I'm pretty but no guy asks me on a date and just ask for nudes why?

[Anonymous]

[TheSpaceGnome]

I dunno, since 1: I have no clue what you look like, and 2: I don't know anything about your personality, interests, hobbies, etc.

If it were me though, I'd not be able to decide if I wanted to date someone without first seeing whats inside her mind and under her clothes, so maybe they are just wanting to see for that reason, and thus far all of them have decided what they saw is not in line with their personal preferences?

Alternatively, maybe some of them just wanted to see tits and ass and had no intention of dating, but that seems far less likely, since they could just google search that.

[Lionman95]

Because they are not interested in a relationship. Probably that´s the upcoming future because more and more guys are gonna be porn addicts they won´t be ready to commit.
I can´t tell you where you can find guys that are ready to commit because I´m struggling myself with dating.

[Asker]

Yeah all I get is guys is wanting hotels or friends with benefits lol

[TheSpaceGnome]

Porn actually did a good job at making me want a commited relationship. It's a really quick way to find out what your physical preferences are.

Before I found body types I prefered, I was only interested in having friends, because the few examples I've seen outside of porn, just weren't attractive to me.

[Lionman95]

I wouldn´t say that of ALL guys because there are still guys that are ready to commit.

[Lionman95]

@TheSpaceGnome Interesting. I haven´t someone going that way before so thank you for giving me a new perspective.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yeah I found a lot of body types I like that way. And personality types as well.

And yes, I can tell when a person is surgically altered, and I don't prefer those looks, so it's not a case of unrealistic expectations either.

[Anonymous]

afraid of rejection
they rather go for a plain jane that won't reject them
they dont want their male ego hurt
know this because of my own boyfriend
who was hitting on me 2 years
then accpeted his invitations
and he still was insecure

[Anonymous]

Dating is a waste of time in this culture and most guys just want sex or nudes. Do you remember a time where men were encouraged to court a woman? Those times are gone, and with a lot of help from women that jumped onto the 'free sex' bandwagon. What you are experiencing are the consequences of all of these changes in the dating market. Arguably, dating benefits women more than men...

[Asker]

Yeah sadly that I'd the truth. Dating is fucked these days

[DrHonesty]

Because they don't really want to meet you or have anything with you in the real world. They just want to sit in their mom's basement and jerk off.

[Truthatanycost]

She said the guys approach her when she's out and about...

[DrHonesty]

That was mentioned after my response

[megabamse]

You are 30-35 and you never ever been on a date? I refuse to believe that. Also if the majority ask for nudes, it might be the way you look. Do you have this "Kardashian" look? Or Instagram model wannabe look?

[Asker]

Im 29 and I've been on dates yes a lot but they turn out to be jerks that want to have sex after an hour

[megabamse]

And what is your looks?

[one1wild00]

Could be distance pr personality stopping them from asking you out. I like seeing gals from all over the world, BUT it ask one one they must be either in my area, or willing to travel to my area on their own.

[Anonymous]

Because those guys aren't interested in dating. Try approaching some you like. Most guys would love to be asked. It shows COURAGE and CONFIDENCE, not "desperation".

[Asker]

Yeah maybe I keep going for the ones that are messing around with a lot of girls

[20yearsolder]

I'd have to see you to make an opinion. Did you send the nudes?

[Williams28Jao]

Not mature enough maybe? Or your looking in the wrong place for a good guy

[Kreneman]

It all depends on how you carry yourself and how you communicate with others.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Some guys are pigs no offense and they are the kind who just want nude pictures from a girl

[AlwaysBelieving]

How do you act in a "regular setting"?

Do you have RBF?

Do you actually give nudes?

[Guardian45]

Probably, you appear unapproachable and guys are intimidated by you. Work on your interpersonal communication skills!

[driven159]

I don't know but there are lots of dipshits around they should be more interested in what's inside you

[MrTaboo]

In today's dating market, you have to check if you're getting original equipment or everything's been changed.

[Jamie05rhs]

They're lazy. They don't want to put in the work to get to know you.

[Luckycharms12]

Guess trying see it your interested in some weird way

[TheMajesticKing777]

People be buzz what can I say

[Yucy_Gluttony]

And where do you meet those guys?

[Asker]

They usually approach me when I'm out and about

[Yucy_Gluttony]

Jesus that sucks :( well if the men approaching us aren't working out, you can try and approach a guy you think is after something more longterm

[Asker]

Yeah they ask for nudes or to get hotel like wtf

[slatyb]

Where are you meeting these men?

[dolemite89]

bad personality

[Asker]

The guys that apporach me kn the street just straight put want nudes

[SignedAutographs]

Immature men?

[Anonymous]

You give them.