair grow long and don't get any gawdam tattoos. It's really that EASY for females. Males on the other hand have to have a six-pack abs, six figure income, at least six inch Dick (666) and a hollywood face to get any dates in today's Western Society
Girls actually don’t care about most of those things. We really just want a nice face and great personality. Size doesn’t matter and big incomes are only important for sugar daddies
Leagues, Leagues, Leagues... Screw Leagues... There is no correlation between being ugly and being cheated on. None at all... Relationships are built on trust and no matter if both people are ugly or one is ugly and the other gorgeous, if they are in a relationship it has to be built on trust from the beginning... As the relationship grows then so does the trust and willingness no to cheat... Pick the right partner...
It sure as heck ain’t possible for me. Do you want to know how long it took for me to be in a relationship which was long distance? Years later after I graduated from high school. There’s someone from everyone is just bull crap. I’m not like other people that has it easy so I just have to deal with it
You rate people by "League"? Who decides what person belongs to what league? Do you decide? Is this a superficial judgement? without getting to know the person? I think the problem "Lies within you" a person value is not determined by the color of his eyes... time to grow up, buttercup
Your ideas of ugly and attractive are 99% different than other people. My wife thinks she’s a dog. But she’s actually a high class beautiful sexy creature. I feel I’m taking advantage of her lack of self confidence since she’s way out of my league.
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