Why is no one intrested in me?

[akrs_10]

[SueShe]

For someone to be interested in you, you have to work on yourself to make them want to be interested.

But perhaps it is more of a blessing than anything else because nowadays, young men are basically only interested in a woman if they can be intimate with them. That is unfortunate that society has become so superficial and pathetic.

If you have not found the right person, don't despair because at least like that, you eliminate all those that are only interested in your body and not your intellect, character and personality. Those are the people you have to seek because those are the real keepers, not those that just want to get into your pants and then leave.

[akrs_10]

They only are interested in girls that are pick me girls that try too hard I'm the quiet and mysterious one

[SueShe]

Then you are the real challenge for men and they don't like that because that requires too much involvement to get to your soul.

Perhaps you can join a club or take up a hobby where you can meet other people that share the same interests as you do. This way, you single out all those that are after you for the sex only and you can start friendships with those that have something in common with you. Good luck.

[akrs_10]

Yeah thnx

[UniquelyBasic]

It could be multiple reasons. You can't just expect people to just want you if you dont give them a reason too. Whether that be to work on your body or to work on yourself mentally and career wise, you have to do things for yourself before involving someone else in your life.

[akrs_10]

They only like pick me girls so I can't do anything about it

[GingerGuy]

You're not alone, nobody is interested in me either.

[akrs_10]

We can be interested in each other?

[GingerGuy]

Maybe, but I think we probably live too far apart unfortunately.

[akrs_10]

And our age difference is big too

[GingerGuy]

:( Well keep searching, you'll find someone :) I'm a guy so it's worse for me, and older lol.

[akrs_10]

Guys can get girls easily you just have to pick a girl and start to flirt with her but girls have to wait for the guys to pick them and unfortunately no one likes me so #aloneforever

[GingerGuy]

Try approaching some you like yourself. Even if you just go up and try to start a conversation. Lots of guys feel the very same way women do about approaching and simply don't (like women). And lots of guys would love if women approached them.

[akrs_10]

I've tried he unfollowed and blocked me

[Anonymous]

You tall? Too beautiful? Maybe intimidating atitude

[akrs_10]

I'm tall and mysterious I think I don't know myself

[Opinion Owner]

That's why you seem intimidating

[Opinion Owner]

How tall are you?

[akrs_10]

Average 172cm

[Opinion Owner]

That's really tall compared to me :/
Scary

[akrs_10]

Are u a boy?

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah... i am a male /boy. so?
Why?

[akrs_10]

No boys are taller than girls most of the time so I ask that's why

[Opinion Owner]

Now you insulting me and making me feel insecure and inferior about my lack of height :/
I ain't a male? Is it?
Unmanly? Emasculated?

[akrs_10]

Well you said too I'm too tall for a girl

[akrs_10]

And called me scary

[Opinion Owner]

So you felt bad... that i called you are too tall and that's intimidating or scary to me since j am short man? You could have taken it as a compliment... being tall is nice and people could do anything to be tall

[Opinion Owner]

@akrs_10 and yes to me tall women are really beautiful attractive and seek my attention more than shorter women... but at the sae time they make me feel bad, insecure, inferior about my lack of height... also i feel i am worthless and not enough for a tall woman

[akrs_10]

If women are taller than you then you don't need to feel insecure height doesn't matter

[Opinion Owner]

Seriously? Height doesn't matter? A tall woman makes me feel really bad and inferior... although tall women are sexy and way more attractive to me... but i feel am not worthy of them

[akrs_10]

What your height?

[Opinion Owner]

169 cm

[akrs_10]

Pretty tall u are

[Opinion Owner]

Ehh now that's sarcasm?

[akrs_10]

I'm just 3cm taller than you and you feel insecure

[Opinion Owner]

But you are a woman... you already 3 cm taller than me... you'd look much taller anyway and if you wear heels you'd tower over me.
As you said a man is supposed to be taller than women...
I would be below your eye level

[akrs_10]

There are so many celebrity couples in which women are taller than men so it doesn't matter

[Opinion Owner]

It looks odd funny and ridiculous to me
It makes me feel emasculated, hurts my ego and makes me feel inferior whenever a woman is my height or taller

[akrs_10]

Then you are with the problem who thinks that women of all heights are gorgeous

[Opinion Owner]

Sorry? Yes j feel tall women especially are gorgeous sexy and attractive... but the problem is i am short... not fit enough for them...

[akrs_10]

Then it's your complex try to feel positive about your height

[Opinion Owner]

It's just 169 cm... that's a girlie height... how to feel nice about it

[akrs_10]

Don't shame girls on their height

[Opinion Owner]

What? How am I shaming girls on their height? If anything i find tall girls better , more attractive, more sexy and beautiful...
Although at the same time I feel i am not worthy/good enough for them since i am a short man

[akrs_10]

You said that it was girlie height

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah so.
You said it too boys are (supposed) to be generally taller...
I didn't mean to insult any girl because of height

[akrs_10]

I said most not all

[Opinion Owner]

You don't mind short men?

[akrs_10]

Nope

[Opinion Owner]

How much shorter is accepted?

[akrs_10]

Taller than 165cm

[Opinion Owner]

165 would also be okay?

[akrs_10]

Yes it's ok

[Opinion Owner]

I see. Body type?

[akrs_10]

Not too thin not too big

[Opinion Owner]

What's your body type

[akrs_10]

What's your?

[Opinion Owner]

Slim fit
And yours?

[akrs_10]

Why are you asking this?

[Opinion Owner]

Wanna imagine you

[akrs_10]

I'm medium

[Opinion Owner]

What weight

[akrs_10]

I don't know

[Avicenna]

Maybe no one knows you’re looking?

[akrs_10]

How to tell?

[Avicenna]

Someone would need tobtest you., Are you OK with asking guys out?

[Avicenna]

* to tell

[akrs_10]

Yes I'm ok

[lpoots]

your trying to hard

[akrs_10]

I'm not even trying they just ignore me before even get to know me

[lpoots]

join a club
find people with the same interests
go to gigs