Guys I'm 20/20 and gorgeous but no guy approaches me, why?

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ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

I'm sure the dress for new years and you fell good about yourself. Nothing wrong with that and nothing wrong with having confidence

You can dress do and shat what ever you want
But when you look like you and say some thing that might be over confidence 9 out of 10 people will judge you for it.
And that's just because saying something mean to you and being bold there no better for putting you down

You look nice. Your eyes say your a good person trying going for the girl next door look and nothing wrong with being confident try just being it when you start thinking you have to tell people you are. I'm thinking your. And kinda the same when you feel you have to tell people. Your gorgeous. Down deep you want to be. But your not sure

The most beautiful people are happy and they are just themselves

Then you have the other beautiful people who are a mess. On the inside and they want everyone to fall to there knees.. but then they open there mouth and all you hear is ugly coming out .. dont get cought up in yourself and be that person
But I t s your life your choice

By the way you do look nice sometime all you need is a picture. No words

HawkPerception · Accepted Answer

Humble yourself. You are not a 20/20 from your picture, and it looks like you have a boatload of fakeup on. This is the issue with many girls. They have unrealistic thoughts about their own attraction levels. And the way you dress shows you like attention for your body, which isn't something that many men appreciate in a girl. That puts you down in ratings some more.

If I saw a girl like you in public, I wouldn't ever approach you for those reasons. You dress provocatively, wear a lot of fakeup, and you clearly seem to have an ego issue. If you didn't have such a big ego, even if you continued to dress that way and wear all that fakeup, your personality would make you attractive enough to date though.

Abbycado · Accepted Answer

Except that ain’t you, lol. @hollyk21

Unycorn · Accepted Answer

I would not show so mach skin - me for myself. Dress sexy without being naked is the advice.

WindAtMyBack · Answer

Guys are more attracted to modesty than women who think far too highly of themselves.

If guys don't approach you there is a reason. If just a few guys you are interested in don't approach you, that might be them. Maybe they just aren't interested.

If this is an ongoing thing, then it's something about you. I don't know what that something is. Start by not thinking you are every guy's dream, then work from there.

A very good looking woman who is also modest is extremely attractive. A woman who thinks too highly of herself is very unattractive. The only reason I'm dwelling on this is because that's all you gave us to go on, which in itself is telling.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Quite strong female energy, thus, to many but the most confident, would be intimidating. Often those ones are dealing with other females. Realize testosterone has dropped and I'm sure you've seen how lame males can be out here. You are competing for 5% with other women. I'd look broader in cultures, for quality but delayed... e. g. those that focused on career.

Like going fishing, you gotta learn and revise to catch what you want else go home empty handed.

I married a strong energy woman but she was more modest. I like modesty.

Good luck in 2026.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

„The loudest one in the room is the weakest one in the room.“  - Frank Lucas, American Gangster

exitseven · Answer

Maybe you are too full of yourself? Just sayin,

RavVid · Answer

Attitude might be it. Both genders are pretty good at making sub-send assessments. I can't see anything from the picture that seems off putting but there are lots of women that I think are good looking but I wouldn't approach because something in my mind said NO.

Then there have been all the TikTok videos.

You might not look friendly enough but that more shows in dynamic expressions and not in still photos.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

You've got 20/20 vision?
Most likely, when guys don't go after pretty girls, it's because they figure that she's so gorgeous she's already GOTTA have a boyfriend and several others waiting for their turn so, there's no point in even trying.
Have you bothered to go after any of them?

GeorgePulchri · Answer

Right off the bat if I saw you at a party my first thought would be:

"She already gets bucket loads of dudes chasing after her if she doesn't already have a boyfriend right now. So, I'm not even going to spend too much time thinking twice about approaching."

Not really that I'm intimidated. Just a low chance that you are available especially to someone who hasn't met you yet.

DonaldDarko · Answer

The world is changing, people are changing. Relationships don't last, men are discriminated against in family courts, women are taught that men are the enemy. Men are reacting to this. They are protecting themselves.

Fireguy17 · Answer

probably because of your personality which they can easily pick up on, your body language which tells all, how you are with and around other people, probably somewhat narcissistic, and overall just not a fun person to be with.

Anonymous · Answer

It is difficult to determine an exact reason without more context, but common factors might include unintentionally giving off an unapproachable vibe, men assuming you are already in a relationship, or simply shyness on their part

slatyb · Answer

Physically you look fine, but it could be that the men around you aren't into you for another reason. Where are you going to meet men?

loveslongnails · Answer

Let's start with "You're not as hot as you think you are", and if this post is any indication of your personality, you're too much work.

strateguy632 · Answer

Because of the risk of getting pepper spray or law sue about harassment. So we stay away.

LiamS95 · Answer

I don't find neither your appearence or attitude/personality attractive at all, for me you're more a 2/10.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

If you're really 20/20 most men will realize that you're out of their league. And the men in your league are already busy.

WonderingManII · Answer

It's not you, feminism has made men scared of Women.

Anonymous · Answer

Perhaps they can sense your arrogance and don't want anything to do with it.

Darkest-Knight · Answer

Glad you've got great vision. Shame you can't see the real issue though.

In_Trance · Answer

Read your question to yourself slowly.  That's why

Anonymous · Answer

Who told you that you are "gorgeous"?

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

You dont need a guy to approach you if you want him go out and get him

robocop666 · Answer

you need to make eye contact with men you like to drop the hint.

NoDecision · Answer

I call bull squat!

Anonymous · Answer

You have 20/20 eyesight well good for you not many people have that

Anonymous · Answer

😲 20/20? Is that your vision? You need to have your eyes checked and your mirrors replaced. ✌️

IknowthatIdontKnow09 · Answer

Maybe is about the outfit you wore

douride2 · Answer

Sure that is you. Damn troll.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

I would if I met you, babe !!!

itsannalee · Answer

Because you are not

Anonymous · Answer

You're joking right?😆

yulingrrrrrr · Answer

They are blind dear

Kingofkings1992 · Answer

Lmfao 🤣

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