Do you believe in online dating?

Question

I'm speaking about whether you see it as a fad or if you believe lasting relationships can be found by dating online.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

You know for me it would be so hard to donuts because I want that touch that feeling of one this spur-of-the-moment make out section it's just you can't do online but what you can do if you want to be honest if you can be honest that's one of my face I would love to have an online relationship
I would love to talk to the person everyday I would love to tell her how I feel I would love to show her how I feel

I have always wanted to do an experiment find somebody will say for 30 days it just becomes the best friends ever and just explore each other I mean get crazy kinky happy sexy and just let it all go feel the energy and then after 30 days find out where you're both at you know just a complete stranger visiting matter just but you have to be open and free and you have to want to explore it and do things that you've never done before I think that would be fun I think it'd be tripped I would love to do that type of online dating and you never know you do an experiment like this you never know what's going to happen it could be big the one they're something who knows but it would be fun and it would be nice. It would be a beautiful experience and that's just because that's who I am I would make it that way it would be all about her I would like to take her places and she's never gone before but she would have to allow herself to go there then after 30 days look back at everything and just go well wow who knows what would happen you can fall deeply in love or I could but it would be fun no matter what

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Absolutely! But you have to be realistic about it. It's a lazy form of dating so EXPECT the risk vs. reward factor to be very skewed... like even more than in real life. If 9 in 10 guys is creepy to you in real life expect 99 in 100 to be online (and not because they're creepy, but the traditional signs are not there to be read) if you're a guy and 9 in 10 women reject you. Expect online that'll be more like 99 out of 100. As people aren't used to rejection (ESPECIALLY women) on these scales. It's hard for people to take and they get discouraged early.
My advice to people when using online dating is take EVERYTHING with a grain of salt until you see it with your own 2 eyes. Be polite (not because it's required, but because it's just the right thing to do. There's a lot of negative in this world. Be part of the positive). And remember DON'T TAKE IT PERSONAL. Just because someone ghosts you, ignores you, or insults you doesn't make them right. Understand if you view yourself through a stranger's eyes you're getting a very distorted view. Their assessment is nonsense. This person doesn't even really know you yet. Only those that truly love you have taken the time to really know who you are. Only they can give you a fair assessment. Always remember that.

sheikalana · Accepted Answer

I used to be a skeptical about online dating. Thought it was for losers and looked desperate to me LOL until I started using dating apps out of boredom and met the love of my life. There's a lot of sh*tty people on dating apps but there's also a lot of people with good hearts using dating apps. I think you can find a little bit of everything from the pervert and psycho to the hopeless romantic you just need to be careful.

Little_Bumblebee · Accepted Answer

I know that it's possible to find lasting relationships because my brother found his wife on tinder.

But I also know it can be very difficult and a lot of the people on the apps are just after hookups or attention.

nawtee_me · Answer

Like any other relationship it takes time and effort. You can not go on dace value and should meet face to face as soon as possible if you are going to make it work. You have to have those needed answers so there is not unrealistic expectations because ones imagination has run away with itself because they just didn't know and pictured in their mind how or what they wanted it to be.

NathanDavis · Answer

although is not something I have ever tried myself... I do think that it can actually work for the right people because I actually know people that have met online and became a couple, have been together for quite a long time, easily over 10 years

slatyb · Answer

My wife and I met on match. com. I know other happy couples that met online. Online is just a way to set up a first date. My wife and I met afyer exchanging a few short messages. She wrote to me, I replied, we set up a coffee date.

Lionman95 · Answer

I tried and it ended badly and I probably never try it again, because I got fooled and it never let to anything. I´m sure if I really messaged with real people.

Kaneki05 · Answer

I know people who it's worked for. So believe is the wrong word, factually I know it does work sometimes. And yes of course I would do it myself and have done so before.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

As for me I believe in a lot of things & when it comes to online dating it works for some people & as for me I prefer offline dating.

exitseven · Answer

I think it is possible for two people to meet online and after a while it is possible for them to progress to the point that they would want a face to face meeting.

Anonymous · Answer

It's possible, but highly unlikely you'll find it and very much a needle in the haystack. But it's not the site or apps "fault", it's the people that use them not taking it "seriously" and using it for it's purpose.

yosef999 · Answer

You can make it work but it's rare and for someone like me who don't really like chat and that stuff it just won't work I'm more like a face to face person.

Rudon00 · Answer

I do believe Healthy and last relationships can be found online just as much as real face time dating. I have once tried a dating Christian site. unfortunately I did not find anyone

red_knight · Answer

I would like to try it.. meet people from around the world and talk to them, hear new things and find out more from different walks of life is so cool..

zagor · Answer

I've done it, and had no success. But I do know people who met their sig others on dating sites. News flash - NOT Tinder.

Aquariusmystery · Answer

I met my boyfriend on tinder and we’ve been together 4 years this summer.

Anonymous · Answer

Much nicer than nowadays and ldr is okay too. It al depends on the person.

Pudsmucker · Answer

I would try online dating. If it ever comes to that. I have been married 44 years

one1wild00 · Answer

I've tried it, it's worked for friends with benefits so far. curious to see what happens long term.

Anonymous · Answer

I think it’s promising but the free sites have fakes and scammers to weed through

flirtatiousgirl · Answer

I had but he ghosted me in 25 March

Irunya41 · Answer

I want to try but I'm nervous definitely

AlwaysBelieving · Answer

They can be.  i just personally believe in it.

clampfan101 · Answer

For some people. Apparently not me.

Iron_Man · Answer

Nope too many gold digging

legalboxers · Answer

loosing hope... slowly

PerfectDark_Joe · Answer

I think it fails more often than not.

serious · Answer

No. I don't.

SignedAutographs · Answer

I don't

driven159 · Answer

too many fakes

guyinterested · Answer

yes works for me

Anonymous · Answer

I would like to try

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